What makes you a catch?
What makes ANY man lucky to be with you?
Can you think of, oh, say 5 reasons?
When I ask women do this exercise, they tend to answer with things like: [Read more…] about If He Won’t Do This, You’re in Trouble
The Mysterious Ways of the Heart
Relationships
The Best Way to Become Beautiful To A Man
Dr. Adam Sheck is a psychologist in Los Angeles with a 19-year-old daughter, and it hasn’t escaped his attention that beauty is a BIG deal.
The global beauty industry is worth over $500 billion. The pressure to look good has never been higher. [Read more…] about The Best Way to Become Beautiful To A Man
Did You Mess Up? Or Did He?
When I first started my career 20 years ago, I was struck by the desperation of the women who wrote to me seeking answers.
They weren’t looking for advice on how to have healthier, happier relationships.
They were desperate for something to do right NOW [Read more…] about Did You Mess Up? Or Did He?
Ask Him This Weirdly Revealing Question
As a parent, I often find myself in the position of having to explain boys to my daughter.
She wants to know, “Why are boys so WEIRD??”
Why were the boys who were so nice last year—really good friends, really fun to play with—now suddenly such jerks? [Read more…] about Ask Him This Weirdly Revealing Question
4 Stages of Your Quest for Love
Where are you in your quest for love?
If I asked you this, nearly all of you would answer by telling me about the man in your life—or absence thereof!
We define where we are in love by [Read more…] about 4 Stages of Your Quest for Love
Pursue Your Pleasure in Love
Here at Your Brilliance, my goal is to help you shine.
My goal is to get you in touch with your light and remove all barriers to it, so that you aren’t afraid anymore.
When we are not in touch with our light, we feel powerless. [Read more…] about Pursue Your Pleasure in Love
What Does Love Feel Like?
Everybody knows what love feels like. Surely!
I used to think that…
Until I went on my own journey of discovering that what I thought was love wasn’t really love at all. [Read more…] about What Does Love Feel Like?
3 Things You Should Know about Yourself in Dating
One of the great things about dating advice is the way it helps you understand men better. You learn what to say or do, and you gain real confidence in all your interactions.
But getting inside a man’s head only takes you so far. [Read more…] about 3 Things You Should Know about Yourself in Dating
The #1 Question to Ask in An On-Off Relationship
If there’s one thing that’s worse than a relationship that’s over for good, it’s a relationship that keeps hanging on by a string.
You know it isn’t working. You’re not happy. But you just can’t cut the cord.
Every time you think it’s over, he comes back. [Read more…] about The #1 Question to Ask in An On-Off Relationship
Don’t Make Each Other Happy – Advice from a Celebrity Couple
In my last post, I explained why it’s a myth to believe that getting the life we’ve always wanted will make us happy at last.
Because of hedonic adaptation, we get used to anything. We get used to the good things in our life, and we get used to the bad. [Read more…] about Don’t Make Each Other Happy – Advice from a Celebrity Couple
Why Men Change Once They’ve Got You
He was so amazing in the beginning.
He brought you flowers, opened the door for you, and surprised you with magical experiences. When you were sick, he brought you treats. When you were upset, he made you feel better. [Read more…] about Why Men Change Once They’ve Got You
3 Types of Men & How to Attract Them
Back in my late twenties, I was a guinea pig for love.
I was living in a city that made it easy to date. I worked in the city center, where I could pop out to a coffee date on my lunch break. I rewrote my online dating profile every three months. [Read more…] about 3 Types of Men & How to Attract Them
When You’re Exhausted and Sick and Everyone Just Wants More of You
The headache had been coming on all day, and by afternoon I knew it was going to be a full-on migraine.
The only way I knew to get through was to go straight to bed and close my eyes and try to sleep. [Read more…] about When You’re Exhausted and Sick and Everyone Just Wants More of You
Should You Keep Waiting for Him?
I’ve been thinking a lot about a friend of mine recently.
I wrote about her in The Pleasure Principle. I love to her to bits. She is such a great friend, she has such a big heart, and she is the perfect person to have fun with.
And yet she’s still single [Read more…] about Should You Keep Waiting for Him?
4 Ways to Respond When He Pulls Away
In my last post, I explained 5 reasons why men pull away, but now you’re wondering what you can DO about it.
Before you do anything, you need to ask yourself one very important question:
Is this even a problem? [Read more…] about 4 Ways to Respond When He Pulls Away
