I was once in a relationship with a man who’d figured out a great way to come out of every argument on top.
All he did was accuse ME of what HE was doing…
Or thinking about doing. [Read more…] about Why Does He Accuse You of Things You Didn’t Do?
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I was once in a relationship with a man who’d figured out a great way to come out of every argument on top.
All he did was accuse ME of what HE was doing…
Or thinking about doing. [Read more…] about Why Does He Accuse You of Things You Didn’t Do?

Do you ever feel like men have all the power in love?
You’re supposed to be figuring out what THEY want and waiting until THEY contact YOU.
MEN are the ones who ask women out. MEN are the ones who propose. [Read more…] about Get Your Power Back in Relationships

Of all the ways that love can drag down your life…
The worst is falling for someone who doesn’t deserve it.
You were ready and willing to give EVERYTHING.
Your heart, your time, your commitment… [Read more…] about Is He the One? 3 Ways to Spot Someone Worth Your Love

Remember back when you were a kid and you kept wanting to get your mom’s attention?
“Mom, come see this!”
“Mom, look at this.”
“Mom, watch this.” [Read more…] about Why Is My Partner Acting Distant?

What better way to start a new year than with a vow to make more time for pleasure!
I recently spoke with Sexy Brilliant founder Devina Kaur about the transformative power of pleasure.
This time I was in the guest seat [Read more…] about Pleasure is NOT a Dirty Word

Before we get into the 3 key traits that make you stand out as a high value woman, let me be clear about one thing:
We are ALL high value.
There is no WAY another woman is worth more than you. [Read more…] about 3 Key Traits of a High Value Woman

What a year this has been!
It didn’t spare couples any more than it spared singles.
There’s the COVID breakup, the COVID divorce… [Read more…] about Love Goals for 2021

“I love you… but I’m not in love with you.”
What a thing to say!
What does that even mean—“I love you but I’m not in love with you”?
Does that mean this person still has feelings for you [Read more…] about I Love You But I’m Not In Love with You

All the hottest guys are emotionally unavailable.
They’re cool, masculine, and aloof.
When an emotionally unavailable guy turns his gaze on you, it’s like a spotlight. [Read more…] about 3 Tips for Snagging an Emotionally Unavailable Guy

I grew up thinking I knew what love is.
Love is saying, “I love you.”
It’s hearts and candy and Hallmark greeting cards.
When I imagined myself having a boyfriend [Read more…] about 3 Hidden Signs He TRULY Loves You

When I was growing up, my family dealt with someone being upset like this:
[Read more…] about Help an Emotionally Shut-Down Man Share His Feelings

As a culture, we are ever more open about sex, but infidelity remains shrouded in a cloud of shame and secrecy.”
Those are the words of psychotherapist Esther Perel [Read more…] about What If His Affair Isn’t About You?

Most of us have ended up—at least ONCE in our life—in a shouting match with someone we love.
Sometimes, it’s necessary. You’ve both got so much pent up frustration and so many things you haven’t been able to say that you’ve just got to get it all out. [Read more…] about My Boyfriend Yells at Me

Yes, everyone is stressed out.
Yes, everyone is fighting more.
But there’s one thing that not even the pressures and stress of living through a pandemic can excuse:
Abuse. [Read more…] about How Coronavirus is Affecting Domestic Violence – Cathy Oddie

One of the very best things about being a woman is how much we love others.
We’re good at loving. We’re good at caring for people. We’re good at thinking about other people’s feelings.
But the one person that seems to escape our notice is ourselves. [Read more…] about How to Love Yourself First (When You’re in Love)