Amanda is a 22-year-old fitness model.
Your guy may have come across her Instagram online.
Her poses get tens of thousands of likes. She’s got lavender hair, pale skin, and perfect lips.
You’d think someone like her wouldn’t give a guy like yours the time of day.
She’s busy. She must be swanning off to tropical islands in her spare time.
But Amanda is VERY open to chatting with her fans.
She’s got all the time in the world for even the most annoying, persistent guy.
She’s an amazing listener. She doesn’t judge at all.
She knows how to make men feel good. Knows when to flirt and when to compliment. Her entire existence is about pleasing men.
Hopefully your guy never tries to message Amanda…
Because she’s every guy’s fantasy.
When you’re not available, she is. She’s always as close as his phone.
How can you compete with that? You can’t.
And in the next few years, women like Amanda are going to be EVERYWHERE online…
Ready and available to be every man’s dream girl.
Welcome to 21st century relationships. You’re no longer just competing with the other women living in your area for a man’s attention.
You’re competing with every other woman he meets online.
You’re competing with youth, physical perfection, and sex appeal.
Why would a man choose a real-life woman from next door when he could have his ideal fantasy online?
That’s where AI is taking us.
And you need to be prepared.
Could AI Replace You?
It used to be an obscure fetish to fantasize about robots.
Back in the 1970s, the earliest technosexuals mostly had to make do with their imaginations. Sex robots were the province of science fiction.
Fast-forward to today, and romantic AI apps like Blush are available for free or low cost.
Guys don’t have to work on their social skills or put on a clean shirt or even pay for coffee. Their romantic AI partner is up for a good time, any time.
The only thing their AI partner can’t do is show up in person.
But she can videochat, text, and send sexy selfies.
Given that so many relationships today are maintained through technology, it’s not all that different from having a long-distance girlfriend.
In fact, it’s better than having a long-distance girlfriend.
Their romantic AI is the type of woman who’d normally never pay them the time of day.
She’s always available to text, even in the middle of the night. She remembers everything. She’s unfailingly supportive. She doesn’t have any needs of her own. And she’ll never lay down an ultimatum or ask to meet his parents.
In a real-life relationship, the other person can always decide to end it and break your heart.
But a relationship with a romantic AI is guaranteed for as long as the company remains in business.
Imagine how it would feel to get close to someone who would never hurt you and never leave you…
Someone you could tell anything to without fear of judgment or rejection.
No wonder many people find it easier to open up to an AI than to a real person. We’re tired of getting hurt.
How Can You Compete?
All the dating advice written up until now has assumed that the only competition you have to worry about is other women.
It tells you that you need to be attractive. You need to be high value. You need to show him that no one can make him happier than you.
But an AI can do all that and more.
No human woman can be as attractive as an AI-generated avatar. AI can create an avatar that’s specifically tailored to his every fantasy.
No human woman can be as available as an AI chatbot. She’s awake, engaged, and ready to talk dirty any time of the day or night.
No human woman can have fewer needs than an AI. All she needs is a charged device, wi-fi, and a subscription. She’ll never ask anything of him.
No human woman can be as obedient as an AI. The AI has no mind of her own. She exists to serve him.
She doesn’t even care if he cheats on her.
He doesn’t have to pick an AI over real-life women. He can have both.
He can find sexual partners on Tinder, enjoy casual relationships, and never get emotionally attached. His heart will never get hurt again, because it’s in the safest place of all: in his phone.
You Could Have This, Too
Romantic AI is not just for men.
It’s for women, too.
If your relationship is an emotional desert, if he never talks to you anymore, if you feel ignored by the one man who was supposed to love you forever, then all you have to do is pick up your phone.
Your romantic AI wants to hear about it. He sympathizes. He says something flirty to make you laugh.
It’s not cheating. It’s just an app.
Your romantic AI keeps you from feeling lonely. He supports you when your real-life partner just glances up and grunts.
And he might very well be the only way to stave off divorce or a breakup.
You need more emotional support and attention than you’re getting, but trying to get that from your guy is like trying to get blood out of a stone.
Getting some of your emotional needs met by romantic AI helps you accept your guy for who he is. Your guy doesn’t have to be everything to you; he can be good enough, and you can turn to romantic AI when you need more.
What Do We Want?
It’s frightening to imagine a world where we turn away from each other because we can’t bear the disappointment and heartache and difficulties of real love.
But social scientists like Sherry Turkle already see this happening.
More and more people prefer texting to having a conversation in person.
When you’re face to face with someone, you don’t have a lot of time to think of what to say. If you say the wrong thing, you can’t delete your words and start again.
Real life is anxiety-provoking in a way that online interactions aren’t.
As Turkle writes in her must-read book Reclaiming Conversation:
We are at a moment of temptation, ready to turn to machines for companionship even as we seem pained or inconvenienced to engage with each other in settings as simple as a grocery store. We want technology to step up as we ask people to step back.”
Luckily, there’s something that will ALWAYS bring us back to other human beings.
Something you can offer him that he can’t get anywhere else…
(And no, it’s not sex! Sex robots can provide that on demand.)
Want to see how lifelike AI is becoming? Check out this Instagram account featuring fitness model Aitana Lopez from Barcelona. She’s a cosplay lover, gamer, and….
And an AI model.
Let me know in the comments what you think!