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I’ve been swimming in a sea of dating advice for 15 years now…
Sifting through the latest books, scanning scientific studies, and listening to women pour out their heartbreaking struggles with men.
Back then, I thought the same way as everyone else. [Read more…] about What’s the #1 Dating Mistake Women Make?
You’ve seen the checklists that start:
“You are ready for a relationship if…”
And if you can check off every single one, then you’re good to go.
So do those “ready for a relationship” quizzes actually work? [Read more…] about Am I Ready for a Relationship?
So you’re not getting the success you hoped for with online dating.
You’re not getting men visiting your profile. You’re not getting many messages. The messages you do get aren’t high quality.
What are you doing wrong? [Read more…] about What’s the #1 Online Dating Mistake You’re Making?
Can I ask you a question?
Can I ask you why you want to be more feminine?
Is it to be more attractive to guys? [Read more…] about What’s a Quick & Easy Way to Feel More Feminine?
Is it even possible to enjoy dating?
The rejection? The time-wasters? The complete and utter futility of finding someone decent?
Dating coach Aska Kolton felt exactly like you do. She spent 10 years going on one bad date after another. Finally, one day she got fed up… [Read more…] about Sick and Tired of Dating? It’s Time for a Dating Detox with Aska Kolton
If you’re a woman, then you know the answer. You make a man happy by figuring out what he likes and giving it to him!
If he likes chicken wings and mashed potatoes, you make him chicken wings and mashed potatoes. [Read more…] about How Do You Make Him Happy? The Short Answer
We’ve been fed this story that women need men more than men need women.
Women are the ones chasing after men. Men, in contrast, are commitment-phobes who would happily live out their lives as eternal bachelors if they could. [Read more…] about Why Do Men Need Women? The Short Answer
He’s OBVIOUSLY an idiot. You deserve better!”
…say your well-meaning friends as they try to console you after your latest breakup.*
You appreciate their concern, but you wish they’d just leave you alone. [Read more…] about Are You Dating Guys Who Act Like Idiots? Stop the Madness
Of all the things that can affect our relationships, one we hear very little about is a history of sexual violence.
According to the CDC, 1 in 3 women will be sexually assaulted in her lifetime. These women go on with their lives, loving and dating and raising families, but the past never entirely goes away. It lives on in body memory. [Read more…] about Healing from Sexual Abuse with Marnie Grundman
Surely dating isn’t brain science … is it?
For sex educator Heidi Crockett, dating has EVERYTHING to do with the prefrontal cortex and limbic brain.
Our brains play a crucial role in the dance of attraction. [Read more…] about Is Dating Brain Science? YES, says Heidi Crockett
How many of the men you’ve dated have been jerks?
That’s okay … I’ll wait while you keep counting. 😉
Seriously, some of us [Read more…] about Quit Dating Idiots with Laura Forbes
So you’re dating this guy, but you’re just not quite sure about him. He’s amazing. He treats you like a queen. Everyone seems to love him.
But sometimes…
He goes a little off. [Read more…] about What’s the #1 Dating Red Flag? The Short Answer
Chocolate…
Foreign travel …
A tall, dark, and mysterious man who’s fascinated by you but unable to act on it because of his position. [Read more…] about What We Can Learn about Love from Romance Novels with Amey Zeigler
You’ve really enjoyed meeting this guy, and you want to see him again.
But all the dating advice you’ve read tells you that you can’t do anything. You’ve got to wait for HIM to contact you. You have to be the passive princess waiting in the tower for your prince to ride by and see you. [Read more…] about How Do I Get a Second Date? The Short Answer
You’re busy. You’re stressed.
Life is like a steamroller. It just never stops.
On top of all that, you’re trying to date. You don’t want to be alone for the rest of your life. [Read more…] about Too Stressed and Overworked to Date? Then Try a Dose of This
