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We don’t talk enough about relationship stress.
We all know work is stressful, and life is stressful, but man…
The people we love are the most stressful of all.
So what can we do about it? [Read more…] about When Your Relationship Is Just So STRESSFUL
I used to teach the Submission Code.
Not that I realized it. I thought I was just teaching fundamental dating principles.
Ideas like: [Read more…] about The Submission Code: Why It Attracts Men (And Why I Quit)
An article caught my eye the other day. It was on “5 Things Coaches Get Wrong About the Brain.”
One of them might shock you. It was the belief that people can change.
The author claimed that 10% of people (maybe as high as 20%) cannot change. [Read more…] about What If It’s Not That He WON’T Change… But He CAN’T?
What does your partner think when he looks at you?
It’s a simple but powerful question.
Because it reveals the subconscious truth about what you fear. [Read more…] about What He REALLY Sees When He Looks At You
Remember the days when you could actually get good advice on Google?
Now you just get generic lists or patronizing “do this” advice. Even the good information is getting drowned in a sea of copycat crap. [Read more…] about I Trained AI To Be My Love Coach (Here’s What It Found Out About Me)
On my birthday this year, I was gifted a beautiful teapot.
My friend told me that he thought we’d lost something by switching to mugs. The ceremony, the moment to breathe. [Read more…] about Does Your Guy Treat You Like A Teapot Or A Mug?
You know that electric feeling you get when someone looks at you like you’re the most interesting person in the room?
Most of us haven’t felt that in years… and it’s killing our relationships. [Read more…] about What Men Really Want From Women (It’s Not Your Body)
You might assume, from the media, that Americans have lost all their inhibitions around jumping into bed together.
Compared to our grandparents, surely we’re getting it on at record rates.
But the research is in… [Read more…] about When “Netflix and Chill” Really Does Mean Netflix
If the stats are right, 1 in 4 of you are using AI tools like ChatGPT or Claude on a weekly basis.
If you’re not one of them—and you don’t want to be—you can disregard this!
But for those of you already using these tools, I want to suggest some ways to apply them to your romantic relationships. [Read more…] about Ways ChatGPT Can Help You In Love
Tell me 3 reasons you don’t feel attractive.
Nearly all of us have times when we don’t feel attractive. [Read more…] about Men Struggle When Women Feel This Way
When you’re a grown woman, using the type of love advice that teenagers and thirsty 20-somethings use is humiliating.
You’re an adult. You don’t want to manipulate people.
You want something real. You don’t want to have to perform [Read more…] about 5 Things Grown-Ups Know About Love
It’s scary to consider the idea that love may not be the main emotion at play in your relationship.
You need to believe your partner loves you. Questioning that—even for a moment—can feel catastrophic. [Read more…] about Can You Love Each Other & Still Hate Each Other Sometimes?
Do you think it’s possible for a man to love you a lot and just never show it?
Do you think it’s possible for a man to be totally selfish and still love you?
Do you think it’s possible for a man to be incredibly hurtful and still love you? [Read more…] about Look For This Clue to How He Feels
I feel a bit cringe when I write anything about “How to Make a Man Love You More.”
Because there’s something important I’m leaving out.
You CAN’T make some men love you more. [Read more…] about His Love Capacity
I wish someone had taught me what I’m teaching you now.
Twenty years ago, I didn’t know how to fix a relationship or how to end it. I’d let things get so bad he’d break up with me.🤦♀️
Bad boyfriends broke me, but they also taught me the need to grow a backbone. [Read more…] about Difficult Relationships With Difficult Men Part III
