The Art of Finding the Right Guy

Dating

Meet Your Soulmate – with Mat Shaffer

Every time you meet a guy, you hope for it.

That magical spark.

That deep connection.

That feeling you’ve known him before in another life. [Read more…] about Meet Your Soulmate – with Mat Shaffer

“Robot” Explains How to Find Love

When I typed “how to find love” into a chat box, I wasn’t expecting much.

What could artificial intelligence possibly know about the human heart?

But what appeared next on my screen was remarkably sound advice… [Read more…] about “Robot” Explains How to Find Love

Want to Meet Better Guys? Mat Shaffer Shows You How

Mat Shaffer knows one thing about you.

“You are worthy of being in the sort of relationship that lights you up and fulfills you, simply because you exist.”

Do you believe that, too? [Read more…] about Want to Meet Better Guys? Mat Shaffer Shows You How

5 Signs You Should Run Away FAST

When I started my YouTube channel five years ago, I thought I was creating a community for women to talk about our deepest questions in love.

I was partially right. [Read more…] about 5 Signs You Should Run Away FAST

You Don’t Have to Be Attractive

Don’t believe dating advice.

Because it will make you feel like you’re doing EVERYHING wrong, you’re not good enough, and there’s NO WAY a man would be attracted to a woman like you.

It should come with a disclaimer: [Read more…] about You Don’t Have to Be Attractive

Guys Don’t Date Like Gentlemen Anymore—Why?

Let’s be honest…

Guys today don’t treat women well.

Do you have to put up with it?

Or is there something you can do? [Read more…] about Guys Don’t Date Like Gentlemen Anymore—Why?

Stop Doing All the Work in Your Relationships

Are you tired of ending up in relationships where you do all the work?

Tell me if this is familiar:

Both of you put in a long day’s work, but when you come home, you start in on the 1001 chores that need doing… [Read more…] about Stop Doing All the Work in Your Relationships

So You Want to Be a Love Expert?

Everyone feels like an expert on love.

We’ve all been in relationships. We know how they work. We’ve dissected our friends’ relationships. Surely that gives us more expert status than the average psychology major! [Read more…] about So You Want to Be a Love Expert?

Need a BOSS Coach or a BIRTH Coach?

There are two kinds of dating coaches.

The first kind tells you what to do. Send this text. Say this to him. Do this next.

I call this the Boss Coach. You obey their instructions. (And if their advice doesn’t work, you know who to blame!) [Read more…] about Need a BOSS Coach or a BIRTH Coach?