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The world is changing so fast, yet I’ve never been more excited for the future of love.
Because I know something that a lot of people don’t…
Right now, a lot of people see the chaos created by dating apps [Read more…] about The Future of Love is Bright
What makes you fall in love with one person and not another?
Once upon a time, people would have chalked it up to fate or destiny.
Nothing can explain love, they’d say. It’s just too mysterious. [Read more…] about Why You Fall In Love with One Person (And Not Another)
Every time you meet a guy, you hope for it.
That magical spark.
That deep connection.
That feeling you’ve known him before in another life. [Read more…] about Meet Your Soulmate – with Mat Shaffer
When I typed “how to find love” into a chat box, I wasn’t expecting much.
What could artificial intelligence possibly know about the human heart?
But what appeared next on my screen was remarkably sound advice… [Read more…] about “Robot” Explains How to Find Love
Mat Shaffer knows one thing about you.
“You are worthy of being in the sort of relationship that lights you up and fulfills you, simply because you exist.”
Do you believe that, too? [Read more…] about Want to Meet Better Guys? Mat Shaffer Shows You How
When I started my YouTube channel five years ago, I thought I was creating a community for women to talk about our deepest questions in love.
I was partially right. [Read more…] about 5 Signs You Should Run Away FAST
Don’t believe dating advice.
Because it will make you feel like you’re doing EVERYHING wrong, you’re not good enough, and there’s NO WAY a man would be attracted to a woman like you.
It should come with a disclaimer: [Read more…] about You Don’t Have to Be Attractive
Let’s be honest…
Guys today don’t treat women well.
Do you have to put up with it?
Or is there something you can do? [Read more…] about Guys Don’t Date Like Gentlemen Anymore—Why?
Are you tired of ending up in relationships where you do all the work?
Tell me if this is familiar:
Both of you put in a long day’s work, but when you come home, you start in on the 1001 chores that need doing… [Read more…] about Stop Doing All the Work in Your Relationships
Everyone feels like an expert on love.
We’ve all been in relationships. We know how they work. We’ve dissected our friends’ relationships. Surely that gives us more expert status than the average psychology major! [Read more…] about So You Want to Be a Love Expert?
There are two kinds of dating coaches.
The first kind tells you what to do. Send this text. Say this to him. Do this next.
I call this the Boss Coach. You obey their instructions. (And if their advice doesn’t work, you know who to blame!) [Read more…] about Need a BOSS Coach or a BIRTH Coach?
How much is your guy like you?
Do you think alike?
Do you share the same beliefs, values, and preferences?
Do you think those similarities are the reason you get along so well? [Read more…] about Does Your Partner Have to Be a Perfect Match?
It is SO easy to create an emotional connection with another woman.
You could be standing in line at the grocery store and strike up a heartfelt conversation with the woman in front of you.
But creating an emotional connection with a man? [Read more…] about Connect With Him
Former supermodel Christie Brinkley has had a hard time finding men her age to date.
Why?
Because she feels invisible to men in their 60s. [Read more…] about Help! I’m Invisible to Men
As much as online dating is a ton of work without much reward, it does teach you a lot about human nature.
The way men present themselves when you meet them for the first time is INCREDIBLY revealing. [Read more…] about 3 Signs He’s Not Worth Another Date
