How to Find the One

Dating Advice

5 Signs He is NOT Your Soulmate

Back in my twenties, I was with a guy who wanted to get married, and I didn’t know what to do.

So I went around asking people [Read more…] about 5 Signs He is NOT Your Soulmate

How Trauma Sabotages Your Love Life & How to Heal

Here are some of the things I’ve been told about men:

Men don’t like needy women.

Men don’t like women who talk about their problems.

Men don’t like women who are an open book.

Men don’t like women who tell them how they feel. [Read more…] about How Trauma Sabotages Your Love Life & How to Heal

Stop Trying to Make Him Want You

“Send this text and he’ll immediately feel a rush of obsession for you.”

“Say this phrase and he won’t be able to stop thinking about you.”

Wouldn’t it be great if it were that easy?! [Read more…] about Stop Trying to Make Him Want You

Mental Health and Dating

May is Mental Health Month, and I can’t let it pass without talking about mental health and dating.

For anyone who’s struggling with feeling safe and okay in the world, it often feels like dating just makes everything worse.

Dating is hard enough as is. [Read more…] about Mental Health and Dating

How to Trust Men Again

When you have trusted someone…

You’ve laid your heart bare for them, you told them your secrets, you gave them the key to the locked door you never open for ANYONE…

You know what happens next. [Read more…] about How to Trust Men Again

Make a Great First Impression on a Date

Have you ever noticed how the instant you meet someone, you automatically know if there’s potential or not?

That’s the power of first impressions.

The first impression someone has of you is remarkably enduring AND remarkably accurate. [Read more…] about Make a Great First Impression on a Date

If You’re Feeling Unloved & Unlovable, Read This

Who was your very first love?

Do you remember?

Thinking about your first love can put such a smile on your face. 🙂

But actually your very first love is not who you think it is. [Read more…] about If You’re Feeling Unloved & Unlovable, Read This

What Men Want—Really!

This is the question that dogged me from high school into my twenties…

How do I become THAT kind of girl?

I noticed which of my classmates were comfortable with boys. [Read more…] about What Men Want—Really!

Avoid These Guys Like the Plague

Do you ever think about the guys you got caught up in…

Who you didn’t see through until it was too late?

I do. I wonder how I could have been so stupid. How I could have missed the signs. [Read more…] about Avoid These Guys Like the Plague

Succeed in Dating by Changing This Mindset

Everyone knows that dating sucks.

Free to Be You: Authentic Relationships at Midlife with Sue Sutherland

How long have you been on autopilot?

Following the course set out for you, hitting the goals you’re expected to hit…

Marrying because you were supposed to get married, or making yourself date even though you’re not sure that’s what you want… [Read more…] about Free to Be You: Authentic Relationships at Midlife with Sue Sutherland

Stop Pleasing Him – Please Yourself

Those of you who’ve been following me for a while know that there’s one topic that lights me on fire, and that is…

Women’s pleasure.

Not only is women’s pleasure the focus of my book The Pleasure Principle, but it’s also a mission of mine. [Read more…] about Stop Pleasing Him – Please Yourself

How to Read a Guy

When you meet someone for the first time, wouldn’t it be nice to know if he really likes you or whether he’s just being polite?

When you’re out with him, and he’s gone quiet and you’re wondering why he isn’t saying anything, wouldn’t it be nice to know if you said something wrong or whether he just doesn’t have anything to say? [Read more…] about How to Read a Guy

Is Love a Scam?

Sometimes I think that love is a scam.

It didn’t used to be…

Not before the whole commercial complex designed to make you think that love is something you buy with cards and online dating memberships and a better breath mint. [Read more…] about Is Love a Scam?