In the 20th Century:
Life is full of things you don’t want to do. Get used to it.
In the 21st Century:
You always have options.
When you’re a kid, you don’t have much control over your life. [Read more…] about The Myth of the Easy-Going Girlfriend
How to Keep the Love Alive
Relationship Advice
The Secret to Keep Him from Straying is NOT…
In the 20th Century:
To keep him, you’ve got to be his fantasy in bed.
In the 21st Century:
To keep him, you’ve got to stay emotionally connected. [Read more…] about The Secret to Keep Him from Straying is NOT…
When Choosing Yourself Means Leaving Him
In the 20th Century:
You failed if you didn’t managed to snag a guy and stay married.
In the 21st Century:
You fail yourself when you stay in a relationship that doesn’t serve you. [Read more…] about When Choosing Yourself Means Leaving Him
Your Priorities, Your Power
In the 20th Century:
He should be your #1 priority.
In the 21st Century:
Your priorities are your choice.
For hundreds of years, a woman’s future depended on her marriage. [Read more…] about Your Priorities, Your Power
Why Men Lose Interest When Women Give Too Much
When your relationship is on the rocks, what do you do?
If you’re like many women, you try even harder.
You make his favorite foods. You plan special outings. You dress nicely. You’re extra affectionate. [Read more…] about Why Men Lose Interest When Women Give Too Much
Why AI Can’t Replace A Real Girlfriend
Once upon a time, guys had to put in effort to woo a woman.
Everything they wanted—a good job, respect in the community, a home of their own, an active sex life—depended on having a wife.
Not anymore. [Read more…] about Why AI Can’t Replace A Real Girlfriend
AI Is Coming For Your Boyfriend
Meet Amanda.
Amanda is a 22-year-old fitness model.
Your guy may have come across her Instagram online.
Her poses get tens of thousands of likes. [Read more…] about AI Is Coming For Your Boyfriend
Is It Okay to Break Up Over Text?
Think back to the last time a man ended things with you.
(If that’s never happened to you, good for you! 😉)
What did he tell you? Did he say it was him, not you? [Read more…] about Is It Okay to Break Up Over Text?
Why Men End Relationships
Why did he do it?
Why did he walk away from everything you had together?
It makes no sense. [Read more…] about Why Men End Relationships
Nothing Lasts Forever (If You Don’t Look After It)
I once dated a man who was fond of saying:
The teacup is already broken.”
To a woman who cried every time she broke something precious, that wasn’t perhaps the kindest thing to say. [Read more…] about Nothing Lasts Forever (If You Don’t Look After It)
How to Cope With Feeling Unwanted in a Relationship
It was a nice young man at a conference—many, many years ago—who taught me the danger of feeling unappreciated.
When work decided to send me to this conference, I felt an unaccustomed thrill. I hadn’t done something on my own for so long. [Read more…] about How to Cope With Feeling Unwanted in a Relationship
Make Him Feel Better Instantly
Have you ever been around a person whose mere presence makes you feel calmer and more grounded?
You don’t know what it is about them. They don’t have to say a word. Just being in their company makes you feel better.
That’s the magic of co-regulation. [Read more…] about Make Him Feel Better Instantly
Get The Best Relationship You’ve EVER Had
A relationship should lift you up.
It should inspire you to become more than you ever dreamed.
It should be a safe place to retreat to when the world becomes too much. [Read more…] about Get The Best Relationship You’ve EVER Had
The Bravery of Breaking Up
We don’t talk enough about how brave it is to break up.
As a woman? Whom everyone will judge?
It takes courage to say, “I am not okay with how I am being treated in this relationship.” [Read more…] about The Bravery of Breaking Up
When Is It Time to Walk Away?
If there’s one thing we women do amazingly well…
It’s making a bad situation work.
No matter what we’re given, we can find a way. We can do a lot with very little. We just adjust our expectations and feel grateful for what we have. [Read more…] about When Is It Time to Walk Away?
