What’s blocking you from attracting a life partner or breaking free from the same negative relationship patterns?
Over the years, I’ve identified 3 common love blocks, beliefs that stop you from attracting love.
If you’re in a relationship, these very same love blocks can also create barriers to your connection and intimacy with your partner.
So let’s find out what creates them and how you can break free to attract the love you deserve.
Love Block #1.
You Are Not Over Your Ex
It is amazing how many women I have come across who are not over their exes, even though it’s been years since the breakup and they think they’ve moved on.
If you are still….
- thinking about him
- attached in some way to the idea of “what could have been”
- sending messages to check in on him
- wondering about what you did or didn’t do right in the relationship
- lingering over someone who you know is not right for you or who won’t commit to you…
Then you are not over your ex.
This mental, emotional, and energetic entanglement will not only keep you tied to the past, but it will also serve to disempower you and make you lose faith in love.
So the question then becomes:
Will you continue to allow your ex to rob you of your happiness and the love you desire…
Or will you chose to cut the cords that bind you?
Love Block #2.
You Still Have Suppressed Childhood Wounds
For most of us, childhood is over. We survived. Whatever happened back then is not affecting us anymore.
At least, that’s what we think.
You must understand that when you are a child, your consciousness is like a sponge. You absorb everything you see and experience. If not processed in a positive manner, these experiences then become the negative patterns that play out much later in life in a sabotaging way.
Those things you were constantly told as a child about who you were, what life was like, and how relationships worked remain in your subconscious, affecting your experiences today. Scary to think, huh?
So, if you haven’t looked at any of your childhood wounds, you might want to think again about facing those if you are experiencing some relationship challenges and want to attract more love into your life.
Love Block #3.
You Don’t Love Yourself
Yes, I know what you’re thinking…
The old “love yourself” advice.
What can I say? It’s true!
This one stems from the above two blocks, so your first step is to deal with Love Blocks #1 and #2. It is only after you have done that, that you can start to truly cultivate your self-love.
This is something you need to work on daily.
Think loving thoughts about yourself. Nurture your body with good food. Rest when you need it. Say “no” to things you don’t want to do.
And when you do this, you can then attract more LOVE into your life!
Whether you are in a good relationship or single and loving it, there is always room for a little more love.
Want to learn more?
Watch Melany’s interview with Your Brilliance where she talks about the warning signs of a toxic relationship with a narcissist.