The Art of Finding the Right Guy

Dating

5 Signs You Should Run Away FAST

When I started my YouTube channel five years ago, I thought I was creating a community for women to talk about our deepest questions in love.

I was partially right. [Read more…] about 5 Signs You Should Run Away FAST

You Don’t Have to Be Attractive

Don’t believe dating advice.

Because it will make you feel like you’re doing EVERYHING wrong, you’re not good enough, and there’s NO WAY a man would be attracted to a woman like you.

It should come with a disclaimer: [Read more…] about You Don’t Have to Be Attractive

Guys Don’t Date Like Gentlemen Anymore—Why?

Let’s be honest…

Guys today don’t treat women well.

Do you have to put up with it?

Or is there something you can do? [Read more…] about Guys Don’t Date Like Gentlemen Anymore—Why?

Stop Doing All the Work in Your Relationships

Are you tired of ending up in relationships where you do all the work?

Tell me if this is familiar:

Both of you put in a long day’s work, but when you come home, you start in on the 1001 chores that need doing… [Read more…] about Stop Doing All the Work in Your Relationships

So You Want to Be a Love Expert?

Everyone feels like an expert on love.

We’ve all been in relationships. We know how they work. We’ve dissected our friends’ relationships. Surely that gives us more expert status than the average psychology major! [Read more…] about So You Want to Be a Love Expert?

Need a BOSS Coach or a BIRTH Coach?

There are two kinds of dating coaches.

The first kind tells you what to do. Send this text. Say this to him. Do this next.

I call this the Boss Coach. You obey their instructions. (And if their advice doesn’t work, you know who to blame!) [Read more…] about Need a BOSS Coach or a BIRTH Coach?

Does Your Partner Have to Be a Perfect Match?

How much is your guy like you?

Do you think alike?

Do you share the same beliefs, values, and preferences?

Do you think those similarities are the reason you get along so well? [Read more…] about Does Your Partner Have to Be a Perfect Match?

Connect With Him

It is SO easy to create an emotional connection with another woman.

You could be standing in line at the grocery store and strike up a heartfelt conversation with the woman in front of you.

But creating an emotional connection with a man? [Read more…] about Connect With Him

Help! I’m Invisible to Men

Former supermodel Christie Brinkley has had a hard time finding men her age to date.

Why?

Because she feels invisible to men in their 60s. [Read more…] about Help! I’m Invisible to Men

3 Signs He’s Not Worth Another Date

As much as online dating is a ton of work without much reward, it does teach you a lot about human nature.

The way men present themselves when you meet them for the first time is INCREDIBLY revealing. [Read more…] about 3 Signs He’s Not Worth Another Date

The Secret to Love in Real Life

I hope you’ve taken on board my message about radical self-care. Now it’s time to take things up a notch.

Today I want to talk about radical self-acceptance.

Radical self-care is the idea that you should treat yourself with the same loving kindness and care you treat others… [Read more…] about The Secret to Love in Real Life

She Met Her Future Husband in 3 Months By Doing This

Anne Lamott has some unusual dating advice.

About 6 years ago, she was overwhelmed. She was in her sixties, helping her son raise her grandson, and she was in full people-pleasing mode… [Read more…] about She Met Her Future Husband in 3 Months By Doing This