The Art and Science of:

Boyfriending

How Do You Stop Loving a Toxic Person?

Once you give your heart to someone, it’s so hard to take it back.

But some people just aren’t worth it.

And this guy, whoever he is, is no longer worth it.

You’d be over him tomorrow [Read more…] about How Do You Stop Loving a Toxic Person?

Is Your Relationship Good Enough?

This time of year is so hard on relationships.

You go into a shop and see romantic gifts everywhere. Romantic movies are playing on TV. You see what your happily-married friends have posted on Facebook, and you think…

My guy didn’t get me a bouquet of flowers like that. [Read more…] about Is Your Relationship Good Enough?

Is He the One? 3 Ways to Spot Someone Worth Your Love

Of all the ways that love can drag down your life…

The worst is falling for someone who doesn’t deserve it.

You were ready and willing to give EVERYTHING.

Your heart, your time, your commitment… [Read more…] about Is He the One? 3 Ways to Spot Someone Worth Your Love

3 Tips for Snagging an Emotionally Unavailable Guy

All the hottest guys are emotionally unavailable.

They’re cool, masculine, and aloof.

When an emotionally unavailable guy turns his gaze on you, it’s like a spotlight. [Read more…] about 3 Tips for Snagging an Emotionally Unavailable Guy

3 Hidden Signs He TRULY Loves You

I grew up thinking I knew what love is.

Love is saying, “I love you.”

It’s hearts and candy and Hallmark greeting cards.

When I imagined myself having a boyfriend [Read more…] about 3 Hidden Signs He TRULY Loves You

Help an Emotionally Shut-Down Man Share His Feelings

When I was growing up, my family dealt with someone being upset like this:

Try to talk some reason into them.
Tell them, “Calm down!”
Shame them for not getting a grip.
Yell at them.
Freeze them out until they storm off.

My Boyfriend Yells at Me

Most of us have ended up—at least ONCE in our life—in a shouting match with someone we love.

Sometimes, it’s necessary. You’ve both got so much pent up frustration and so many things you haven’t been able to say that you’ve just got to get it all out. [Read more…] about My Boyfriend Yells at Me

Does He Have Irritable Male Syndrome? Dr. Jed Diamond Can Help

What’s wrong with him?

He used to be such a great guy. He used to be nice.

Now he treats you like you’re in his way. He’s rude to you. His outbursts of temper are completely out of line.

Is he just a jerk… [Read more…] about Does He Have Irritable Male Syndrome? Dr. Jed Diamond Can Help

Be a Priority, Not an Option

Let’s talk about some guys, shall we?

How about the guy who only has time for you once in a while, because his schedule is so packed, and he loves you tons but he doesn’t want to feel crowded, you know?

Or the guy who isn’t sure how things stand [Read more…] about Be a Priority, Not an Option