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Dating Myths

Busting the Myths of Popular Dating Advice

Is He a Dater or a Relater?

dater or relater

In the 20th Century:
If a guy says he’s open to a relationship, he’s open to a relationship.

In the 21st Century:
His behavior will show you if he’s open to a relationship. [Read more…] about Is He a Dater or a Relater?

Don’t Work on Being More Attractive – Do THIS

woman putting on makeup

In the 20th Century:
Be more attractive to men.

In the 21st Century:
Practice the hard skills of loving.

It seemed so obvious at the time: [Read more…] about Don’t Work on Being More Attractive – Do THIS

What’s Wrong With You??

what's wrong with you?

In the 20th Century:
It’s your responsibility to be attractive.

In the 21st Century:
It’s your “responsibility” to be attractive. (Airquotes intended.) [Read more…] about What’s Wrong With You??

Rethinking “Living Your Best Life”

living your best life

In the 20th Century:
Men are only attracted to women living their best life.

In the 21st Century:
Your best life may not leave you with room for anyone else.

I came of age in the 1990s, and all the women’s magazines I devoured told me the same thing: [Read more…] about Rethinking “Living Your Best Life”

Older, Wiser, and Readier for Lasting Love

older and wiser

In the 20th Century:
If you do the right thing, everything will be all right.

In the 21st Century:
All you can do is make healthy choices for yourself and the relationship. [Read more…] about Older, Wiser, and Readier for Lasting Love

The REAL Relationship Litmus Test

relationship litmus test

In the 20th Century:
What you do in bed is make it or break it.

In the 21st Century:
What you do when you hurt each other is make it or break it. [Read more…] about The REAL Relationship Litmus Test

The Experience He’s Seeking: Is It You?

the experience he's seeking

In the 20th Century:
He wants a catch.

In the 21st Century:
He wants someone who makes him feel alive.

Yes, you could be slim and gorgeous and accomplished and fascinating… [Read more…] about The Experience He’s Seeking: Is It You?

Prove Your Love by Putting Him First?

put him first

In the 20th Century:
Love is putting others first.

In the 21st Century:
Love is inclusive. (It includes you.) [Read more…] about Prove Your Love by Putting Him First?

Girls Just Wanna Be Loved

woman thinking

In the 20th Century:
The goal is to be loved.

In the 21st Century:
The goal is to live a life of love.

Everyone wants to be loved. [Read more…] about Girls Just Wanna Be Loved

Wish You Could Change Him? What That’s Really Telling You…

change him

In the 20th Century:
Change him.

In the 21st Century:
Change yourself.

When you’re frustrated with your love life – you want him to treat you better [Read more…] about Wish You Could Change Him? What That’s Really Telling You…

From Falling in Love to Forever

couple falling in love

In the 20th Century:
Falling in love is just the beginning.

In the 21st Century:
Falling in love is the whole point.

Every love story begins with falling in love. [Read more…] about From Falling in Love to Forever

Choose Him, Choose Your Tomorrows

choose your tomorrows

In the 20th Century:
You’re choosing a person.

In the 21st Century:
You’re choosing a life.

The stories of old told us this: [Read more…] about Choose Him, Choose Your Tomorrows

He’ll Leave If You Ask Too Much of Him (Won’t He?)

woman asking a man to meet her needs

In the 20th Century:
Don’t ask too much of him.

In the 21st Century:
You don’t get if you don’t ask.

Men are busy – don’t bother them.” [Read more…] about He’ll Leave If You Ask Too Much of Him (Won’t He?)

Do Men Really Prefer Respect to Love?

love or respect

In the 20th Century:
Men prefer respect to love.

In the 21st Century:
You can’t be loved by someone who doesn’t respect you.

It all started with a question: [Read more…] about Do Men Really Prefer Respect to Love?

Is Your Love Life Better When You’re Friends?

friends and lovers

In the 20th Century:
The foundation of a strong sexual connection is polarity.

In the 21st Century:
The foundation of a strong sexual connection is friendship.

If you look for advice online on how to create chemistry, you’ll be served up a heaping helping of polarity. [Read more…] about Is Your Love Life Better When You’re Friends?

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