So if you’re a woman who’s been complaining that guys today are flaky and superficial…
Or a guy who’s been saying that women today are flaky and superficial…
I’ve got a challenge for you. [Read more…] about Stop Attracting Flaky, Immature Partners
Women Are Done Dating. So Are Men. Now What?
Last summer I spent some months researching what men online were saying about love and relationships.
And the fact is…
A lot of men are opting out of the dating game because they just don’t think it’s worth the effort. [Read more…] about Women Are Done Dating. So Are Men. Now What?
Black Cat Energy Gone Wrong
Have you heard about “black cat energy”?
It’s all over the internet. Videos on this topic have been racking up hundreds of thousands of views.
It’s the idea that, as a woman, you should exude the same kind of energy as [Read more…] about Black Cat Energy Gone Wrong
Is He Chasing Thrills… Or Choosing You?
There’s plenty of advice out there on how to drag a man across the Gap.
You have to inspire his devotion. You’ve got to enchant him.
You have to help him through his bonding stages. [Read more…] about Is He Chasing Thrills… Or Choosing You?
Watch Out For The “Gap” Between Fun and Forever
What is the Gap?
It’s the dark, yawning space between the rush of new romance and the reality of building a life together.
It’s the chasm between fun and forever. Between dopamine and devotion.
And if you can’t cross it, the relationship never makes it. [Read more…] about Watch Out For The “Gap” Between Fun and Forever
How to Stay Smart (And Sane) When Texts Lie
As of 2025, you can no longer be sure he isn’t writing his texts without the help of AI. What does that mean for you?
It means you’ve got to adapt. Here are 3 good places to start. [Read more…] about How to Stay Smart (And Sane) When Texts Lie
Why You Might Never Trust a Love Text Again
A while back, a friend started texting me back differently.
Her replies to my texts didn’t sound like her. They were short and chipper—sometimes with emojis. She didn’t use emojis. What was going on? [Read more…] about Why You Might Never Trust a Love Text Again
Does He Know You Better Than You Know Yourself?
When I first came on the scene 20 years ago, men were already teaching each other a clever way to attract women:
Just use psychology to tell her things about herself.
Surprise her with these pseudo “deep insights” that amaze her with their accuracy [Read more…] about Does He Know You Better Than You Know Yourself?
Before You Offer Him A Shoulder To Cry On…
I caught up with the mother of one of my high school classmates the other day.
She told me that my friend was doing great. Still single! Had her own business. Did her own thing. Was fed up with men after a slew of bad dates. [Read more…] about Before You Offer Him A Shoulder To Cry On…
The Body Test
Tough Truth:
Hiding how you look won’t make him fall in love with you.
Lead with your beautiful body—let it filter out the wrong men.
Women who aren’t body confident often make one terrible mistake: [Read more…] about The Body Test
Stop Impressing Men
Tough truth:
Impressing him won’t make him love you.
Having fun together is what makes him want to see more of you.
The “catch” model of dating is outdated. [Read more…] about Stop Impressing Men
Don’t Mistake The High for Love
Tough truth:
We blame men for breaking our hearts.
But sometimes we break our own hearts.
We mistake the high for love.
You know the high I mean: [Read more…] about Don’t Mistake The High for Love
What if He’s Not Making A Move… On Purpose?
In my last post, I shared why I’m a fan of the Slow Burn.
There’s something delicious about drawing out the romantic tension over weeks and months. [Read more…] about What if He’s Not Making A Move… On Purpose?
Fast Spark or Slow Burn? Here’s What Works
When a new relationship begins, there are two ways it can go.
The first is the fast path.
You meet someone. There’s instant chemistry. You fall into bed, and the sparks determine whether you keep seeing each other. [Read more…] about Fast Spark or Slow Burn? Here’s What Works
Watch Out For Dangerous Love Advice
I’m not courting controversy, but I really believe this:
Much of the dating and relationship advice out there is actually dangerous.
That’s a strong word, but it’s the right one.
It’s designed to make you appeal to the type of men most likely to take advantage of you. [Read more…] about Watch Out For Dangerous Love Advice
