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A woman told me something that stopped me cold.
Her boyfriend had gotten angry and attempted to assert control over an area of her life.
She knew he had no right to do that. But, she said… (and this was the red flag): [Read more…] about “He Makes Me Feel Bad About Myself”
Here’s how you scare men away in two easy steps:
Ouch – harsh, but true. [Read more…] about Scare Men Away in 2 Easy Steps
There’s something I’ve been hearing from a lot of women recently:
They’re done.
They’re done with struggling with the same old things.
[Read more…] about Quick “Man Reset” for Women Exhausted by Relationships
Trust matters more to some men than love.
Because “I love you” comes with a lot of baggage.
Meanwhile, “I trust you” is a vote of confidence that makes a man’s heart swell. [Read more…] about Can You Trust Him? Find Out With The Circle of Trust
Every single one of us needs boundaries.
These are the limits to how people can treat us.
If someone crosses one of our boundaries, we warn them. If they persist, we take action. [Read more…] about Examples of Boundaries
In the 20th Century:
Forgive & forget.
In the 21st Century:
Fix it.
Good people forgive and forget. [Read more…] about Should You Keep Forgiving Him?
In the 20th Century:
Love is putting others first.
In the 21st Century:
Love is inclusive. (It includes you.) [Read more…] about Prove Your Love by Putting Him First?
Love is supposed to be the easiest thing in the world.
Meet a man you like, fall in love together, live happily ever after. Just human nature, isn’t it?
<cue the hysterical laughter!!> [Read more…] about Afraid of Getting Into Another Bad Relationship?
Not all of us feel gung-ho about love.
Can I even say that? 😉
Despite the media and experts and influencers telling us that a man is the solution to every problem, we can see through the hype. [Read more…] about I Want Companionship But Not a Husband
When is the last time you enforced a boundary?
In other words…
You told someone that a certain behavior wasn’t okay. You explained what would happen if they did it again. They did it—AGAIN. You followed through. [Read more…] about Got Boundaries?
I’ve been thinking a lot about a friend of mine recently.
I wrote about her in The Pleasure Principle. I love to her to bits. She is such a great friend, she has such a big heart, and she is the perfect person to have fun with.
And yet she’s still single [Read more…] about Should You Keep Waiting for Him?
Of course men test us.
They drop hints to see if we pick them up.
They put us in crazy situations and watch how well we handle ourselves.
They put the moves on us to see how far they can go. [Read more…] about One Way Men Test You That You WANT To Fail!
You’ve got to give guys a chance.
If you close yourself off and you don’t open up and you don’t let yourself be vulnerable, your relationships won’t go anywhere.
But what if you have a hard time trusting men? [Read more…] about Hard Time Trusting Guys? Try This
A long time ago, I was talking to a fellow dating coach about a situation I was having with an ex.
“Go look up gaslighting,” he told me.
Then he told me a story about a woman from his past. [Read more…] about 3 Uncomfortable Truths I Discovered about Narcissism
So you’ve read all the advice about how to smash it in online dating…
But have you ever noticed that it never matches up with what ACTUALLY happens when you go out with someone?
Everyone assumes that you WANT to make this guy attracted to you. [Read more…] about Before You Use a Dating App, Read This
