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If only you could figure him out.
If you knew what was going through his head.
What it meant when he said X. What it meant when he did Y.
Then you’d never have to feel stressed about your relationship again. [Read more…] about Do You Get Caught in the Explanation Trap?
I had a friend in college who got so mad…
No one ever saw her as sexy.
They saw her, all right. But they wanted to help her. They wanted to know if she needed anything.
Instead of getting sex, she got sympathy. [Read more…] about Seeing the Sexy in Disability
What do men want?
Polite, uncomplicated, easy women who make them feel good about themselves?
Or tough, strong-minded, ballsy women who whip through their lives like a tornado? [Read more…] about Are Men Intimidated by Strong Women? The Spycey Truth (Video)
I had a “friend” who swore that getting a cat was the kiss of death for single women.
Once you got a cat, it was all over. Men “knew” about you.
What did they know? [Read more…] about Single Cat Ladies are Getting Love at Last
Why do relationships have to hurt so much?
We certainly don’t fall in love because we want to get hurt. But when’s the last time you had a relationship that DIDN’T hurt?
Even great relationships end up twisting or stomping on our hearts. [Read more…] about Love without Pain (Video) with Joyce Schafers
Your dating life is divided into two eras: BC and AC.
Before Children and After Children.
And it’s not the same.
“It’s a whole different ball of wax after children,” Dr. Duana Welch says [Read more…] about Dating with Children: Advice for Single Parents with Dr. Duana Welch
How do you know when you’ve written a really awesome online dating profile?
a. It describes you to a T.
b. It makes you look good.
c. It gets you tons of likes.
d. You get some fantastic dates from it. [Read more…] about Wish Your Online Dating Profile Worked Better? Then Start at the End
Kids are naturals at this.
Tell a kid, “You did a great job!” and their face just BEAMS.
They know they did a good job. And it feels great to hear you confirm it.
Now turn to a colleague [Read more…] about The Lost Art of Accepting Compliments
How many times have you wondered if you should just settle?
You’re never going to find someone who’s got everything you want. And if you DO manage to find him, he won’t be interested in you anyway.
It’s depressing. [Read more…] about Are Your Standards for a Guy Too High? with Dr. Duana Welch
She founded a billion dollar company. She has her own Wikipedia page. She’s been on the cover of Forbes. Her wedding was featured in Vogue.
And she was no slacker in college, either, studying at the Sorbonne in Paris and working with orphanages in Southeast Asia. [Read more…] about #Brilliant Babe: Entrepreneur Whitney Wolfe Herd
Have you ever done that exercise?
The one where you list all the traits your ideal man should have?
It’s fun to do. The sky’s the limit. You want blond hair, a European accent, and a passion for your favorite indie band? Put it on the list. If you can imagine it, you can have it. [Read more…] about The 1 Trait He MUST Have for Lasting Love
Imagine the world’s most desirable man.
A gypsy king. A rakish pirate. A rogue of hearts.
He is unapologetic. He tells you straight out that you delight him. There is something about your eyes, mysteries that intrigue him. Come away! He will teach you secrets of yourself no man has yet discovered. [Read more…] about What the World’s Greatest Seducer Can Teach You about Attraction
Sometimes the desire to have your own family can be so painful…
You make terrible choices.
Choices you end up paying for. BIG time.
Choices that push you further away from having a family than before. [Read more…] about When You Want a Family So Badly It Hurts
As a woman, the worst thing you can be is needy.
Neediness is embarrassing. It’s a huge turn-off. Guys avoid needy women like the plague.
No woman should expect a man to “complete” her. She should be independent, self-sufficient [Read more…] about Think Being Needy is Bad? Think Again
Which of the following describes you best?
[Read more…] about How Your Love Pattern Gets You Into the Wrong Relationships
