In the 20th Century:
If you’re good enough, he’ll stay.
In the 21st Century:
If you create something good together, he’ll stay.
It feels so personal. [Read more…] about Is It Your Fault It Didn’t Work Out?
Moving on
Surviving Divorce
What If You Grow Apart?
In the 20th Century:
You get one love per lifetime.
In the 21st Century:
You love anew in each life stage.
As a kid, I assumed all adults were married. They were old, and all old people came in twos, right? 🤣 [Read more…] about What If You Grow Apart?
When Choosing Yourself Means Leaving Him
In the 20th Century:
You failed if you didn’t managed to snag a guy and stay married.
In the 21st Century:
You fail yourself when you stay in a relationship that doesn’t serve you. [Read more…] about When Choosing Yourself Means Leaving Him
Why Men End Relationships
Why did he do it?
Why did he walk away from everything you had together?
It makes no sense. [Read more…] about Why Men End Relationships
What Your Birth Year Says About You
Ever wish you could go back to the good old days when men acted like gentlemen and dating led to marriage?
If so, chances are you were born before 1979.
For most of the 20th century, being an adult meant following the same script: [Read more…] about What Your Birth Year Says About You
The Bravery of Breaking Up
We don’t talk enough about how brave it is to break up.
As a woman? Whom everyone will judge?
It takes courage to say, “I am not okay with how I am being treated in this relationship.” [Read more…] about The Bravery of Breaking Up
What Your Dream Self Can Teach You about Breaking Up
If we’re going to love, we’ve got to be prepared for love to end.
That is the likely outcome of most relationships.
Although no one falls in love expecting it to fall apart, reality warns us that we must be prepared. [Read more…] about What Your Dream Self Can Teach You about Breaking Up
He Doesn’t Love Me Back
I’m not sure anything can hurt more than this.
You’re giving the one thing you value most to this man—something you’ve saved, something that’s very precious to you, something that brings great joy and happiness—and he’s saying…
“Nope. Nah. Don’t want it.” [Read more…] about He Doesn’t Love Me Back
Love Goals for 2021
What a year this has been!
It didn’t spare couples any more than it spared singles.
There’s the COVID breakup, the COVID divorce… [Read more…] about Love Goals for 2021
I Love You But I’m Not In Love with You
“I love you… but I’m not in love with you.”
What a thing to say!
What does that even mean—“I love you but I’m not in love with you”?
Does that mean this person still has feelings for you [Read more…] about I Love You But I’m Not In Love with You
How a Man Feels When His Wife Wants a Divorce
We are living in challenging times right now.
So many marriages have been pushed to their breaking point.
The stress of quarantine, financial uncertainty, and ambiguous loss widens the cracks in even healthy relationships. [Read more…] about How a Man Feels When His Wife Wants a Divorce
34 Ways to Save Your Marriage Alone
There is no place more lonely than a marriage where you’re the only one fighting.
You see what’s at stake. You see how much you both have to lose. Why doesn’t he care? Why won’t he try? [Read more…] about 34 Ways to Save Your Marriage Alone
How to Thrive after Divorce with Dianna Hanken
Once you get to the end of a divorce, you can feel like a world-weary warrior.
You’ve been through so much. You’ve seen so much pain and fighting. Your heart is hurting, you’re exhausted, and now you’ve got to rebuild your life all over again. [Read more…] about How to Thrive after Divorce with Dianna Hanken
3 Relationship Killers No One Talks About
We think we know what kills a relationship:
Poor communication, clinginess, insecurity, cheating, incompatibility, the inability to commit…
But research shows that there are 3 even bigger relationship killers that hardly anyone talks about. [Read more…] about 3 Relationship Killers No One Talks About
How is the Craziness in the World Going to Affect Your Love Life?
The world is crazy right now. Everything is changing day by day. There’s so much fear in the news about how this situation is affecting every single aspect of our lives.
Which makes you wonder:
How is this going to affect our relationships? [Read more…] about How is the Craziness in the World Going to Affect Your Love Life?
