Your Brilliance Expert Author

Amy Waterman

You know it’s true. You’ve got to love yourself before someone else can love you.

If you don’t believe you’re lovable, how can you let anyone in? You’ll push people away. Or you’ll attract men who don’t really love you, because you don’t believe you deserve better. [Read more…] about You’ve Got to Love Yourself Before You Can Be Loved … Right?

The #1 reason you don’t have the love you want is because of something about the way you look… am I right?

If only you looked different—like a Victoria’s Secret model, or a dancer in a hip hop video, or even just like yourself through a Snapchat filter—then your problem would be solved. [Read more…] about Guys Don’t Notice Me Because of How I Look

If you wash your hair with shampoo, spray on deodorant, and slip into freshly-washed clothes, you’ve got a problem.

Every single product you’ve used, from your shampoo to your deodorant to your washing detergent… [Read more…] about A Scent Like No One Else’s

You know it’s true…

Men run a mile from commitment.

They see relationships as a prison.

Standing up for myself makes me want to die.

I end up shaking inside. My body aches all over.

I have this irrational fear that I’m going to get punished for saying anything. You’re not supposed to call anyone out. [Read more…] about 4 Rules for Dealing with Nasty Communication from an Ex

Everyone knows that men are hunters at heart.

If you don’t run, they can’t chase.

So play hard to get, keep him on his toes, and don’t let him know you’re interested.

What he says is never what he means.

Guys play games. They make you believe one thing, only to turn around and do the complete opposite.

So never take him at face value. Always get a second opinion from your girlfriends. And try to stay one step ahead of him. [Read more…] about Why Are Men So Difficult and Confusing?

Many years ago, as a teenager with spotty skin and no money, I tried making my first homemade face masks.

I mixed oatmeal with water and smeared it on my face. As it dried, it hardened on my skin. Smiling hurt. I washed off the mess and peered hopefully at my reflection. Nope. Still spotty. [Read more…] about Why You Should Be Putting Food in Your Face Mask

It’s all David Buss’ fault.

David Buss is an evolutionary psychologist who popularized the theory that evolution drives mate preference.

You know the one. Women seek high-status men with resources [Read more…] about What Men REALLY Want

When you’re tired, what do you reach for?

Coffee? Red Bull? Something from the vending machine?

Caffeine and sugar are a godsend when it comes to getting through a long day. No excuse for a flagging performance when there’s a Starbucks just down the road. [Read more…] about 4 Natural Energy Boosters (That Will Stop You Reaching for the Candy Jar)