Your Guide to the Male Brain

Understanding Men

If He Won’t Do This, You’re in Trouble

What makes you a catch?

What makes ANY man lucky to be with you?

Can you think of, oh, say 5 reasons?

When I ask women do this exercise, they tend to answer with things like: [Read more…] about If He Won’t Do This, You’re in Trouble

Make Him Feel Desired

You know how great it feels when you’re getting checked out by someone you’re attracted to?

His gaze flicks down and back up again. His lips quirk, his eyes soften, there’s this satisfied expression on his face.

Seeing his response to you turns YOU on… [Read more…] about Make Him Feel Desired

This Makes Him Desire You

Are you tired of being “nice”?

You know what I mean:

“I think you’re nice, but I’m just not attracted to you.”

What does THAT mean? [Read more…] about This Makes Him Desire You

The Secret World of Men’s Dating Advice (And Why It’s Not So Different From Ours)

Did you know that there are tons of websites out there selling programs that teach men how to make women want to sleep with them?

Here’s one example: [Read more…] about The Secret World of Men’s Dating Advice (And Why It’s Not So Different From Ours)

Ask Him This Weirdly Revealing Question

As a parent, I often find myself in the position of having to explain boys to my daughter.

She wants to know, “Why are boys so WEIRD??”

Why were the boys who were so nice last year—really good friends, really fun to play with—now suddenly such jerks? [Read more…] about Ask Him This Weirdly Revealing Question

3 Reasons Why Guys Feel Insecure

Fifteen years ago, I interviewed a number of men who made their living teaching men how to pick up women.

I listened as they explained the ways they teach men to approach women, to be more compelling, to escalate physically, and how to feel confident as a man. [Read more…] about 3 Reasons Why Guys Feel Insecure

Why People Marry Who They Marry

As a woman, do you ever feel sick and tired of the mountain of advice telling you how to be more attractive to men? (Oh, yes, I’m guilty, too!)

Sure, attraction will get you a boyfriend…

But what attraction cannot do is deliver that powerful knowing that you should be MARRIED to this person. [Read more…] about Why People Marry Who They Marry

3 Types of Men & How to Attract Them

Back in my late twenties, I was a guinea pig for love.

I was living in a city that made it easy to date. I worked in the city center, where I could pop out to a coffee date on my lunch break. I rewrote my online dating profile every three months. [Read more…] about 3 Types of Men & How to Attract Them