You’ve met a great guy online.
You’re texting back and forth, and you find yourself in stitches.
This guy is so funny! He always has a clever comeback.
You can’t wait to meet him, but [Read more…] about Is He Great at Texting? Not So Fast…
How to Find the One
Dating Advice
Why You Fall In Love with One Person (And Not Another)
What makes you fall in love with one person and not another?
Once upon a time, people would have chalked it up to fate or destiny.
Nothing can explain love, they’d say. It’s just too mysterious. [Read more…] about Why You Fall In Love with One Person (And Not Another)
Meet Your Soulmate – with Mat Shaffer
Every time you meet a guy, you hope for it.
That magical spark.
That deep connection.
That feeling you’ve known him before in another life. [Read more…] about Meet Your Soulmate – with Mat Shaffer
What Are Some Signs He Loves Me? And Other Questions
Can artificial intelligence give us good dating advice?
Let’s put it to the test!
I posed a few common dating questions to ChatGPT, an AI model designed by OpenAI.
Here’s what it said… [Read more…] about What Are Some Signs He Loves Me? And Other Questions
“Robot” Explains How to Find Love
When I typed “how to find love” into a chat box, I wasn’t expecting much.
What could artificial intelligence possibly know about the human heart?
But what appeared next on my screen was remarkably sound advice… [Read more…] about “Robot” Explains How to Find Love
Want to Meet Better Guys? Mat Shaffer Shows You How
Mat Shaffer knows one thing about you.
“You are worthy of being in the sort of relationship that lights you up and fulfills you, simply because you exist.”
Do you believe that, too? [Read more…] about Want to Meet Better Guys? Mat Shaffer Shows You How
5 Signs You Should Run Away FAST
When I started my YouTube channel five years ago, I thought I was creating a community for women to talk about our deepest questions in love.
I was partially right. [Read more…] about 5 Signs You Should Run Away FAST
You Don’t Have to Be Attractive
Don’t believe dating advice.
Because it will make you feel like you’re doing EVERYHING wrong, you’re not good enough, and there’s NO WAY a man would be attracted to a woman like you.
It should come with a disclaimer: [Read more…] about You Don’t Have to Be Attractive
Guys Don’t Date Like Gentlemen Anymore—Why?
Let’s be honest…
Guys today don’t treat women well.
Do you have to put up with it?
Or is there something you can do? [Read more…] about Guys Don’t Date Like Gentlemen Anymore—Why?
Need a BOSS Coach or a BIRTH Coach?
There are two kinds of dating coaches.
The first kind tells you what to do. Send this text. Say this to him. Do this next.
I call this the Boss Coach. You obey their instructions. (And if their advice doesn’t work, you know who to blame!) [Read more…] about Need a BOSS Coach or a BIRTH Coach?
Connect With Him
It is SO easy to create an emotional connection with another woman.
You could be standing in line at the grocery store and strike up a heartfelt conversation with the woman in front of you.
But creating an emotional connection with a man? [Read more…] about Connect With Him
Help! I’m Invisible to Men
Former supermodel Christie Brinkley has had a hard time finding men her age to date.
Why?
Because she feels invisible to men in their 60s. [Read more…] about Help! I’m Invisible to Men
3 Things I’d Tell My Younger Self about Love
Last weekend I found a box of my old college diaries, and I discovered some of my earliest dating advice to myself. Want to hear it? 😉
Apparently I was scratching my head over what to do about a boy I’d been close to but was now pulling away. I wrote: [Read more…] about 3 Things I’d Tell My Younger Self about Love
3 Signs He’s Not Worth Another Date
As much as online dating is a ton of work without much reward, it does teach you a lot about human nature.
The way men present themselves when you meet them for the first time is INCREDIBLY revealing. [Read more…] about 3 Signs He’s Not Worth Another Date
Understand Your Unique Flavor of Desire
“Psst!”
I was walking down the hall in high school, just a shy freshman minding my own business, when a girl from my class beckoned to me.
She opened her locker and glanced around before letting me see inside. [Read more…] about Understand Your Unique Flavor of Desire
