In the 20th Century:
Men fall out of love because they stop finding their partner attractive.
In the 21st Century:
Men fall out of love because they don’t want to be a disappointment. [Read more…] about Surprising Reason Men Fall Out of Love
Your Guide to Moving On
Surviving a Breakup
Is It Your Fault It Didn’t Work Out?
In the 20th Century:
If you’re good enough, he’ll stay.
In the 21st Century:
If you create something good together, he’ll stay.
It feels so personal. [Read more…] about Is It Your Fault It Didn’t Work Out?
When Choosing Yourself Means Leaving Him
In the 20th Century:
You failed if you didn’t managed to snag a guy and stay married.
In the 21st Century:
You fail yourself when you stay in a relationship that doesn’t serve you. [Read more…] about When Choosing Yourself Means Leaving Him
Why Men Lose Interest When Women Give Too Much
When your relationship is on the rocks, what do you do?
If you’re like many women, you try even harder.
You make his favorite foods. You plan special outings. You dress nicely. You’re extra affectionate. [Read more…] about Why Men Lose Interest When Women Give Too Much
Is It Okay to Break Up Over Text?
Think back to the last time a man ended things with you.
(If that’s never happened to you, good for you! 😉)
What did he tell you? Did he say it was him, not you? [Read more…] about Is It Okay to Break Up Over Text?
Why Men End Relationships
Why did he do it?
Why did he walk away from everything you had together?
It makes no sense. [Read more…] about Why Men End Relationships
How to Cope With Feeling Unwanted in a Relationship
It was a nice young man at a conference—many, many years ago—who taught me the danger of feeling unappreciated.
When work decided to send me to this conference, I felt an unaccustomed thrill. I hadn’t done something on my own for so long. [Read more…] about How to Cope With Feeling Unwanted in a Relationship
The Story He’s Telling Himself About You
A while back, I shared with you a “magic phrase” that helps with tough conversations.
The phrase comes from the brilliant social scientist Brené Brown, and it goes like this:
“The story I’m telling myself is…” [Read more…] about The Story He’s Telling Himself About You
3 Signs He Will Break Your Heart
If I could wave a magic wand and change just one thing about love…
I would make it easier for women to walk away from men who can’t or don’t love them.
Sometimes I think we’re suckers for punishment. 😉 [Read more…] about 3 Signs He Will Break Your Heart
When Your Relationship is Falling Apart (And You Are, Too)
When you are hurting because the man you’re with doesn’t seem to care about you, doesn’t treat you well, is cheating on you, has walked away from you…
The pain is UNBEARABLE.
You’re committed to him. [Read more…] about When Your Relationship is Falling Apart (And You Are, Too)
6 Ways to Let Him Down Easy
If you are looking for love, and not just a man, there’s one skill that you must master:
The skill of ending things.
95% of the men you meet will NOT be able to create love with you. [Read more…] about 6 Ways to Let Him Down Easy
The #1 Question to Ask in An On-Off Relationship
If there’s one thing that’s worse than a relationship that’s over for good, it’s a relationship that keeps hanging on by a string.
You know it isn’t working. You’re not happy. But you just can’t cut the cord.
Every time you think it’s over, he comes back. [Read more…] about The #1 Question to Ask in An On-Off Relationship
What Your Dream Self Can Teach You about Breaking Up
If we’re going to love, we’ve got to be prepared for love to end.
That is the likely outcome of most relationships.
Although no one falls in love expecting it to fall apart, reality warns us that we must be prepared. [Read more…] about What Your Dream Self Can Teach You about Breaking Up
If You’re Feeling Unloved & Unlovable, Read This
Who was your very first love?
Do you remember?
Thinking about your first love can put such a smile on your face. 🙂
But actually your very first love is not who you think it is. [Read more…] about If You’re Feeling Unloved & Unlovable, Read This
He Doesn’t Love Me Back
I’m not sure anything can hurt more than this.
You’re giving the one thing you value most to this man—something you’ve saved, something that’s very precious to you, something that brings great joy and happiness—and he’s saying…
“Nope. Nah. Don’t want it.” [Read more…] about He Doesn’t Love Me Back
