Once you get to the end of a divorce, you can feel like a world-weary warrior.
You’ve been through so much. You’ve seen so much pain and fighting. Your heart is hurting, you’re exhausted, and now you’ve got to rebuild your life all over again.
What if there was a tool that could help?
Divorce coach Dianna Hanken is the creator of the Listen.Trust.Act formula, a process that helps divorced women rebuild their trust in themselves, access their inner guidance, and create a life that’s true to them.
In this week’s YBTV interview, Dianna shares her story of finding herself again after divorce. She leads us through the challenges women face at the end of a marriage and how to break through.
You’ll learn why you don’t have to know where you’re going in order to take that first baby step, how to reconnect with yourself after years of accommodating others, and how to find that feeling of heaven on earth.
What You’ll Learn
Divorce is the end of the old you and the dawn of a new you.
It’s a time to discover who you are, now that you’re not working around someone else.
It’s a time to discover what you want, now that you are in charge of your life.
It’s a time to discover what you can achieve, now that marital difficulties are no longer holding you back.
Divorce coach Dianna Hanken believes that divorce “can be a phenomenal time in our lives, but a lot of us get stuck, and we don’t know how to move forward.”
That’s where her Listen.Act.Trust. formula can help.
How Dianna Got to the Other Side
Dianna developed her signature coaching process from a very personal place.
She got divorced herself after 20 years of marriage.
Even before her marriage broke up, she knew she wasn’t happy or fulfilled.
“I didn’t know what I wanted. I didn’t know who I was. I had spent all of these years trying to make something work with someone else,” she says.
She spent tens of thousands of dollars on retreats, courses, and trainings.
“I learned to start to break down these inner walls. I learned to be able to really come back into myself, really know what I was about,” she says.
As she did the work, she discovered that she had a special gift to be able to help other women through the same process. Today, she helps divorced women thrive into the next chapter of their lives.
3 Steps to Healing the Wounds of Divorce
Even an amicable divorce leaves scars.
You feel ashamed. You feel judged. You feel traumatized.
“When our whole world collapses, it’s a very traumatic experience,” says Dianna. “No one comes out of the divorce unscathed.”
So how do you rebuild your life again?
You learn to listen to and trust yourself again.
That’s where Dianna’s Listen.Trust.Act. process comes in.
Step 1. Listen to Yourself
“We need to be able to be able to reconnect with us,” Dianna says. “What do we truly want? What do we truly desire? What do we truly want to bring forward in our life?”
Step 2. Trust What You Hear
Sometimes, your intuition gives you ideas that don’t make sense to your rational brain. Stay with it. Trust that it’s a clue and keep exploring.
Step 3. Act on the Guidance You Receive
Finally, it’s time to take action. “Our lives are not going to change if we don’t take action steps in order to create something new in our lives,” Dianna says.
It’s a 3-part process, and you can use it again and again on any problem you might be experiencing in your life. “The listen piece is the inner work, the trust is the bridge, and then the acting is the outer work,” Dianna explains.
It really is this beautiful process that allows you to listen to what comes through, trust it, and then be able to act in ways so that you’ll be able to co-create with life to bring forward what you truly want.”
Start Thriving with a Free Masterclass
For the women who go through Dianna’s coaching program, life looks a lot different.
“They finally find that peace to be able to let go of whatever was holding them back [and move forward] into this next phase of their life,” Dianna says.
Along with the peace comes a sense of freedom. You can be yourself. You can trust yourself. You can create what you desire.
If you’d like to start your own journey of transformation, then sign up for Dianna’s free How to Thrive after Divorce Masterclass. You’ll learn more about the Listen.Trust.Act. process, as well as other tips and tools that you can use right away.
Jump to Topics of Interest
2:00 Dianna’s personal journey through divorce to self-discovery
4:28 Shame, judgment and trauma
6:57 Listen. Trust. Act.
11:03 Co-creating with life
13:00 Knocking down inner walls
16:16 How this process transforms us
18:23 Heaven on earth
19:28 Thrive after Divorce Masterclass
20:39 Your time is right now
Dianna Hanken is an author, certified coach and motivational speaker committed to helping divorced women heal so they can thrive again in the next chapter of their life. Dianna’s extensive coaching training along with her highly intuitive gifts for seeing beyond the ordinary gives her an unique way of moving you through your blocks and patterns that often come with divorce into your joy, experiencing deep self-love, trust in yourself and fully connected with your authentic power. She’s professionally certified in Transformational Coaching and Leadership and was a former Global Ambassador for Feminine Power. Find out how you can work with Dianna.