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Amy Waterman

Don’t Work on Being More Attractive – Do THIS

woman putting on makeup

In the 20th Century:
Be more attractive to men.

In the 21st Century:
Practice the hard skills of loving.

It seemed so obvious at the time: [Read more…] about Don’t Work on Being More Attractive – Do THIS

You’ll End Up Married, Won’t You?

woman with ring

In the 20th Century:
You deserve your own happy-ever-after.

In the 21st Century:
You have free will to make choices.

Back in the early days of my career, I used to reassure people: [Read more…] about You’ll End Up Married, Won’t You?

Should You Keep Forgiving Him?

forgive and forget

In the 20th Century:
Forgive & forget.

In the 21st Century:
Fix it.

Good people forgive and forget. [Read more…] about Should You Keep Forgiving Him?

What’s Wrong With You??

what's wrong with you?

In the 20th Century:
It’s your responsibility to be attractive.

In the 21st Century:
It’s your “responsibility” to be attractive. (Airquotes intended.) [Read more…] about What’s Wrong With You??

Rethinking “Living Your Best Life”

living your best life

In the 20th Century:
Men are only attracted to women living their best life.

In the 21st Century:
Your best life may not leave you with room for anyone else.

I came of age in the 1990s, and all the women’s magazines I devoured told me the same thing: [Read more…] about Rethinking “Living Your Best Life”

Be The Woman Who Truly “Gets” Him

be the one who truly gets him

In the 20th Century:
The best way to show him love is to do nice things for him.

In the 21st Century:
The best way to show him love is to understand him. [Read more…] about Be The Woman Who Truly “Gets” Him

Surprising Reason Men Fall Out of Love

why he falls out of love

In the 20th Century:
Men fall out of love because they stop finding their partner attractive.

In the 21st Century:
Men fall out of love because they don’t want to be a disappointment. [Read more…] about Surprising Reason Men Fall Out of Love

Older, Wiser, and Readier for Lasting Love

older and wiser

In the 20th Century:
If you do the right thing, everything will be all right.

In the 21st Century:
All you can do is make healthy choices for yourself and the relationship. [Read more…] about Older, Wiser, and Readier for Lasting Love

The REAL Relationship Litmus Test

relationship litmus test

In the 20th Century:
What you do in bed is make it or break it.

In the 21st Century:
What you do when you hurt each other is make it or break it. [Read more…] about The REAL Relationship Litmus Test

The Experience He’s Seeking: Is It You?

the experience he's seeking

In the 20th Century:
He wants a catch.

In the 21st Century:
He wants someone who makes him feel alive.

Yes, you could be slim and gorgeous and accomplished and fascinating… [Read more…] about The Experience He’s Seeking: Is It You?

Is It Your Fault It Didn’t Work Out?

is it your fault?

In the 20th Century:
If you’re good enough, he’ll stay.

In the 21st Century:
If you create something good together, he’ll stay.

It feels so personal. [Read more…] about Is It Your Fault It Didn’t Work Out?

Marry Him, Marry His Family

marry his family

In the 20th Century:
You marry each other.

In the 21st Century:
You also marry each other’s parents, grandparents, and ancestors. [Read more…] about Marry Him, Marry His Family

Prove Your Love by Putting Him First?

put him first

In the 20th Century:
Love is putting others first.

In the 21st Century:
Love is inclusive. (It includes you.) [Read more…] about Prove Your Love by Putting Him First?

Girls Just Wanna Be Loved

woman thinking

In the 20th Century:
The goal is to be loved.

In the 21st Century:
The goal is to live a life of love.

Everyone wants to be loved. [Read more…] about Girls Just Wanna Be Loved

Wish You Could Change Him? What That’s Really Telling You…

change him

In the 20th Century:
Change him.

In the 21st Century:
Change yourself.

When you’re frustrated with your love life – you want him to treat you better [Read more…] about Wish You Could Change Him? What That’s Really Telling You…

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