How to Find the One

Dating Advice

What makes you a catch?

What makes ANY man lucky to be with you?

Can you think of, oh, say 5 reasons?

When I ask women do this exercise, they tend to answer with things like: [Read more…] about If He Won’t Do This, You’re in Trouble

I hope you’ve taken on board my message about radical self-care. Now it’s time to take things up a notch.

Today I want to talk about radical self-acceptance.

Radical self-care is the idea that you should treat yourself with the same loving kindness and care you treat others… [Read more…] about The Secret to Love in Real Life

Anne Lamott has some unusual dating advice.

About 6 years ago, she was overwhelmed. She was in her sixties, helping her son raise her grandson, and she was in full people-pleasing mode… [Read more…] about She Met Her Future Husband in 3 Months By Doing This

Are you tired of being “nice”?

You know what I mean:

“I think you’re nice, but I’m just not attracted to you.”

I was listening to my favorite podcast recently when a guest casually mentioned a fact that made my job drop.

In research for her book This Chair Rocks, author and activist Ashton Applewhite discovered that the people with the best sex lives are “not the thinnest, not the youngest [Read more…] about Who’s Got the BEST Love Lives? These Folks

Did you know that there are tons of websites out there selling programs that teach men how to make women want to sleep with them?

Fifteen years ago, I interviewed a number of men who made their living teaching men how to pick up women.

I listened as they explained the ways they teach men to approach women, to be more compelling, to escalate physically, and how to feel confident as a man. [Read more…] about 3 Reasons Why Guys Feel Insecure

Where are you in your quest for love?

If I asked you this, nearly all of you would answer by telling me about the man in your life—or absence thereof!

Love brings us so much joy and fulfillment…

But it also brings us so much pain.

It can feel utterly TERRIFYING to face being single again.

Maybe you fell into your last relationship the old-fashioned way, by meeting him at work or at school or through people you both knew.

I’ll never forget the last time I tried online dating.

I’d gotten out of a committed relationship, and I was excited to test the waters again.

Everybody knows what love feels like. Surely!

I used to think that…

Until I went on my own journey of discovering that what I thought was love wasn’t really love at all. [Read more…] about What Does Love Feel Like?

And the science-based algorithm will sort through all the single guys in your area for you and report back with your best matches. [Read more…] about 3 Ways Online Dating Sites Are Lying to You