Tough truth:
Impressing him won’t make him love you.
Having fun together is what makes him want to see more of you.
The “catch” model of dating is outdated. [Read more…] about Stop Impressing Men
How to Believe in Yourself
Self-Confidence
We Are Most Attracted To People Who…
In the 20th Century:
Attractiveness is objective.
In the 21st Century:
Attraction is subjective.
Line up a group of men in a row. [Read more…] about We Are Most Attracted To People Who…
Find Your Soulmate in a Sea of Men
In the 20th Century:
The dating pool is a marketplace.
In the 21st Century:
The dating pool is an ocean.
Back in the day, dating was a marketplace, and everyone had a value. [Read more…] about Find Your Soulmate in a Sea of Men
The Bully Inside Your Head
When I was younger, I thought there was an easy answer to the question of why guys weren’t interested in me.
It was because of how I looked.
I didn’t have the right body.
I didn’t have the right clothes. [Read more…] about The Bully Inside Your Head
How to Trust Yourself
A psychic named Aurora told me I doubt myself.
In retrospect, it was rather obvious.
I had gone to a metaphysical fair some years ago in hopes of gaining some clarity.
I had some big decisions to make. [Read more…] about How to Trust Yourself
You’re Nothing If You Don’t Have a Man? REALLY?
It felt like my whole life was training to find a man.
Everything I learned about fashion and cosmetics. To be attractive to men.
Everything I learned about the social graces. To delight and entrance a man. [Read more…] about You’re Nothing If You Don’t Have a Man? REALLY?
Set Your Sights High in Love
If you, like me, grew up in an era where it was a woman’s job to snag a good husband…
Then setting your sights higher can be difficult.
You don’t feel like you should complain.
You should be grateful for what you have. [Read more…] about Set Your Sights High in Love
You’re Not the Girl You Once Were – And That’s a Good Thing
In my last article, we looked at his Adaptive Child…
And today we’re getting honest about ourselves.
You were once a kid, too. [Read more…] about You’re Not the Girl You Once Were – And That’s a Good Thing
You Don’t Have to Be Attractive
Don’t believe dating advice.
Because it will make you feel like you’re doing EVERYHING wrong, you’re not good enough, and there’s NO WAY a man would be attracted to a woman like you.
It should come with a disclaimer: [Read more…] about You Don’t Have to Be Attractive
Getting What You Want in Life
Sometimes life is just plain HARD.
You thought everything would turn out, and it didn’t.
You took a risk, only to see it crash and burn.
You got your hopes up [Read more…] about Getting What You Want in Life
Need a BOSS Coach or a BIRTH Coach?
There are two kinds of dating coaches.
The first kind tells you what to do. Send this text. Say this to him. Do this next.
I call this the Boss Coach. You obey their instructions. (And if their advice doesn’t work, you know who to blame!) [Read more…] about Need a BOSS Coach or a BIRTH Coach?
Help! I’m Invisible to Men
Former supermodel Christie Brinkley has had a hard time finding men her age to date.
Why?
Because she feels invisible to men in their 60s. [Read more…] about Help! I’m Invisible to Men
Mature Confidence (For the No-Longer-Young-And-Naïve)
It is SO easy to be confident when you’re young and inexperienced.
You’ve got such great ideas about how life is supposed to work and how you’re going to accomplish all these things. [Read more…] about Mature Confidence (For the No-Longer-Young-And-Naïve)
Become More Attractive Instantly
There’s a trick to feeling more confident, and it involves impersonating Wonder Woman.
No joke!
Social scientist Amy Cuddy found that standing in a power pose [Read more…] about Become More Attractive Instantly
Make Any Man Want You? THIS is Better
Love brings us so much joy and fulfillment…
But it also brings us so much pain.
Men don’t always act the way we want them to. [Read more…] about Make Any Man Want You? THIS is Better
