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We’re still paying the price for the bad advice men have been given.
By telling men they could take dominance as a shortcut to masculinity, we ended up with a bunch of man-boys.
They felt like men by bossing women around. [Read more…] about The Lie That Created a Generation of Man-Boys
The more your guy has to be “The Man,” the less he’s capable of loving you.
And I know how hard that is to hear.
Because manly men are so darn attractive. They make you go all gooey inside. [Read more…] about He Can’t Love You – Here’s Why
Here’s a bit of research that just came out:
When we’re under stress or feeling vulnerable, we’re more likely to choose dominant, overconfident partners.
And guess what kind of men tend to be dominant and overconfident? [Read more…] about Why Stressed Women Fall for Narcissists (And How to Stop)
Two years ago, I made a couple of videos on AI girlfriend apps.
My goal was to show their limitations. Technology can’t replace romantic partners. Human beings need other human beings to regulate their nervous system. [Read more…] about Women Are Replacing Men With AI
Do you have these three things in your life?
Remember the days when you could actually get good advice on Google?
Now you just get generic lists or patronizing “do this” advice. Even the good information is getting drowned in a sea of copycat crap. [Read more…] about I Trained AI To Be My Love Coach (Here’s What It Found Out About Me)
Ever heard of the term “boysober”?
It’s a hip way to talk about the choice to be celibate, and it’s a choice many young women feel is making them healthier.
They’re taking time for them. [Read more…] about The Boysober Trend
Are you upset that men have AI girlfriends?
Enough to take to YouTube and vent your outrage in a video?
No, I thought not. Me either.
But apparently a few female influencers are… [Read more…] about Is It Okay For Men To Have AI Girlfriends?
Over the past year, I’ve spent so much time listening to the voices of men.
Finding out how they feel about love…
How they feel about women…
What they’re worried about…
What they wish for.
And you know what surprised me? [Read more…] about What Men Are Struggling With
As you now know, men are feelings-driven creatures. (Don’t let him convince you otherwise!)
But they don’t broadcast their feelings because they don’t want anyone to know.
They don’t want to feel ashamed, powerless, inferior, or afraid. [Read more…] about Why Men Behave So Destructively in Relationships
No matter how old you are, that fleeting sense of insecurity about how you look never quite goes away.
Even if it’s just checking yourself in the mirror one last time before leaving the house, you want to look good.
You want other people to think you look good. [Read more…] about If Your Body Is A Book, What’s He Reading?
When you’re a grown woman, using the type of love advice that teenagers and thirsty 20-somethings use is humiliating.
You’re an adult. You don’t want to manipulate people.
You want something real. You don’t want to have to perform [Read more…] about 5 Things Grown-Ups Know About Love
In the 20th Century:
Make yourself lovable.
In the 21st Century:
Remove all barriers to love.
I would like to apologize. [Read more…] about Do You Have to Fix Yourself to Be Attractive
If you’ve ever complained about the opposite sex being flaky, superficial, noncommittal, only interested in using you, then you need to read the previous two posts in this series.
You’ll learn the real problem isn’t men or women; it’s immaturity. [Read more…] about Men Need to Chase – True or False?
So if you’re a woman who’s been complaining that guys today are flaky and superficial…
Or a guy who’s been saying that women today are flaky and superficial…
I’ve got a challenge for you. [Read more…] about Stop Attracting Flaky, Immature Partners
