In the 20th Century:
Desire is black and white.
In the 21st Century:
Desire is incredibly nuanced.
“Figuring out your sexuality” used to involve [Read more…] about Do You Know Everything There Is to Know About Your Sexuality?
How to Keep the Love Alive
Relationship Advice
What If You Grow Apart?
In the 20th Century:
You get one love per lifetime.
In the 21st Century:
You love anew in each life stage.
As a kid, I assumed all adults were married. They were old, and all old people came in twos, right? 🤣 [Read more…] about What If You Grow Apart?
The New Purpose of Marriage
In the 20th Century:
The purpose of marriage is to settle down and raise a family.
In the 21st Century:
The purpose of marriage is to live your best life.
In the past, you made most of your major life decisions by your early twenties. [Read more…] about The New Purpose of Marriage
When You Need an Expert On Men, Do THIS
In the 20th Century:
If you don’t understand him, ask an expert on men.
In the 21st Century:
If you don’t understand him, ask him.
It’s one of the craziest things we do… [Read more…] about When You Need an Expert On Men, Do THIS
The Myth of the Easy-Going Girlfriend
In the 20th Century:
Life is full of things you don’t want to do. Get used to it.
In the 21st Century:
You always have options.
When you’re a kid, you don’t have much control over your life. [Read more…] about The Myth of the Easy-Going Girlfriend
The Secret to Keep Him from Straying is NOT…
In the 20th Century:
To keep him, you’ve got to be his fantasy in bed.
In the 21st Century:
To keep him, you’ve got to stay emotionally connected. [Read more…] about The Secret to Keep Him from Straying is NOT…
When Choosing Yourself Means Leaving Him
In the 20th Century:
You failed if you didn’t managed to snag a guy and stay married.
In the 21st Century:
You fail yourself when you stay in a relationship that doesn’t serve you. [Read more…] about When Choosing Yourself Means Leaving Him
Your Priorities, Your Power
In the 20th Century:
He should be your #1 priority.
In the 21st Century:
Your priorities are your choice.
For hundreds of years, a woman’s future depended on her marriage. [Read more…] about Your Priorities, Your Power
Why Men Lose Interest When Women Give Too Much
When your relationship is on the rocks, what do you do?
If you’re like many women, you try even harder.
You make his favorite foods. You plan special outings. You dress nicely. You’re extra affectionate. [Read more…] about Why Men Lose Interest When Women Give Too Much
Why AI Can’t Replace A Real Girlfriend
Once upon a time, guys had to put in effort to woo a woman.
Everything they wanted—a good job, respect in the community, a home of their own, an active sex life—depended on having a wife.
Not anymore. [Read more…] about Why AI Can’t Replace A Real Girlfriend
AI Is Coming For Your Boyfriend
Meet Amanda.
Amanda is a 22-year-old fitness model.
Your guy may have come across her Instagram online.
Her poses get tens of thousands of likes. [Read more…] about AI Is Coming For Your Boyfriend
Is It Okay to Break Up Over Text?
Think back to the last time a man ended things with you.
(If that’s never happened to you, good for you! 😉)
What did he tell you? Did he say it was him, not you? [Read more…] about Is It Okay to Break Up Over Text?
Why Men End Relationships
Why did he do it?
Why did he walk away from everything you had together?
It makes no sense. [Read more…] about Why Men End Relationships
Nothing Lasts Forever (If You Don’t Look After It)
I once dated a man who was fond of saying:
The teacup is already broken.”
To a woman who cried every time she broke something precious, that wasn’t perhaps the kindest thing to say. [Read more…] about Nothing Lasts Forever (If You Don’t Look After It)
How to Cope With Feeling Unwanted in a Relationship
It was a nice young man at a conference—many, many years ago—who taught me the danger of feeling unappreciated.
When work decided to send me to this conference, I felt an unaccustomed thrill. I hadn’t done something on my own for so long. [Read more…] about How to Cope With Feeling Unwanted in a Relationship
