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Have you ever lost faith in love?
Have you ever had your heart broken…
Met someone who turned out not to be the man you thought he was…
Looked in the mirror and wondered why he’d ever choose you?
[Read more…] about Heal Your Heart & Find BETTER Love – Dating Coach Mat Shaffer
What’s the most awful, horrific thing that’s happened to you in relationships?
For me, it was experiencing the sheer hatred of a man who, once he no longer had me, desired to destroy me.
It’s happened to me more than once over my life. It always catches me off guard. [Read more…] about Let Go of Past Pain
He means to make your life terrible.
He doesn’t care about you. If he did, he wouldn’t behave like that.
He’s so annoying.
And his family are all awful, too.
Why does he act this way? [Read more…] about Why He’s Such a Jerk
When I first started my career 20 years ago, I was struck by the desperation of the women who wrote to me seeking answers.
They weren’t looking for advice on how to have healthier, happier relationships.
They were desperate for something to do right NOW [Read more…] about Did You Mess Up? Or Did He?
When you are hurting because the man you’re with doesn’t seem to care about you, doesn’t treat you well, is cheating on you, has walked away from you…
The pain is UNBEARABLE.
You’re committed to him. [Read more…] about When Your Relationship is Falling Apart (And You Are, Too)
He was so amazing in the beginning.
He brought you flowers, opened the door for you, and surprised you with magical experiences. When you were sick, he brought you treats. When you were upset, he made you feel better. [Read more…] about Why Men Change Once They’ve Got You
One of the hardest things in the world is being with someone who doesn’t appreciate you.
Who takes you for granted…
Who expects you to be there even if he goes off with some other woman… [Read more…] about Make Him Stay with You and Care About Only You
Remember back when you were a teenager and just thinking about dating for the first time?
You were so hopeful and excited and dreamy. You had all these visions of how it was supposed to be. [Read more…] about How to Shine EVEN If You’ve Been Hurt
How many of you have NEVER been betrayed by a man? Any hands raised?
I don’t think ANYONE reaches this stage in life without having been betrayed multiple times. [Read more…] about Betrayal in a Relationship – 3 Ways to Stay Strong and Heal
You’ve got to give guys a chance.
If you close yourself off and you don’t open up and you don’t let yourself be vulnerable, your relationships won’t go anywhere.
But what if you have a hard time trusting men? [Read more…] about Hard Time Trusting Guys? Try This
A long time ago, I was talking to a fellow dating coach about a situation I was having with an ex.
“Go look up gaslighting,” he told me.
Then he told me a story about a woman from his past. [Read more…] about 3 Uncomfortable Truths I Discovered about Narcissism
Have you ever been with a guy who’s turned on you and raged:
You did this! You did that! You’re such a you-know-what. I know who you really are, you [BLEEP].”
That’s a verbal attack. [Read more…] about Why Is My Boyfriend Mean to Me?
Here are some of the things I’ve been told about men:
Men don’t like needy women.
Men don’t like women who talk about their problems.
Men don’t like women who are an open book.
Men don’t like women who tell them how they feel. [Read more…] about How Trauma Sabotages Your Love Life & How to Heal
You’ve just seen an exchange your guy had on social media with a woman you don’t know. She’s absolutely GORGEOUS, and the subtext is definitely flirty.
What do you do?
First of all, don’t panic! [Read more…] about He is Talking to Another Girl: What Should I Do?
When you have trusted someone…
You’ve laid your heart bare for them, you told them your secrets, you gave them the key to the locked door you never open for ANYONE…
You know what happens next. [Read more…] about How to Trust Men Again
