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If I could wave a magic wand and change just one thing about love…
I would make it easier for women to walk away from men who can’t or don’t love them.
Sometimes I think we’re suckers for punishment. 😉 [Read more…] about 3 Signs He Will Break Your Heart
If you want to shame a woman, just make a critical comment about her libido.
We’re not supposed to want it too much or too little.
If we aren’t sexual enough, we’re frigid. If we’re TOO sexual, we’re sluts. [Read more…] about How Female Desire is Different from Male Desire
What makes you a catch?
What makes ANY man lucky to be with you?
Can you think of, oh, say 5 reasons?
When I ask women do this exercise, they tend to answer with things like: [Read more…] about If He Won’t Do This, You’re in Trouble
You know how great it feels when you’re getting checked out by someone you’re attracted to?
His gaze flicks down and back up again. His lips quirk, his eyes soften, there’s this satisfied expression on his face.
Seeing his response to you turns YOU on… [Read more…] about Make Him Feel Desired
Are you tired of being “nice”?
You know what I mean:
“I think you’re nice, but I’m just not attracted to you.”
What does THAT mean? [Read more…] about This Makes Him Desire You
Did you know that there are tons of websites out there selling programs that teach men how to make women want to sleep with them?
Here’s one example: [Read more…] about The Secret World of Men’s Dating Advice (And Why It’s Not So Different From Ours)
As a parent, I often find myself in the position of having to explain boys to my daughter.
She wants to know, “Why are boys so WEIRD??”
Why were the boys who were so nice last year—really good friends, really fun to play with—now suddenly such jerks? [Read more…] about Ask Him This Weirdly Revealing Question
Fifteen years ago, I interviewed a number of men who made their living teaching men how to pick up women.
I listened as they explained the ways they teach men to approach women, to be more compelling, to escalate physically, and how to feel confident as a man. [Read more…] about 3 Reasons Why Guys Feel Insecure
In my last post we looked at some simple ways to start increasing your self-knowledge in relationships.
Whether you prefer to talk about zodiac signs or attachment styles, whatever gets you thinking more deeply about who you are and why you act the way you do is going to help. [Read more…] about Why People Marry Who They Marry
Back in my late twenties, I was a guinea pig for love.
I was living in a city that made it easy to date. I worked in the city center, where I could pop out to a coffee date on my lunch break. I rewrote my online dating profile every three months. [Read more…] about 3 Types of Men & How to Attract Them
