How to Find the One

Dating Advice

Last weekend I found a box of my old college diaries, and I discovered some of my earliest dating advice to myself. Want to hear it? 😉

Apparently I was scratching my head over what to do about a boy I’d been close to but was now pulling away. I wrote: [Read more…] about 3 Things I’d Tell My Younger Self about Love

As much as online dating is a ton of work without much reward, it does teach you a lot about human nature.

The way men present themselves when you meet them for the first time is INCREDIBLY revealing. [Read more…] about 3 Signs He’s Not Worth Another Date

“Psst!”

I was walking down the hall in high school, just a shy freshman minding my own business, when a girl from my class beckoned to me.

She opened her locker and glanced around before letting me see inside. [Read more…] about Understand Your Unique Flavor of Desire

What makes you a catch?

What makes ANY man lucky to be with you?

Can you think of, oh, say 5 reasons?

When I ask women do this exercise, they tend to answer with things like: [Read more…] about If He Won’t Do This, You’re in Trouble

I hope you’ve taken on board my message about radical self-care. Now it’s time to take things up a notch.

Today I want to talk about radical self-acceptance.

Radical self-care is the idea that you should treat yourself with the same loving kindness and care you treat others… [Read more…] about The Secret to Love in Real Life

Anne Lamott has some unusual dating advice.

About 6 years ago, she was overwhelmed. She was in her sixties, helping her son raise her grandson, and she was in full people-pleasing mode… [Read more…] about She Met Her Future Husband in 3 Months By Doing This

Are you tired of being “nice”?

You know what I mean:

“I think you’re nice, but I’m just not attracted to you.”

I was listening to my favorite podcast recently when a guest casually mentioned a fact that made my job drop.

In research for her book This Chair Rocks, author and activist Ashton Applewhite discovered that the people with the best sex lives are “not the thinnest, not the youngest [Read more…] about Who’s Got the BEST Love Lives? These Folks

Did you know that there are tons of websites out there selling programs that teach men how to make women want to sleep with them?

Fifteen years ago, I interviewed a number of men who made their living teaching men how to pick up women.

I listened as they explained the ways they teach men to approach women, to be more compelling, to escalate physically, and how to feel confident as a man. [Read more…] about 3 Reasons Why Guys Feel Insecure