Do you ever think about the guys you got caught up in…
Who you didn’t see through until it was too late?
I do. I wonder how I could have been so stupid. How I could have missed the signs. [Read more…] about Avoid These Guys Like the Plague
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Do you ever think about the guys you got caught up in…
Who you didn’t see through until it was too late?
I do. I wonder how I could have been so stupid. How I could have missed the signs. [Read more…] about Avoid These Guys Like the Plague

How long have you been on autopilot?
Following the course set out for you, hitting the goals you’re expected to hit…
Marrying because you were supposed to get married, or making yourself date even though you’re not sure that’s what you want… [Read more…] about Free to Be You: Authentic Relationships at Midlife with Sue Sutherland

High blood pressure … belly fat … increased risk of heart attack and diabetes.
Those are the health risks of … what?
You probably guessed being overweight, but [Read more…] about 3 Unexpected Signs of a Toxic Relationship

Those of you who’ve been following me for a while know that there’s one topic that lights me on fire, and that is…
Women’s pleasure.
Not only is women’s pleasure the focus of my book The Pleasure Principle, but it’s also a mission of mine. [Read more…] about Stop Pleasing Him – Please Yourself

Sometimes I think that love is a scam.
It didn’t used to be…
Not before the whole commercial complex designed to make you think that love is something you buy with cards and online dating memberships and a better breath mint. [Read more…] about Is Love a Scam?

Did you know you’re in a box?
Simply by being a woman, people put you in a box…
The Woman Box.
Because you’re a woman, you’re supposed to be: [Read more…] about Do You Need to Be More Feminine?

This time of year is so hard on relationships.
You go into a shop and see romantic gifts everywhere. Romantic movies are playing on TV. You see what your happily-married friends have posted on Facebook, and you think…
My guy didn’t get me a bouquet of flowers like that. [Read more…] about Is Your Relationship Good Enough?

I was once in a relationship with a man who’d figured out a great way to come out of every argument on top.
All he did was accuse ME of what HE was doing…
Or thinking about doing. [Read more…] about Why Does He Accuse You of Things You Didn’t Do?

Do you ever feel like men have all the power in love?
You’re supposed to be figuring out what THEY want and waiting until THEY contact YOU.
MEN are the ones who ask women out. MEN are the ones who propose. [Read more…] about Get Your Power Back in Relationships

Of all the ways that love can drag down your life…
The worst is falling for someone who doesn’t deserve it.
You were ready and willing to give EVERYTHING.
Your heart, your time, your commitment… [Read more…] about Is He the One? 3 Ways to Spot Someone Worth Your Love

Remember back when you were a kid and you kept wanting to get your mom’s attention?
“Mom, come see this!”
“Mom, look at this.”
“Mom, watch this.” [Read more…] about Why Is My Partner Acting Distant?

What better way to start a new year than with a vow to make more time for pleasure!
I recently spoke with Sexy Brilliant founder Devina Kaur about the transformative power of pleasure.
This time I was in the guest seat [Read more…] about Pleasure is NOT a Dirty Word

Before we get into the 3 key traits that make you stand out as a high value woman, let me be clear about one thing:
We are ALL high value.
There is no WAY another woman is worth more than you. [Read more…] about 3 Key Traits of a High Value Woman

What a year this has been!
It didn’t spare couples any more than it spared singles.
There’s the COVID breakup, the COVID divorce… [Read more…] about Love Goals for 2021

“I love you… but I’m not in love with you.”
What a thing to say!
What does that even mean—“I love you but I’m not in love with you”?
Does that mean this person still has feelings for you [Read more…] about I Love You But I’m Not In Love with You