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It’s about time…
Married couples have benefited from the research and wisdom of John and Julie Gottman for decades. But until recently, the Gottmans haven’t had much to offer single people. [Read more…] about Dating to Marry: The Gottman Principles for Singles (Video) with Stacy Hubbard
The short answer is no.
Online dating sites hook us with their promises of sorting through the sea of potential matches for us. All you have to do is fill in a detailed survey, and voilà! The algorithm finds the perfect guy for you. [Read more…] about Can Attraction Be Predicted? The Short Answer
You spend all this effort getting dressed up and going out … only to spend the entire night talking with your girlfriends.
You LOVE your girlfriends, but surely part of the magic of going out is meeting someone new! It’s a waste of an evening if you haven’t talked to a single guy. [Read more…] about How to Get Noticed When You Go Out (Video) with Marni Kinrys
Most of us date for love.
The awkward, clumsy first dates? Those are just an added bonus. 😉
The happily ever after? That’s our endgame. [Read more…] about 3 Secret Signs He’s Fallen for You
The short answer is to treat yourself the way you wish he’d treat you.
If that seems backwards to you, let me explain. [Read more…] about How Can I Make Him Love Me? The Short Answer
The short answer is smartphones.
Smartphones are changing culture. We treat people differently when we’re interacting digitally. We type things we’d never say face-to-face. We forget there’s a real human being behind there. [Read more…] about Why Do Men Ghost? The Short Answer
Once upon a time, you fell in love with someone who lived in the same place you did.
You shared the same culture. You knew the same people. You had the same expectations of what your life together would look like.
Now all you have to do is log into an online dating site [Read more…] about The Truth about Loving Someone from Another Country
Do men just want blond hair and big boobs?”
Do they hate marriage?”
Why do men get into relationships, when it’s clear that all they want is flings [Read more…] about What Men Want in a Woman (Video) with Clayton Olson
I couldn’t hold anything back from Céline and Kevin.
You may remember Céline from our fantastic interviews with her on breast massage and the power of pleasure. [Read more…] about Amy Tells All in The Love Lab Hot Seat
I got caught up in the tailwind of a discussion the other day…
on whether feminism had ruined dating.
The thrust of the argument was this: [Read more…] about Do Feminists Deserve Love, Too?
If only you could figure him out.
If you knew what was going through his head.
What it meant when he said X. What it meant when he did Y.
Then you’d never have to feel stressed about your relationship again. [Read more…] about Do You Get Caught in the Explanation Trap?
I had a friend in college who got so mad…
No one ever saw her as sexy.
They saw her, all right. But they wanted to help her. They wanted to know if she needed anything.
Instead of getting sex, she got sympathy. [Read more…] about Seeing the Sexy in Disability
What do men want?
Polite, uncomplicated, easy women who make them feel good about themselves?
Or tough, strong-minded, ballsy women who whip through their lives like a tornado? [Read more…] about Are Men Intimidated by Strong Women? The Spycey Truth (Video)
I had a “friend” who swore that getting a cat was the kiss of death for single women.
Once you got a cat, it was all over. Men “knew” about you.
What did they know? [Read more…] about Single Cat Ladies are Getting Love at Last
Why do relationships have to hurt so much?
We certainly don’t fall in love because we want to get hurt. But when’s the last time you had a relationship that DIDN’T hurt?
Even great relationships end up twisting or stomping on our hearts. [Read more…] about Love without Pain (Video) with Joyce Schafers
