The Art of Finding the Right Guy

Dating

Do You Have to Fix Yourself to Be Attractive

In the 20th Century:
Make yourself lovable.

In the 21st Century:
Remove all barriers to love.

I would like to apologize. [Read more…] about Do You Have to Fix Yourself to Be Attractive

Men Need to Chase – True or False?

If you’ve ever complained about the opposite sex being flaky, superficial, noncommittal, only interested in using you, then you need to read the previous two posts in this series.

You’ll learn the real problem isn’t men or women; it’s immaturity. [Read more…] about Men Need to Chase – True or False?

Stop Attracting Flaky, Immature Partners

So if you’re a woman who’s been complaining that guys today are flaky and superficial…

Or a guy who’s been saying that women today are flaky and superficial…

I’ve got a challenge for you. [Read more…] about Stop Attracting Flaky, Immature Partners

Women Are Done Dating. So Are Men. Now What?

Last summer I spent some months researching what men online were saying about love and relationships.

And the fact is…

A lot of men are opting out of the dating game because they just don’t think it’s worth the effort. [Read more…] about Women Are Done Dating. So Are Men. Now What?

Black Cat Energy Gone Wrong

Have you heard about “black cat energy”?

It’s all over the internet. Videos on this topic have been racking up hundreds of thousands of views.

It’s the idea that, as a woman, you should exude the same kind of energy as [Read more…] about Black Cat Energy Gone Wrong

How to Stay Smart (And Sane) When Texts Lie

As of 2025, you can no longer be sure he isn’t writing his texts without the help of AI. What does that mean for you?

It means you’ve got to adapt. Here are 3 good places to start. [Read more…] about How to Stay Smart (And Sane) When Texts Lie

Why You Might Never Trust a Love Text Again

A while back, a friend started texting me back differently.

Her replies to my texts didn’t sound like her. They were short and chipper—sometimes with emojis. She didn’t use emojis. What was going on? [Read more…] about Why You Might Never Trust a Love Text Again

Dating Red Flags & Green Lights with Coach Eric

Are you confident you could spot the difference between a man who’s trying to play you… and a man who’s serious about finding a relationship?

If you’ve spent any time on dating apps, you know that it isn’t easy! Too many men say what they think you want to hear. [Read more…] about Dating Red Flags & Green Lights with Coach Eric

Before You Offer Him A Shoulder To Cry On…

I caught up with the mother of one of my high school classmates the other day.

She told me that my friend was doing great. Still single! Had her own business. Did her own thing. Was fed up with men after a slew of bad dates. [Read more…] about Before You Offer Him A Shoulder To Cry On…

The Body Test

Tough Truth:
Hiding how you look won’t make him fall in love with you.
Lead with your beautiful body—let it filter out the wrong men.

Women who aren’t body confident often make one terrible mistake: [Read more…] about The Body Test

Stop Impressing Men

Tough truth:
Impressing him won’t make him love you.
Having fun together is what makes him want to see more of you.

The “catch” model of dating is outdated. [Read more…] about Stop Impressing Men

What if He’s Not Making A Move… On Purpose?

In my last post, I shared why I’m a fan of the Slow Burn.

There’s something delicious about drawing out the romantic tension over weeks and months. [Read more…] about What if He’s Not Making A Move… On Purpose?

Fast Spark or Slow Burn? Here’s What Works

When a new relationship begins, there are two ways it can go.

The first is the fast path.

You meet someone. There’s instant chemistry. You fall into bed, and the sparks determine whether you keep seeing each other. [Read more…] about Fast Spark or Slow Burn? Here’s What Works