The Art of Finding the Right Guy

Dating

How Can I Make Him Love Me? The Short Answer

How can I make him love me?

The short answer is to treat yourself the way you wish he’d treat you.

If that seems backwards to you, let me explain. [Read more…] about How Can I Make Him Love Me? The Short Answer

Why Do Men Ghost? The Short Answer

Why do guys ghost?

The short answer is smartphones.

Smartphones are changing culture. We treat people differently when we’re interacting digitally. We type things we’d never say face-to-face. We forget there’s a real human being behind there. [Read more…] about Why Do Men Ghost? The Short Answer

The Truth about Loving Someone from Another Country

Once upon a time, you fell in love with someone who lived in the same place you did.

You shared the same culture. You knew the same people. You had the same expectations of what your life together would look like.

Now all you have to do is log into an online dating site [Read more…] about The Truth about Loving Someone from Another Country

What Men Want in a Woman (Video) with Clayton Olson

Do men just want blond hair and big boobs?”

Do they hate marriage?”

Why do men get into relationships, when it’s clear that all they want is flings [Read more…] about What Men Want in a Woman (Video) with Clayton Olson

Amy Tells All in The Love Lab Hot Seat

I couldn’t hold anything back from Céline and Kevin.

You may remember Céline from our fantastic interviews with her on breast massage and the power of pleasure. [Read more…] about Amy Tells All in The Love Lab Hot Seat

Do Feminists Deserve Love, Too?

I got caught up in the tailwind of a discussion the other day…

on whether feminism had ruined dating.

The thrust of the argument was this: [Read more…] about Do Feminists Deserve Love, Too?

Do You Get Caught in the Explanation Trap?

If only you could figure him out.

If you knew what was going through his head.

What it meant when he said X. What it meant when he did Y.

Then you’d never have to feel stressed about your relationship again. [Read more…] about Do You Get Caught in the Explanation Trap?

Seeing the Sexy in Disability

I had a friend in college who got so mad…

No one ever saw her as sexy.

They saw her, all right. But they wanted to help her. They wanted to know if she needed anything.

Instead of getting sex, she got sympathy. [Read more…] about Seeing the Sexy in Disability

Are Men Intimidated by Strong Women? The Spycey Truth (Video)

What do men want?

Polite, uncomplicated, easy women who make them feel good about themselves?

Or tough, strong-minded, ballsy women who whip through their lives like a tornado? [Read more…] about Are Men Intimidated by Strong Women? The Spycey Truth (Video)

Single Cat Ladies are Getting Love at Last

I had a “friend” who swore that getting a cat was the kiss of death for single women.

Once you got a cat, it was all over. Men “knew” about you.

What did they know? [Read more…] about Single Cat Ladies are Getting Love at Last

Love without Pain (Video) with Joyce Schafers

Why do relationships have to hurt so much?

We certainly don’t fall in love because we want to get hurt. But when’s the last time you had a relationship that DIDN’T hurt?

Even great relationships end up twisting or stomping on our hearts. [Read more…] about Love without Pain (Video) with Joyce Schafers

Dating with Children: Advice for Single Parents with Dr. Duana Welch

Your dating life is divided into two eras: BC and AC.

Before Children and After Children.

And it’s not the same.

“It’s a whole different ball of wax after children,” Dr. Duana Welch says [Read more…] about Dating with Children: Advice for Single Parents with Dr. Duana Welch

Wish Your Online Dating Profile Worked Better? Then Start at the End

How do you know when you’ve written a really awesome online dating profile?

a. It describes you to a T.
b. It makes you look good.
c. It gets you tons of likes.
d. You get some fantastic dates from it. [Read more…] about Wish Your Online Dating Profile Worked Better? Then Start at the End