If you are looking for love, and not just a man, there’s one skill that you must master:
The skill of ending things.
95% of the men you meet will NOT be able to create love with you. [Read more…] about 6 Ways to Let Him Down Easy
4 Stages of Your Quest for Love
Where are you in your quest for love?
If I asked you this, nearly all of you would answer by telling me about the man in your life—or absence thereof!
We define where we are in love by [Read more…] about 4 Stages of Your Quest for Love
Pursue Your Pleasure in Love
Here at Your Brilliance, my goal is to help you shine.
My goal is to get you in touch with your light and remove all barriers to it, so that you aren’t afraid anymore.
When we are not in touch with our light, we feel powerless. [Read more…] about Pursue Your Pleasure in Love
Make Any Man Want You? THIS is Better
Love brings us so much joy and fulfillment…
But it also brings us so much pain.
Men don’t always act the way we want them to. [Read more…] about Make Any Man Want You? THIS is Better
Why Online Dating Is So Much Like High School
I’ll never forget the last time I tried online dating.
I’d gotten out of a committed relationship, and I was excited to test the waters again.
Because once upon a time, I knew online dating inside and out. [Read more…] about Why Online Dating Is So Much Like High School
3 Ways to Know Your Worth
One of the biggest things that can hold you back in life and love is not knowing your worth.
Your worth is constant. It doesn’t rise and fall based on what other people think of you. It doesn’t rise and fall based on your successes and failures. It is inherent in who you are, and it is the equal of anyone’s. [Read more…] about 3 Ways to Know Your Worth
What Does Love Feel Like?
Everybody knows what love feels like. Surely!
I used to think that…
Until I went on my own journey of discovering that what I thought was love wasn’t really love at all. [Read more…] about What Does Love Feel Like?
Why People Marry Who They Marry
As a woman, do you ever feel sick and tired of the mountain of advice telling you how to be more attractive to men? (Oh, yes, I’m guilty, too!)
Sure, attraction will get you a boyfriend…
But what attraction cannot do is deliver that powerful knowing that you should be MARRIED to this person. [Read more…] about Why People Marry Who They Marry
3 Things You Should Know about Yourself in Dating
One of the great things about dating advice is the way it helps you understand men better. You learn what to say or do, and you gain real confidence in all your interactions.
But getting inside a man’s head only takes you so far. [Read more…] about 3 Things You Should Know about Yourself in Dating
The #1 Question to Ask in An On-Off Relationship
If there’s one thing that’s worse than a relationship that’s over for good, it’s a relationship that keeps hanging on by a string.
You know it isn’t working. You’re not happy. But you just can’t cut the cord.
Every time you think it’s over, he comes back. [Read more…] about The #1 Question to Ask in An On-Off Relationship
What Your Dream Self Can Teach You about Breaking Up
If we’re going to love, we’ve got to be prepared for love to end.
That is the likely outcome of most relationships.
Although no one falls in love expecting it to fall apart, reality warns us that we must be prepared. [Read more…] about What Your Dream Self Can Teach You about Breaking Up
Don’t Make Each Other Happy – Advice from a Celebrity Couple
In my last post, I explained why it’s a myth to believe that getting the life we’ve always wanted will make us happy at last.
Because of hedonic adaptation, we get used to anything. We get used to the good things in our life, and we get used to the bad. [Read more…] about Don’t Make Each Other Happy – Advice from a Celebrity Couple
What Do You Need to Be Happy?
Won’t it be great when you can finally relax into the arms of your beloved…
Knowing that your future together will be long and happy?
No more wondering whether it will work out. [Read more…] about What Do You Need to Be Happy?
Why Men Change Once They’ve Got You
He was so amazing in the beginning.
He brought you flowers, opened the door for you, and surprised you with magical experiences. When you were sick, he brought you treats. When you were upset, he made you feel better. [Read more…] about Why Men Change Once They’ve Got You
3 Types of Men & How to Attract Them
Back in my late twenties, I was a guinea pig for love.
I was living in a city that made it easy to date. I worked in the city center, where I could pop out to a coffee date on my lunch break. I rewrote my online dating profile every three months. [Read more…] about 3 Types of Men & How to Attract Them
