The Art of Finding the Right Guy

Dating

When You Really, Really Want a Guy You Can’t Have

It sucks.

He’s so perfect. He’s everything you ever wanted.

And you can’t have him.

Maybe he’s with someone else. Maybe he lives far away. [Read more…] about When You Really, Really Want a Guy You Can’t Have

Why Single Moms Rock (And Men Should Stand Up and Take Notice)

Which is tougher:

Being a mother or being a wife?

Looking after little ones … or looking after one big one?

Why You Should Be Dating Older Men

I was one of THOSE girls.

I always had an older boyfriend.

When I was 13, my boyfriend was 18. In my 20s, I dated men in their 30s. In my 30s, I found myself with partners hitting 40 and beyond. [Read more…] about Why You Should Be Dating Older Men

How to Turn Him Down Politely: The Art of Rejecting Men

I used to work in the heart of a seaside city. At lunchtime, savory scents from the food courts drifted down the streets. Seagulls flew low, hoping to spot a sucker willing to share his lunch.

Locals knew not to feed the seagulls. But tourists enjoyed watching them scramble for bread. [Read more…] about How to Turn Him Down Politely: The Art of Rejecting Men

Feminine Magic with Luba Evans (Video)

In this episode of YBTV, I interview love and success coach Luba Evans to find out how women can unleash their “wild and primordial” feminine magic.

If you’ve ever wondered how you can be a powerful woman while retaining the softness, playfulness and vulnerability of your feminine heart, this episode is for you. [Read more…] about Feminine Magic with Luba Evans (Video)

What A Guy Wants to See from Your Selfie: How to Take a Great Profile Pic

We live in the age of selfies.

Anyone who’s friended a teenage girl on Facebook knows all about the craze. I’m not sure when “duck face” entered into the vernacular, but those pouting lips are unmistakable.

The One Thing You Must Have To Stand Out from the Crowd

Have you seen how many profiles you’re competing against?

I once asked a male friend to log into the dating site I used, to show me what comes up when a man searches for a woman in my age group.

It was an eye-opener. [Read more…] about The One Thing You Must Have To Stand Out from the Crowd

Will Losing Weight Help Find You Love?

How can you attract a man looking like this?

Just look at your reflection in the mirror. Remember what you looked like back when you weighed hardly anything?

Knowing what you know, would a man look at you and find you attractive? [Read more…] about Will Losing Weight Help Find You Love?

Which Attracts Men More: Perfume or Sweat?

Sweat…

Stinky or sexy?

Don’t laugh! Sweat is seriously underrated.

By now, you must have heard the studies that show a compound in male sweat, androstanol, is like sexual catnip. [Read more…] about Which Attracts Men More: Perfume or Sweat?

Why Your Brain Always Tries to Ruin Your Romance

That brain of yours…

It’s so good at thinking. Why doesn’t it just stick to what it’s good at?

But no, it has to get involved in how you feel.

One minute, it’s making you high with happiness. The next minute, it’s dropping you straight back to earth. [Read more…] about Why Your Brain Always Tries to Ruin Your Romance

Would You Try Dating Coaching?

Your girlfriends are the best.

They encourage you, loan you great clothes, and tweak your online profile for you. Without them, you wouldn’t have the confidence to show up at karaoke night in a miniskirt and belt out Shania Twain. (You’d have a lot fewer embarrassing pics on social media, too!) [Read more…] about Would You Try Dating Coaching?

Does Success on the Job Sabotage Your Love Life?

We’re told we can be strong women, holding our own against men.

And THEN we’re told that men like feminine women who are soft and gentle.

The very qualities that lead to success and achievement in the workplace “turn off” men. No fair! [Read more…] about Does Success on the Job Sabotage Your Love Life?

Can This Predict Your Perfect Match?

Do you believe an online dating site can tell you who you’ll click with—on the basis of nothing more than a short survey?

Lots of people do.

The algorithms behind eHarmony, OkCupid, and other dating sites are carefully guarded secrets. [Read more…] about Can This Predict Your Perfect Match?