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As a parent, I often find myself in the position of having to explain boys to my daughter.
She wants to know, “Why are boys so WEIRD??”
Why were the boys who were so nice last year—really good friends, really fun to play with—now suddenly such jerks? [Read more…] about Ask Him This Weirdly Revealing Question
Where are you in your quest for love?
If I asked you this, nearly all of you would answer by telling me about the man in your life—or absence thereof!
We define where we are in love by [Read more…] about 4 Stages of Your Quest for Love
Here at Your Brilliance, my goal is to help you shine.
My goal is to get you in touch with your light and remove all barriers to it, so that you aren’t afraid anymore.
When we are not in touch with our light, we feel powerless. [Read more…] about Pursue Your Pleasure in Love
Everybody knows what love feels like. Surely!
I used to think that…
Until I went on my own journey of discovering that what I thought was love wasn’t really love at all. [Read more…] about What Does Love Feel Like?
One of the great things about dating advice is the way it helps you understand men better. You learn what to say or do, and you gain real confidence in all your interactions.
But getting inside a man’s head only takes you so far. [Read more…] about 3 Things You Should Know about Yourself in Dating
If there’s one thing that’s worse than a relationship that’s over for good, it’s a relationship that keeps hanging on by a string.
You know it isn’t working. You’re not happy. But you just can’t cut the cord.
Every time you think it’s over, he comes back. [Read more…] about The #1 Question to Ask in An On-Off Relationship
In my last post, I explained why it’s a myth to believe that getting the life we’ve always wanted will make us happy at last.
Because of hedonic adaptation, we get used to anything. We get used to the good things in our life, and we get used to the bad. [Read more…] about Don’t Make Each Other Happy – Advice from a Celebrity Couple
He was so amazing in the beginning.
He brought you flowers, opened the door for you, and surprised you with magical experiences. When you were sick, he brought you treats. When you were upset, he made you feel better. [Read more…] about Why Men Change Once They’ve Got You
Back in my late twenties, I was a guinea pig for love.
I was living in a city that made it easy to date. I worked in the city center, where I could pop out to a coffee date on my lunch break. I rewrote my online dating profile every three months. [Read more…] about 3 Types of Men & How to Attract Them
The headache had been coming on all day, and by afternoon I knew it was going to be a full-on migraine.
The only way I knew to get through was to go straight to bed and close my eyes and try to sleep. [Read more…] about When You’re Exhausted and Sick and Everyone Just Wants More of You
I’ve been thinking a lot about a friend of mine recently.
I wrote about her in The Pleasure Principle. I love to her to bits. She is such a great friend, she has such a big heart, and she is the perfect person to have fun with.
And yet she’s still single [Read more…] about Should You Keep Waiting for Him?
In my last post, I explained 5 reasons why men pull away, but now you’re wondering what you can DO about it.
Before you do anything, you need to ask yourself one very important question:
Is this even a problem? [Read more…] about 4 Ways to Respond When He Pulls Away
One of the hardest things in the world is being with someone who doesn’t appreciate you.
Who takes you for granted…
Who expects you to be there even if he goes off with some other woman… [Read more…] about Make Him Stay with You and Care About Only You
What do you think the very best gift you could give a guy is?
Telling him that you want a future with him?
Or telling him that you believe in the future he wants for himself? [Read more…] about This Gets Him Thinking About A Future With You
I’m sure you’ve noticed this.
When you really REALLY like a guy, everything falls apart.
The more you like him, the more likely it is to blow up in your face. [Read more…] about Like Him TOO Much? Don’t Jinx It – Do This Instead!
