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In the 20th Century:
The foundation of a strong sexual connection is polarity.
In the 21st Century:
The foundation of a strong sexual connection is friendship.
If you look for advice online on how to create chemistry, you’ll be served up a heaping helping of polarity. [Read more…] about Is Your Love Life Better When You’re Friends?
In the 20th Century:
If you love him, you’ll let it slide.
In the 21st Century:
If you love him, you’ll call him out on it.
Once upon a time, you did what you were told and didn’t complain. [Read more…] about Say Something or Let It Go?
In the 20th Century:
You’re in a bad relationship because you made a bad choice.
In the 21st Century:
You’re in a bad relationship because you’re working through your issues. [Read more…] about Blaming Yourself for Bad Relationships is SO Last Century
In the 20th Century:
The better your body, the more fun you have in bed.
In the 21st Century:
The more you enjoy your body, the more fun you have in bed. [Read more…] about Better Body = Better in the Bedroom?
In the 20th Century:
Desire is black and white.
In the 21st Century:
Desire is incredibly nuanced.
“Figuring out your sexuality” used to involve [Read more…] about Do You Know Everything There Is to Know About Your Sexuality?
In the 20th Century:
You get one love per lifetime.
In the 21st Century:
You love anew in each life stage.
As a kid, I assumed all adults were married. They were old, and all old people came in twos, right? 🤣 [Read more…] about What If You Grow Apart?
In the 20th Century:
The purpose of marriage is to settle down and raise a family.
In the 21st Century:
The purpose of marriage is to live your best life.
In the past, you made most of your major life decisions by your early twenties. [Read more…] about The New Purpose of Marriage
In the 20th Century:
Interrogate.
In the 21st Century:
Invite.
If you want to get to know someone, what’s the first thing you do? [Read more…] about You Should Ask Him Lots of Questions, Right?
In the 20th Century:
Impress.
In the 21st Century:
Connect.
No wonder we get so nervous about meeting new people. [Read more…] about Don’t Impress Him, PLEASE
In the 20th Century:
If you don’t understand him, ask an expert on men.
In the 21st Century:
If you don’t understand him, ask him.
It’s one of the craziest things we do… [Read more…] about When You Need an Expert On Men, Do THIS
In the 20th Century:
All men are the same.
In the 21st Century:
Every man is different.
Pop psychology deals in stereotypes. [Read more…] about Men Are All The Same
In the 20th Century:
Life is full of things you don’t want to do. Get used to it.
In the 21st Century:
You always have options.
When you’re a kid, you don’t have much control over your life. [Read more…] about The Myth of the Easy-Going Girlfriend
In the 20th Century:
Safety means making sure he’s not a serial killer or just wants to get in your pants.
In the 21st Century:
Safety means building trust, communication, boundaries, and accountability into your relationship. [Read more…] about From Serial Killers to Heartbreak: Rethinking Safety in Love
In the 20th Century:
Attractiveness is objective.
In the 21st Century:
Attraction is subjective.
Line up a group of men in a row. [Read more…] about We Are Most Attracted To People Who…
In the 20th Century:
Appearance matters.
In the 21st Century:
Familiarity matters.
I can’t believe the wool has been pulled over our eyes for so long. [Read more…] about Guys Just Care About Looks, Don’t They?
