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Even the man you love might not trust you.
That’s hard to hear.
Because you know you’re trustworthy. You know how hard you work to make sure he can lean on you, rely on you for the little things, and never doubt your commitment. [Read more…] about The Truth About Trust No One Tells You in Relationships
Why does falling hard for a man almost guarantee he’ll pull away from you?
Apparently, according to the internet , it’s because men need to chase. They need to believe they’re the one going after you. [Read more…] about When Liking Him Too Much Backfires
It looks like we’re going to have to give up the old saying that 1 in 2 marriages end in divorce!
Couples getting married after 2010 are predicted to have the lowest divorce rate since World War II.
If marriage is in your future, that’s great news. [Read more…] about No, 1 in 2 Marriages Don’t End in Divorce – Here’s What’s Really Happening
Trust matters more to some men than love.
Because “I love you” comes with a lot of baggage.
Meanwhile, “I trust you” is a vote of confidence that makes a man’s heart swell. [Read more…] about Can You Trust Him? Find Out With The Circle of Trust
You might assume, from the media, that Americans have lost all their inhibitions around jumping into bed together.
Compared to our grandparents, surely we’re getting it on at record rates.
But the research is in… [Read more…] about When “Netflix and Chill” Really Does Mean Netflix
If the stats are right, 1 in 4 of you are using AI tools like ChatGPT or Claude on a weekly basis.
If you’re not one of them—and you don’t want to be—you can disregard this!
But for those of you already using these tools, I want to suggest some ways to apply them to your romantic relationships. [Read more…] about Ways ChatGPT Can Help You In Love
Love in the 21st century has a huge obstacle it’s never faced before:
The internet.
Not only are devices replacing in-person communication… [Read more…] about This Is Why Men Don’t Treat You Respectfully
Every single one of us needs boundaries.
These are the limits to how people can treat us.
If someone crosses one of our boundaries, we warn them. If they persist, we take action. [Read more…] about Examples of Boundaries
Are you in a relationship where your guy always has to win?
So there’s this idea that women are the ones with all the feelings, not men.
Women cry. Men fix.
Women feel. Men think.
Women are emotional and expressive. Men are logical and stoic. [Read more…] about Are Men Less Emotional? Neuroscience Says No
There’s plenty of advice out there on how to drag a man across the Gap.
You have to inspire his devotion. You’ve got to enchant him.
You have to help him through his bonding stages. [Read more…] about Is He Chasing Thrills… Or Choosing You?
What is the Gap?
It’s the dark, yawning space between the rush of new romance and the reality of building a life together.
It’s the chasm between fun and forever. Between dopamine and devotion.
And if you can’t cross it, the relationship never makes it. [Read more…] about Watch Out For The “Gap” Between Fun and Forever
In my last post, I shared why I’m a fan of the Slow Burn.
There’s something delicious about drawing out the romantic tension over weeks and months. [Read more…] about What if He’s Not Making A Move… On Purpose?
It’s scary to consider the idea that love may not be the main emotion at play in your relationship.
You need to believe your partner loves you. Questioning that—even for a moment—can feel catastrophic. [Read more…] about Can You Love Each Other & Still Hate Each Other Sometimes?
Do you think it’s possible for a man to love you a lot and just never show it?
Do you think it’s possible for a man to be totally selfish and still love you?
Do you think it’s possible for a man to be incredibly hurtful and still love you? [Read more…] about Look For This Clue to How He Feels
