In the 20th Century:
The best way to show him love is to do nice things for him.
In the 21st Century:
The best way to show him love is to understand him. [Read more…] about Be The Woman Who Truly “Gets” Him
The Art and Science of:
Boyfriending
Surprising Reason Men Fall Out of Love
In the 20th Century:
Men fall out of love because they stop finding their partner attractive.
In the 21st Century:
Men fall out of love because they don’t want to be a disappointment. [Read more…] about Surprising Reason Men Fall Out of Love
Wish You Could Change Him? What That’s Really Telling You…
In the 20th Century:
Change him.
In the 21st Century:
Change yourself.
When you’re frustrated with your love life – you want him to treat you better [Read more…] about Wish You Could Change Him? What That’s Really Telling You…
Choose Him, Choose Your Tomorrows
In the 20th Century:
You’re choosing a person.
In the 21st Century:
You’re choosing a life.
The stories of old told us this: [Read more…] about Choose Him, Choose Your Tomorrows
The Best Friend Test
In the 20th Century:
You have a spouse and a best friend.
In the 21st Century:
Your spouse is your best friend.
My grandmother never would have called her husband her best friend. [Read more…] about The Best Friend Test
What He Wants When He Wants a Relationship
In the 20th Century:
A relationship is a step on the road to marriage.
In the 21st Century:
A relationship is whatever you decide it is.
Not everyone wants the same thing from a relationship. [Read more…] about What He Wants When He Wants a Relationship
AI Is Coming For Your Boyfriend
Meet Amanda.
Amanda is a 22-year-old fitness model.
Your guy may have come across her Instagram online.
Her poses get tens of thousands of likes. [Read more…] about AI Is Coming For Your Boyfriend
Nothing Lasts Forever (If You Don’t Look After It)
I once dated a man who was fond of saying:
The teacup is already broken.”
To a woman who cried every time she broke something precious, that wasn’t perhaps the kindest thing to say. [Read more…] about Nothing Lasts Forever (If You Don’t Look After It)
Dealing with The Sides of Him You Don’t Like
Are there parts of your guy you don’t like?
Maybe you don’t like the way he acts when he’s frustrated and not getting his own way.
Maybe he acts like a completely different person around his guy friends or his family. [Read more…] about Dealing with The Sides of Him You Don’t Like
What’s Up with Guys and Feelings?
If you have a guy who shares his feelings and listens empathetically to yours, then you have hit the jackpot.
Emotional connection is the heart and soul of relationships. Sharing feelings brings us closer.
But what if you love a guy who bottles up his feelings? [Read more…] about What’s Up with Guys and Feelings?
Got Boundaries?
When is the last time you enforced a boundary?
In other words…
You told someone that a certain behavior wasn’t okay. You explained what would happen if they did it again. They did it—AGAIN. You followed through. [Read more…] about Got Boundaries?
Why He’s Such a Jerk
He means to make your life terrible.
He doesn’t care about you. If he did, he wouldn’t behave like that.
He’s so annoying.
And his family are all awful, too.
Why does he act this way? [Read more…] about Why He’s Such a Jerk
Help Your Emotionally Immature Guy Grow into the Man of Your Dreams
Boys don’t mature as fast as girls.
Just ask any preschool teacher. While girls are able to play nicely, sit quietly, and talk about their feelings, boys are hurtling around the room bashing each other with blocks. 😉
Fast-forward 20 years [Read more…] about Help Your Emotionally Immature Guy Grow into the Man of Your Dreams
3 Signs He Will Break Your Heart
If I could wave a magic wand and change just one thing about love…
I would make it easier for women to walk away from men who can’t or don’t love them.
Sometimes I think we’re suckers for punishment. 😉 [Read more…] about 3 Signs He Will Break Your Heart
Why Men Change Once They’ve Got You
He was so amazing in the beginning.
He brought you flowers, opened the door for you, and surprised you with magical experiences. When you were sick, he brought you treats. When you were upset, he made you feel better. [Read more…] about Why Men Change Once They’ve Got You
