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In my last post I talked about radical self-care, and in this post I want to talk about radical self-acceptance.
Radical self-care is the idea that you should treat yourself with the same loving kindness and care you treat others. [Read more…] about The Secret to Love in Real Life
Anne Lamott has some unusual dating advice.
About 6 years ago, she was overwhelmed. She was in her sixties, helping her son raise her grandson, and she was in full people-pleasing mode… [Read more…] about She Met Her Future Husband in 3 Months By Doing This
There’s a trick to feeling more confident, and it involves impersonating Wonder Woman.
No joke!
Social scientist Amy Cuddy found that standing in a power pose [Read more…] about Become More Attractive Instantly
When you center your pleasure, magical things happen.
I don’t know about you, but I wasn’t raised to consider my own pleasure. I was taught that my job was to please others. If I did a good job, I’d get approved of. [Read more…] about Celebrate Your Pleasure
You know how great it feels when you’re getting checked out by someone you’re attracted to?
His gaze flicks down and back up again. His lips quirk, his eyes soften, there’s this satisfied expression on his face.
Seeing his response to you turns YOU on… [Read more…] about Make Him Feel Desired
Are you tired of being “nice”?
You know what I mean:
“I think you’re nice, but I’m just not attracted to you.”
What does THAT mean? [Read more…] about This Makes Him Desire You
I was listening to my favorite podcast recently when a guest casually mentioned a fact that made my job drop.
In research for her book This Chair Rocks, author and activist Ashton Applewhite discovered that the people with the best sex lives are “not the thinnest, not the youngest [Read more…] about Who’s Got the BEST Love Lives? These Folks
Did you know that there are tons of websites out there selling programs that teach men how to make women want to sleep with them?
Here’s one example: [Read more…] about The Secret World of Men’s Dating Advice (And Why It’s Not So Different From Ours)
As a parent, I often find myself in the position of having to explain boys to my daughter.
She wants to know, “Why are boys so WEIRD??”
Why were the boys who were so nice last year—really good friends, really fun to play with—now suddenly such jerks? [Read more…] about Ask Him This Weirdly Revealing Question
Fifteen years ago, I interviewed a number of men who made their living teaching men how to pick up women.
I listened as they explained the ways they teach men to approach women, to be more compelling, to escalate physically, and how to feel confident as a man. [Read more…] about 3 Reasons Why Guys Feel Insecure
