In the 20th Century:
It’s your responsibility to be attractive.
In the 21st Century:
It’s your “responsibility” to be attractive. (Airquotes intended.) [Read more…] about What’s Wrong With You??
How to Look Gorgeous
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Men Are All The Same
In the 20th Century:
All men are the same.
In the 21st Century:
Every man is different.
Pop psychology deals in stereotypes. [Read more…] about Men Are All The Same
We Are Most Attracted To People Who…
In the 20th Century:
Attractiveness is objective.
In the 21st Century:
Attraction is subjective.
Line up a group of men in a row. [Read more…] about We Are Most Attracted To People Who…
Guys Just Care About Looks, Don’t They?
In the 20th Century:
Appearance matters.
In the 21st Century:
Familiarity matters.
I can’t believe the wool has been pulled over our eyes for so long. [Read more…] about Guys Just Care About Looks, Don’t They?
Boost Your Attractiveness 21st-Century-Style
In the 20th Century:
A woman’s job was to be feminine.
In the 21st Century:
A woman’s job is to be herself.
When I started my career in love advice back in 2005, it seemed so obvious… [Read more…] about Boost Your Attractiveness 21st-Century-Style
Think You’re Not the Type of Woman to Turn Heads? Think Again
10 guys are lined up in a row.
You and your best girlfriends are each given a slip of paper.
It’s time to vote.
First, write down the guy you think is the best looking. [Read more…] about Think You’re Not the Type of Woman to Turn Heads? Think Again
You Don’t Have to Be Attractive
Don’t believe dating advice.
Because it will make you feel like you’re doing EVERYHING wrong, you’re not good enough, and there’s NO WAY a man would be attracted to a woman like you.
It should come with a disclaimer: [Read more…] about You Don’t Have to Be Attractive
The Best Way to Become Beautiful To A Man
Dr. Adam Sheck is a psychologist in Los Angeles with a 19-year-old daughter, and it hasn’t escaped his attention that beauty is a BIG deal.
The global beauty industry is worth over $500 billion. The pressure to look good has never been higher. [Read more…] about The Best Way to Become Beautiful To A Man
Become More Attractive Instantly
There’s a trick to feeling more confident, and it involves impersonating Wonder Woman.
No joke!
Social scientist Amy Cuddy found that standing in a power pose [Read more…] about Become More Attractive Instantly
Is There Something Wrong with Wearing Too Much Makeup?
Makeup isn’t what it used to be.
Growing up, my options were limited to just 5 products: lipstick, eyeshadow, foundation, blush and mascara. That’s all anyone I knew wore.
Women “put on their face” if they were going out [Read more…] about Is There Something Wrong with Wearing Too Much Makeup?
How to Help Girls Develop a Positive Body Image with Rebekah Buege
Do you remember the first time you realized that something was wrong with the way you look?
I remember. I was in 5th grade. I’d just gotten glasses. My classmates called me four-eyes.
As I became more self-conscious about my appearance [Read more…] about How to Help Girls Develop a Positive Body Image with Rebekah Buege
Should You Let Your Daughter Wear Makeup?
“Why do you wear so much makeup?”
I stopped applying eye shadow, shocked.
My daughter was in the bathroom with me, brushing her teeth and getting ready for school. [Read more…] about Should You Let Your Daughter Wear Makeup?
Hate Your Body? You Can Still Love Yourself – Interview with Summer Innanen
I will often say to clients, ‘If all the working out that you did, and all that eating … if your body wasn’t going to change, would you still do it?'”
We think we’re doing it to be healthy. [Read more…] about Hate Your Body? You Can Still Love Yourself – Interview with Summer Innanen
3 Tips to Look Great on a VIRTUAL Date
Remember the days when you messaged a new guy online, maybe talked on the phone, then finally met up in person?
Those days might be gone.
Now, you can hop on Zoom or FaceTime and see if you get a good vibe before spending all that time and effort on meeting him. [Read more…] about 3 Tips to Look Great on a VIRTUAL Date
Guys Don’t Notice Me Because of How I Look
The #1 reason you don’t have the love you want is because of something about the way you look… am I right?
If only you looked different—like a Victoria’s Secret model, or a dancer in a hip hop video, or even just like yourself through a Snapchat filter—then your problem would be solved. [Read more…] about Guys Don’t Notice Me Because of How I Look
