Trust matters more to some men than love.
Because “I love you” comes with a lot of baggage.
Meanwhile, “I trust you” is a vote of confidence that makes a man’s heart swell. [Read more…] about Can You Trust Him? Find Out With The Circle of Trust
How to Keep the Love Alive
Relationship Advice
When “Netflix and Chill” Really Does Mean Netflix
You might assume, from the media, that Americans have lost all their inhibitions around jumping into bed together.
Compared to our grandparents, surely we’re getting it on at record rates.
But the research is in… [Read more…] about When “Netflix and Chill” Really Does Mean Netflix
Ways ChatGPT Can Help You In Love
If the stats are right, 1 in 4 of you are using AI tools like ChatGPT or Claude on a weekly basis.
If you’re not one of them—and you don’t want to be—you can disregard this!
But for those of you already using these tools, I want to suggest some ways to apply them to your romantic relationships. [Read more…] about Ways ChatGPT Can Help You In Love
This Is Why Men Don’t Treat You Respectfully
Love in the 21st century has a huge obstacle it’s never faced before:
The internet.
Not only are devices replacing in-person communication… [Read more…] about This Is Why Men Don’t Treat You Respectfully
Examples of Boundaries
Every single one of us needs boundaries.
These are the limits to how people can treat us.
If someone crosses one of our boundaries, we warn them. If they persist, we take action. [Read more…] about Examples of Boundaries
The No Win Relationship
Are you in a relationship where your guy always has to win?
- When you have an argument, he never concedes or agrees you have a good point.
- When you need to make a decision, it’s his way or no way. [Read more…] about The No Win Relationship
Are Men Less Emotional? Neuroscience Says No
So there’s this idea that women are the ones with all the feelings, not men.
Women cry. Men fix.
Women feel. Men think.
Women are emotional and expressive. Men are logical and stoic. [Read more…] about Are Men Less Emotional? Neuroscience Says No
Is He Chasing Thrills… Or Choosing You?
There’s plenty of advice out there on how to drag a man across the Gap.
You have to inspire his devotion. You’ve got to enchant him.
You have to help him through his bonding stages. [Read more…] about Is He Chasing Thrills… Or Choosing You?
Watch Out For The “Gap” Between Fun and Forever
What is the Gap?
It’s the dark, yawning space between the rush of new romance and the reality of building a life together.
It’s the chasm between fun and forever. Between dopamine and devotion.
And if you can’t cross it, the relationship never makes it. [Read more…] about Watch Out For The “Gap” Between Fun and Forever
What if He’s Not Making A Move… On Purpose?
In my last post, I shared why I’m a fan of the Slow Burn.
There’s something delicious about drawing out the romantic tension over weeks and months. [Read more…] about What if He’s Not Making A Move… On Purpose?
Can You Love Each Other & Still Hate Each Other Sometimes?
It’s scary to consider the idea that love may not be the main emotion at play in your relationship.
You need to believe your partner loves you. Questioning that—even for a moment—can feel catastrophic. [Read more…] about Can You Love Each Other & Still Hate Each Other Sometimes?
Look For This Clue to How He Feels
Do you think it’s possible for a man to love you a lot and just never show it?
Do you think it’s possible for a man to be totally selfish and still love you?
Do you think it’s possible for a man to be incredibly hurtful and still love you? [Read more…] about Look For This Clue to How He Feels
His Love Capacity
I feel a bit cringe when I write anything about “How to Make a Man Love You More.”
Because there’s something important I’m leaving out.
You CAN’T make some men love you more. [Read more…] about His Love Capacity
Difficult Relationships With Difficult Men Part III
I wish someone had taught me what I’m teaching you now.
Twenty years ago, I didn’t know how to fix a relationship or how to end it. I’d let things get so bad he’d break up with me.🤦♀️
Bad boyfriends broke me, but they also taught me the need to grow a backbone. [Read more…] about Difficult Relationships With Difficult Men Part III
Difficult Relationship With Difficult Men Part II
When you’re in a difficult relationship, you just want him to change.
But he’s so stubborn. He refuses to change his hurtful behaviors or get any help.
And why should he? [Read more…] about Difficult Relationship With Difficult Men Part II
