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Have you ever been with a partner who had temper tantrums?
When he got upset, he didn’t catch himself before saying something he regretted—he SAID it. He said LOTS of things… and didn’t regret it afterwards. [Read more…] about Fighting a Lot? You Need These 3 Essential Conflict Skills
Everyone will throw advice at you on “how to attract a man,” but what about asking whether he’s even WORTH attracting in the first place?
No one is doublechecking to make sure that the man you want is worth the investment. It’s assumed that if you want him, you can have him. [Read more…] about What Makes a Man Change (So He Loves You Again)?
If I could wave a magic wand and change just one thing about love…
I would make it easier for women to walk away from men who can’t or don’t love them.
Sometimes I think we’re suckers for punishment. 😉 [Read more…] about 3 Signs He Will Break Your Heart
When I first started my career 20 years ago, I was struck by the desperation of the women who wrote to me seeking answers.
They weren’t looking for advice on how to have healthier, happier relationships.
They were desperate for something to do right NOW [Read more…] about Did You Mess Up? Or Did He?
When you are hurting because the man you’re with doesn’t seem to care about you, doesn’t treat you well, is cheating on you, has walked away from you…
The pain is UNBEARABLE.
You’re committed to him. [Read more…] about When Your Relationship is Falling Apart (And You Are, Too)
If there’s one thing that’s worse than a relationship that’s over for good, it’s a relationship that keeps hanging on by a string.
You know it isn’t working. You’re not happy. But you just can’t cut the cord.
Every time you think it’s over, he comes back. [Read more…] about The #1 Question to Ask in An On-Off Relationship
Of course men test us.
They drop hints to see if we pick them up.
They put us in crazy situations and watch how well we handle ourselves.
They put the moves on us to see how far they can go. [Read more…] about One Way Men Test You That You WANT To Fail!
You’ve got to give guys a chance.
If you close yourself off and you don’t open up and you don’t let yourself be vulnerable, your relationships won’t go anywhere.
But what if you have a hard time trusting men? [Read more…] about Hard Time Trusting Guys? Try This
A long time ago, I was talking to a fellow dating coach about a situation I was having with an ex.
“Go look up gaslighting,” he told me.
Then he told me a story about a woman from his past. [Read more…] about 3 Uncomfortable Truths I Discovered about Narcissism
When you first realize your relationship is toxic, it’s like a light bulb goes on.
All that stuff he does to you isn’t just the normal behavior of a guy who gets irritated and loses his temper sometimes.
It’s the behavior of someone who’s controlling you. [Read more…] about How to Leave a Toxic Relationship
Do you ever think about the guys you got caught up in…
Who you didn’t see through until it was too late?
I do. I wonder how I could have been so stupid. How I could have missed the signs. [Read more…] about Avoid These Guys Like the Plague
High blood pressure … belly fat … increased risk of heart attack and diabetes.
Those are the health risks of … what?
You probably guessed being overweight, but [Read more…] about 3 Unexpected Signs of a Toxic Relationship
Once you give your heart to someone, it’s so hard to take it back.
But some people just aren’t worth it.
And this guy, whoever he is, is no longer worth it.
You’d be over him tomorrow [Read more…] about How Do You Stop Loving a Toxic Person?
I was once in a relationship with a man who’d figured out a great way to come out of every argument on top.
All he did was accuse ME of what HE was doing…
Or thinking about doing. [Read more…] about Why Does He Accuse You of Things You Didn’t Do?
Most of us have ended up—at least ONCE in our life—in a shouting match with someone we love.
Sometimes, it’s necessary. You’ve both got so much pent up frustration and so many things you haven’t been able to say that you’ve just got to get it all out. [Read more…] about My Boyfriend Yells at Me
