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Dating Advice

When You Do Everything Right & Still Can’t Find Good Love

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Here’s something I didn’t understand back in my twenties:

You attract who you are.

Not what you WANT, but who you ARE.

That’s a quote from Mat Shaffer’s interview with me, [Read more…] about When You Do Everything Right & Still Can’t Find Good Love

Is He a Dater or a Relater?

dater or relater

In the 20th Century:
If a guy says he’s open to a relationship, he’s open to a relationship.

In the 21st Century:
His behavior will show you if he’s open to a relationship. [Read more…] about Is He a Dater or a Relater?

You’ll End Up Married, Won’t You?

woman with ring

In the 20th Century:
You deserve your own happy-ever-after.

In the 21st Century:
You have free will to make choices.

Back in the early days of my career, I used to reassure people: [Read more…] about You’ll End Up Married, Won’t You?

What’s Wrong With You??

what's wrong with you?

In the 20th Century:
It’s your responsibility to be attractive.

In the 21st Century:
It’s your “responsibility” to be attractive. (Airquotes intended.) [Read more…] about What’s Wrong With You??

Rethinking “Living Your Best Life”

living your best life

In the 20th Century:
Men are only attracted to women living their best life.

In the 21st Century:
Your best life may not leave you with room for anyone else.

I came of age in the 1990s, and all the women’s magazines I devoured told me the same thing: [Read more…] about Rethinking “Living Your Best Life”

The Experience He’s Seeking: Is It You?

the experience he's seeking

In the 20th Century:
He wants a catch.

In the 21st Century:
He wants someone who makes him feel alive.

Yes, you could be slim and gorgeous and accomplished and fascinating… [Read more…] about The Experience He’s Seeking: Is It You?

The Best Friend Test

best friends

In the 20th Century:
You have a spouse and a best friend.

In the 21st Century:
Your spouse is your best friend.

My grandmother never would have called her husband her best friend. [Read more…] about The Best Friend Test

You Never Have To Be Lonely Again

woman with phone on sofa

In the 20th Century:
When we’re lonely and yearn for companionship, we long for love.

In the 21st Century:
When we’re lonely and yearn for companionship, we unlock our phone. [Read more…] about You Never Have To Be Lonely Again

Your New Love Coach?

online advice

In the 20th Century:
You get love advice from experts, friends, family, and the media.

In the 21st Century:
You also get love advice from AI.

Have you asked ChatGPT for love advice? [Read more…] about Your New Love Coach?

You Should Ask Him Lots of Questions, Right?

dating couple

In the 20th Century:
Interrogate.

In the 21st Century:
Invite.

If you want to get to know someone, what’s the first thing you do? [Read more…] about You Should Ask Him Lots of Questions, Right?

Don’t Impress Him, PLEASE

couple on a date

In the 20th Century:
Impress.

In the 21st Century:
Connect.

No wonder we get so nervous about meeting new people. [Read more…] about Don’t Impress Him, PLEASE

Men Are All The Same

men

In the 20th Century:
All men are the same.

In the 21st Century:
Every man is different.

Pop psychology deals in stereotypes. [Read more…] about Men Are All The Same

From Serial Killers to Heartbreak: Rethinking Safety in Love

couple smiling

In the 20th Century:
Safety means making sure he’s not a serial killer or just wants to get in your pants.

In the 21st Century:
Safety means building trust, communication, boundaries, and accountability into your relationship. [Read more…] about From Serial Killers to Heartbreak: Rethinking Safety in Love

We Are Most Attracted To People Who…

kissing couple

In the 20th Century:
Attractiveness is objective.

In the 21st Century:
Attraction is subjective.

Line up a group of men in a row. [Read more…] about We Are Most Attracted To People Who…

Guys Just Care About Looks, Don’t They?

loving couple

In the 20th Century:
Appearance matters.

In the 21st Century:
Familiarity matters.

I can’t believe the wool has been pulled over our eyes for so long. [Read more…] about Guys Just Care About Looks, Don’t They?

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