In this episode of YBTV, I interview love and success coach Luba Evans to find out how women can unleash their “wild and primordial” feminine magic.
If you’ve ever wondered how you can be a powerful woman while retaining the softness, playfulness and vulnerability of your feminine heart, this episode is for you.
What You’ll Learn
“Being in the feminine is the key to a successful love life,” Luba says.
She explains that “real feminine power is to be able to twist left and right, and be masculine if necessary and feminine if necessary, in fact to carry that polarity inside of ourselves. That makes us magnetic.”
She urges women to cultivate their own creative flow. “Every woman should have her own ‘me’ time and some kind of a channel to express her soul. When we lose our connection to our soul, everything is lost.”
She cautions women against becoming so self-sufficient there is no room for a man. “Unless we learn to ask for things and receive, then there is no space for a good man, a high quality man, to really serve us and deliver to us.” Being receptive doesn’t have to come across as needy. “People love to give,” Luba says. “Give them that chance.”
So should you let a man pay for dinner? Absolutely. “You are the gift. You are the prize. You are a woman!” Luba tells us. He should be grateful to spend an hour in your company.
What if you don’t feel that deep feminine confidence? Stop comparing yourself to others. “You represent a certain piece of art created by yourself, and it’s unique. It is genuine. And if there is charisma and spirit in it, that’s it – that’s what makes you irresistible.”
Luba urges all of us to value our earthiness. As woman, we are connected to nature. We are organic and real. Men crave the raw femininity we bring to their lives. We should stop apologizing and start celebrating ourselves.
Let’s bring feminine magic into every area of our lives.
Jump to Topics of Interest
What is feminine power? 1:20
How can we be strong without scaring men away? 3:24
How can we make that transition between the strong, take-charge woman at work and the soft, playful woman in the bedroom? 6:00
The power of creative flow 7:18
The Russian understanding of femininity, as opposed to the Western stereotype of femininity 8:39
Cultivating the ability to ask for things and to receive 10:21
How to come across as open and receptive rather than needy 13:16
Deep feminine confidence 14:42
Why you should let him pay for dinner 16:49
The pressure women feel to stay thin 17:55
The Law of Devotion 23:11
“Woman in the Mirror” – a daily practice for women 24:25
About Luba Evans
Luba is a Harvard speaker, love and success coach, and creator of the online program The Law of Devotion. She draws on her studies of Tantra, yoga, Ayurveda, Reiki, massage, and meditation to help women awaken their feminine power.