Your Guide to the Male Brain

Understanding Men

Stop Nagging and Get What You Want – Dr. Jessica Higgins

All you want to do is get him to help.

To make a LITTLE effort.

To CARE about your needs.

But every time you try to talk to him about it, he shuts down. He fobs you off. [Read more…] about Stop Nagging and Get What You Want – Dr. Jessica Higgins

Why Is My Boyfriend Mean to Me?

Have you ever been with a guy who’s turned on you and raged:

You did this! You did that! You’re such a you-know-what. I know who you really are, you [BLEEP].”

That’s a verbal attack. [Read more…] about Why Is My Boyfriend Mean to Me?

Why Men Lie

Of course men lie.

But here’s a news flash…

You do, too!

Before you jump all over me, let me ask you a question: [Read more…] about Why Men Lie

What Men Want—Really!

This is the question that dogged me from high school into my twenties…

How do I become THAT kind of girl?

I noticed which of my classmates were comfortable with boys. [Read more…] about What Men Want—Really!

Avoid These Guys Like the Plague

Do you ever think about the guys you got caught up in…

Who you didn’t see through until it was too late?

I do. I wonder how I could have been so stupid. How I could have missed the signs. [Read more…] about Avoid These Guys Like the Plague

How to Read a Guy

When you meet someone for the first time, wouldn’t it be nice to know if he really likes you or whether he’s just being polite?

When you’re out with him, and he’s gone quiet and you’re wondering why he isn’t saying anything, wouldn’t it be nice to know if you said something wrong or whether he just doesn’t have anything to say? [Read more…] about How to Read a Guy

Why Does He Accuse You of Things You Didn’t Do?

I was once in a relationship with a man who’d figured out a great way to come out of every argument on top.

All he did was accuse ME of what HE was doing…

Or thinking about doing. [Read more…] about Why Does He Accuse You of Things You Didn’t Do?

The Secret to Finding Love in the New Year – Mat Shaffer

What are you doing on October 10th?

Would you like to be kickstarting the most incredible year you’ve EVER had in life and love?

If the past year threw you for a loop – and you’re STILL recovering – then I’d like to extend a helping hand. 🙂 [Read more…] about The Secret to Finding Love in the New Year – Mat Shaffer

Why Is My Partner Acting Distant?

Remember back when you were a kid and you kept wanting to get your mom’s attention?

“Mom, come see this!”

“Mom, look at this.”

“Mom, watch this.” [Read more…] about Why Is My Partner Acting Distant?

3 Tips for Snagging an Emotionally Unavailable Guy

All the hottest guys are emotionally unavailable.

They’re cool, masculine, and aloof.

When an emotionally unavailable guy turns his gaze on you, it’s like a spotlight. [Read more…] about 3 Tips for Snagging an Emotionally Unavailable Guy

Help an Emotionally Shut-Down Man Share His Feelings

When I was growing up, my family dealt with someone being upset like this:

Try to talk some reason into them.
Tell them, “Calm down!”
Shame them for not getting a grip.
Yell at them.
Freeze them out until they storm off.

How to Deal with Online Harassment

How often do you wake up in the morning, stretch your arms, think, “Today is going to be a GREAT day,” then take a quick glance at your phone to see if you’ve missed anything overnight…

Only to get hit in the face by the kind of comment NO ONE wants to see that early in the morning. [Read more…] about How to Deal with Online Harassment