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Don’t believe dating advice.
Because it will make you feel like you’re doing EVERYHING wrong, you’re not good enough, and there’s NO WAY a man would be attracted to a woman like you.
It should come with a disclaimer: [Read more…] about You Don’t Have to Be Attractive
Let’s be honest…
Guys today don’t treat women well.
Do you have to put up with it?
Or is there something you can do? [Read more…] about Guys Don’t Date Like Gentlemen Anymore—Why?
There are two kinds of dating coaches.
The first kind tells you what to do. Send this text. Say this to him. Do this next.
I call this the Boss Coach. You obey their instructions. (And if their advice doesn’t work, you know who to blame!) [Read more…] about Need a BOSS Coach or a BIRTH Coach?
It is SO easy to create an emotional connection with another woman.
You could be standing in line at the grocery store and strike up a heartfelt conversation with the woman in front of you.
But creating an emotional connection with a man? [Read more…] about Connect With Him
Former supermodel Christie Brinkley has had a hard time finding men her age to date.
Why?
Because she feels invisible to men in their 60s. [Read more…] about Help! I’m Invisible to Men
Last weekend I found a box of my old college diaries, and I discovered some of my earliest dating advice to myself. Want to hear it? 😉
Apparently I was scratching my head over what to do about a boy I’d been close to but was now pulling away. I wrote: [Read more…] about 3 Things I’d Tell My Younger Self about Love
As much as online dating is a ton of work without much reward, it does teach you a lot about human nature.
The way men present themselves when you meet them for the first time is INCREDIBLY revealing. [Read more…] about 3 Signs He’s Not Worth Another Date
“Psst!”
I was walking down the hall in high school, just a shy freshman minding my own business, when a girl from my class beckoned to me.
She opened her locker and glanced around before letting me see inside. [Read more…] about Understand Your Unique Flavor of Desire
What makes you a catch?
What makes ANY man lucky to be with you?
Can you think of, oh, say 5 reasons?
When I ask women do this exercise, they tend to answer with things like: [Read more…] about If He Won’t Do This, You’re in Trouble
I hope you’ve taken on board my message about radical self-care. Now it’s time to take things up a notch.
Today I want to talk about radical self-acceptance.
Radical self-care is the idea that you should treat yourself with the same loving kindness and care you treat others… [Read more…] about The Secret to Love in Real Life
Anne Lamott has some unusual dating advice.
About 6 years ago, she was overwhelmed. She was in her sixties, helping her son raise her grandson, and she was in full people-pleasing mode… [Read more…] about She Met Her Future Husband in 3 Months By Doing This
Are you tired of being “nice”?
You know what I mean:
“I think you’re nice, but I’m just not attracted to you.”
What does THAT mean? [Read more…] about This Makes Him Desire You
I was listening to my favorite podcast recently when a guest casually mentioned a fact that made my job drop.
In research for her book This Chair Rocks, author and activist Ashton Applewhite discovered that the people with the best sex lives are “not the thinnest, not the youngest [Read more…] about Who’s Got the BEST Love Lives? These Folks
Did you know that there are tons of websites out there selling programs that teach men how to make women want to sleep with them?
Here’s one example: [Read more…] about The Secret World of Men’s Dating Advice (And Why It’s Not So Different From Ours)
Fifteen years ago, I interviewed a number of men who made their living teaching men how to pick up women.
I listened as they explained the ways they teach men to approach women, to be more compelling, to escalate physically, and how to feel confident as a man. [Read more…] about 3 Reasons Why Guys Feel Insecure
