Every time you meet a guy, you hope for it.
That magical spark.
That deep connection.
That feeling you’ve known him before in another life. [Read more…] about Meet Your Soulmate – with Mat Shaffer
Your Guide to the Male Brain
Understanding Men
Want to Meet Better Guys? Mat Shaffer Shows You How
Mat Shaffer knows one thing about you.
“You are worthy of being in the sort of relationship that lights you up and fulfills you, simply because you exist.”
Do you believe that, too? [Read more…] about Want to Meet Better Guys? Mat Shaffer Shows You How
5 Signs You Should Run Away FAST
When I started my YouTube channel five years ago, I thought I was creating a community for women to talk about our deepest questions in love.
I was partially right. [Read more…] about 5 Signs You Should Run Away FAST
Guys Don’t Date Like Gentlemen Anymore—Why?
Let’s be honest…
Guys today don’t treat women well.
Do you have to put up with it?
Or is there something you can do? [Read more…] about Guys Don’t Date Like Gentlemen Anymore—Why?
Why Men Put Up Walls
You know the Wall.
That’s when a man slams the door on you emotionally and acts like this relationship doesn’t even matter to him.
He acts like you’re at fault for everything going wrong in his life. He gets verbally aggressive with you. He stops playing nice. [Read more…] about Why Men Put Up Walls
Why He’s Such a Jerk
He means to make your life terrible.
He doesn’t care about you. If he did, he wouldn’t behave like that.
He’s so annoying.
And his family are all awful, too.
Why does he act this way? [Read more…] about Why He’s Such a Jerk
How to Cope with a Man’s Mood
You’re out with a guy you really like, and your fun evening is quickly disintegrating into your worst nightmare.
He’s in a mood, and you don’t know why. He’s not really talking. He just sits there.
What do you do? [Read more…] about How to Cope with a Man’s Mood
Connect With Him
It is SO easy to create an emotional connection with another woman.
You could be standing in line at the grocery store and strike up a heartfelt conversation with the woman in front of you.
But creating an emotional connection with a man? [Read more…] about Connect With Him
What Makes a Man Change (So He Loves You Again)?
Everyone will throw advice at you on “how to attract a man,” but what about asking whether he’s even WORTH attracting in the first place?
No one is doublechecking to make sure that the man you want is worth the investment. It’s assumed that if you want him, you can have him. [Read more…] about What Makes a Man Change (So He Loves You Again)?
3 Signs He’s Not Worth Another Date
As much as online dating is a ton of work without much reward, it does teach you a lot about human nature.
The way men present themselves when you meet them for the first time is INCREDIBLY revealing. [Read more…] about 3 Signs He’s Not Worth Another Date
3 Signs He Will Break Your Heart
If I could wave a magic wand and change just one thing about love…
I would make it easier for women to walk away from men who can’t or don’t love them.
Sometimes I think we’re suckers for punishment. 😉 [Read more…] about 3 Signs He Will Break Your Heart
How Female Desire is Different from Male Desire
If you want to shame a woman, just make a critical comment about her libido.
We’re not supposed to want it too much or too little.
If we aren’t sexual enough, we’re frigid. If we’re TOO sexual, we’re sluts. [Read more…] about How Female Desire is Different from Male Desire
If He Won’t Do This, You’re in Trouble
What makes you a catch?
What makes ANY man lucky to be with you?
Can you think of, oh, say 5 reasons?
When I ask women do this exercise, they tend to answer with things like: [Read more…] about If He Won’t Do This, You’re in Trouble
Make Him Feel Desired
You know how great it feels when you’re getting checked out by someone you’re attracted to?
His gaze flicks down and back up again. His lips quirk, his eyes soften, there’s this satisfied expression on his face.
Seeing his response to you turns YOU on… [Read more…] about Make Him Feel Desired
This Makes Him Desire You
Are you tired of being “nice”?
You know what I mean:
“I think you’re nice, but I’m just not attracted to you.”
What does THAT mean? [Read more…] about This Makes Him Desire You
