In the 20th Century:
If a guy says he’s open to a relationship, he’s open to a relationship.
In the 21st Century:
His behavior will show you if he’s open to a relationship. [Read more…] about Is He a Dater or a Relater?
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Amy Waterman, M.A., is a Love Educator, Pleasure Revolutionary, and Author dedicated to helping women live their most brilliant life. Her work has appeared in over a dozen online courses, including The Pleasure Principle, Effortlessly Likable, Unleash Your Pleasure Power, and The Pleasure Diet.
In the 20th Century:
If a guy says he’s open to a relationship, he’s open to a relationship.
In the 21st Century:
His behavior will show you if he’s open to a relationship. [Read more…] about Is He a Dater or a Relater?
In the 20th Century:
Be more attractive to men.
In the 21st Century:
Practice the hard skills of loving.
It seemed so obvious at the time: [Read more…] about Don’t Work on Being More Attractive – Do THIS
In the 20th Century:
You deserve your own happy-ever-after.
In the 21st Century:
You have free will to make choices.
Back in the early days of my career, I used to reassure people: [Read more…] about You’ll End Up Married, Won’t You?
In the 20th Century:
Forgive & forget.
In the 21st Century:
Fix it.
Good people forgive and forget. [Read more…] about Should You Keep Forgiving Him?
In the 20th Century:
It’s your responsibility to be attractive.
In the 21st Century:
It’s your “responsibility” to be attractive. (Airquotes intended.) [Read more…] about What’s Wrong With You??
In the 20th Century:
Men are only attracted to women living their best life.
In the 21st Century:
Your best life may not leave you with room for anyone else.
I came of age in the 1990s, and all the women’s magazines I devoured told me the same thing: [Read more…] about Rethinking “Living Your Best Life”
In the 20th Century:
The best way to show him love is to do nice things for him.
In the 21st Century:
The best way to show him love is to understand him. [Read more…] about Be The Woman Who Truly “Gets” Him
In the 20th Century:
Men fall out of love because they stop finding their partner attractive.
In the 21st Century:
Men fall out of love because they don’t want to be a disappointment. [Read more…] about Surprising Reason Men Fall Out of Love
In the 20th Century:
If you do the right thing, everything will be all right.
In the 21st Century:
All you can do is make healthy choices for yourself and the relationship. [Read more…] about Older, Wiser, and Readier for Lasting Love
In the 20th Century:
What you do in bed is make it or break it.
In the 21st Century:
What you do when you hurt each other is make it or break it. [Read more…] about The REAL Relationship Litmus Test
In the 20th Century:
He wants a catch.
In the 21st Century:
He wants someone who makes him feel alive.
Yes, you could be slim and gorgeous and accomplished and fascinating… [Read more…] about The Experience He’s Seeking: Is It You?
In the 20th Century:
If you’re good enough, he’ll stay.
In the 21st Century:
If you create something good together, he’ll stay.
It feels so personal. [Read more…] about Is It Your Fault It Didn’t Work Out?
In the 20th Century:
You marry each other.
In the 21st Century:
You also marry each other’s parents, grandparents, and ancestors. [Read more…] about Marry Him, Marry His Family
In the 20th Century:
Love is putting others first.
In the 21st Century:
Love is inclusive. (It includes you.) [Read more…] about Prove Your Love by Putting Him First?
In the 20th Century:
The goal is to be loved.
In the 21st Century:
The goal is to live a life of love.
Everyone wants to be loved. [Read more…] about Girls Just Wanna Be Loved
Right now is the time to create the life you deserve. Say goodbye to everything that’s held you back. It’s time to let your inner brilliance shine!
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