Love in the 21st century has a huge obstacle it’s never faced before:
The internet.
Not only are devices replacing in-person communication… [Read more…] about This Is Why Men Don’t Treat You Respectfully
Your Guide to the Male Brain
Understanding Men
Why Men Behave So Destructively in Relationships
As you now know, men are feelings-driven creatures. (Don’t let him convince you otherwise!)
But they don’t broadcast their feelings because they don’t want anyone to know.
They don’t want to feel ashamed, powerless, inferior, or afraid. [Read more…] about Why Men Behave So Destructively in Relationships
5 Things Grown-Ups Know About Love
When you’re a grown woman, using the type of love advice that teenagers and thirsty 20-somethings use is humiliating.
You’re an adult. You don’t want to manipulate people.
You want something real. You don’t want to have to perform [Read more…] about 5 Things Grown-Ups Know About Love
The No Win Relationship
Are you in a relationship where your guy always has to win?
- When you have an argument, he never concedes or agrees you have a good point.
- When you need to make a decision, it’s his way or no way. [Read more…] about The No Win Relationship
Are Men Less Emotional? Neuroscience Says No
So there’s this idea that women are the ones with all the feelings, not men.
Women cry. Men fix.
Women feel. Men think.
Women are emotional and expressive. Men are logical and stoic. [Read more…] about Are Men Less Emotional? Neuroscience Says No
Men Need to Chase – True or False?
If you’ve ever complained about the opposite sex being flaky, superficial, noncommittal, only interested in using you, then you need to read the previous two posts in this series.
You’ll learn the real problem isn’t men or women; it’s immaturity. [Read more…] about Men Need to Chase – True or False?
Women Are Done Dating. So Are Men. Now What?
Last summer I spent some months researching what men online were saying about love and relationships.
And the fact is…
A lot of men are opting out of the dating game because they just don’t think it’s worth the effort. [Read more…] about Women Are Done Dating. So Are Men. Now What?
Is He Chasing Thrills… Or Choosing You?
There’s plenty of advice out there on how to drag a man across the Gap.
You have to inspire his devotion. You’ve got to enchant him.
You have to help him through his bonding stages. [Read more…] about Is He Chasing Thrills… Or Choosing You?
Watch Out For The “Gap” Between Fun and Forever
What is the Gap?
It’s the dark, yawning space between the rush of new romance and the reality of building a life together.
It’s the chasm between fun and forever. Between dopamine and devotion.
And if you can’t cross it, the relationship never makes it. [Read more…] about Watch Out For The “Gap” Between Fun and Forever
Does He Know You Better Than You Know Yourself?
When I first came on the scene 20 years ago, men were already teaching each other a clever way to attract women:
Just use psychology to tell her things about herself.
Surprise her with these pseudo “deep insights” that amaze her with their accuracy [Read more…] about Does He Know You Better Than You Know Yourself?
What if He’s Not Making A Move… On Purpose?
In my last post, I shared why I’m a fan of the Slow Burn.
There’s something delicious about drawing out the romantic tension over weeks and months. [Read more…] about What if He’s Not Making A Move… On Purpose?
Watch Out For Dangerous Love Advice
I’m not courting controversy, but I really believe this:
Much of the dating and relationship advice out there is actually dangerous.
That’s a strong word, but it’s the right one.
It’s designed to make you appeal to the type of men most likely to take advantage of you. [Read more…] about Watch Out For Dangerous Love Advice
Look For This Clue to How He Feels
Do you think it’s possible for a man to love you a lot and just never show it?
Do you think it’s possible for a man to be totally selfish and still love you?
Do you think it’s possible for a man to be incredibly hurtful and still love you? [Read more…] about Look For This Clue to How He Feels
His Love Capacity
I feel a bit cringe when I write anything about “How to Make a Man Love You More.”
Because there’s something important I’m leaving out.
You CAN’T make some men love you more. [Read more…] about His Love Capacity
Difficult Relationships With Difficult Men Part III
I wish someone had taught me what I’m teaching you now.
Twenty years ago, I didn’t know how to fix a relationship or how to end it. I’d let things get so bad he’d break up with me.🤦♀️
Bad boyfriends broke me, but they also taught me the need to grow a backbone. [Read more…] about Difficult Relationships With Difficult Men Part III
