We all want to be loved.
Period.
In fact, I believe that to learn to love and be loved is our greatest life’s work.
But when we’ve grown up without a map for it, it’s near impossible to find. [Read more…] about Love and Dating after Trauma
How to Find the One
Dating Advice
Mindful Dating with Dr. Marie Thouin
There’s so much pain wrapped up in dating.
The pain of past love… the pain of not being chosen… the pain of never feeling good enough.
If the reason you date is to find someone who’ll love you forever, then of course you’re going to feel let down [Read more…] about Mindful Dating with Dr. Marie Thouin
A Sneaky Way Men Test a Woman’s “Value”- Mat Shaffer
How far would you go to win the man of your dreams?
Would you wear the kinds of clothes he likes—even if it’s not really your style?
Would you learn everything about his favorite sport—even if sports aren’t really your thing? [Read more…] about A Sneaky Way Men Test a Woman’s “Value”- Mat Shaffer
4 Feminine Signals Men Can’t Help But Respond to
It seems like attracting men is so much WORK.
There are all of these things you have to do.
You have to wear makeup and do your hair and work out and put on sexy clothes and know what to say and not be too available…
Seriously, is ANY guy worth all that?? [Read more…] about 4 Feminine Signals Men Can’t Help But Respond to
How to Be A High Value Woman Men Will Be Afraid to Lose
At first, I was resistant to talking about high value women, because—hey! we are ALL high value women!
You are invaluable. You are a gift. The world is SO much better with you in it.
But here’s what I know about women… [Read more…] about How to Be A High Value Woman Men Will Be Afraid to Lose
Bad Dating Advice You’re Probably STILL Using
Quiz time!
I am going to give you 10 dating tips.
I want you to tell me if you have EVER done this for a man… or if you would NEVER do this for a man.
Ready? [Read more…] about Bad Dating Advice You’re Probably STILL Using
Healing from Trauma Will Lead You to Love
The modern-day romanticized idea of love has us believe that love has no boundaries…
That if we love someone, we will accept them as they are, and that they will do the same for us…
That love overcomes all. [Read more…] about Healing from Trauma Will Lead You to Love
5 Signs He is NOT Your Soulmate
Back in my twenties, I was with a guy who wanted to get married, and I didn’t know what to do.
So I went around asking people [Read more…] about 5 Signs He is NOT Your Soulmate
How Trauma Sabotages Your Love Life & How to Heal
Here are some of the things I’ve been told about men:
Men don’t like needy women.
Men don’t like women who talk about their problems.
Men don’t like women who are an open book.
Men don’t like women who tell them how they feel. [Read more…] about How Trauma Sabotages Your Love Life & How to Heal
Stop Trying to Make Him Want You
“Send this text and he’ll immediately feel a rush of obsession for you.”
“Say this phrase and he won’t be able to stop thinking about you.”
Wouldn’t it be great if it were that easy?! [Read more…] about Stop Trying to Make Him Want You
Mental Health and Dating
May is Mental Health Month, and I can’t let it pass without talking about mental health and dating.
For anyone who’s struggling with feeling safe and okay in the world, it often feels like dating just makes everything worse.
Dating is hard enough as is. [Read more…] about Mental Health and Dating
How to Trust Men Again
When you have trusted someone…
You’ve laid your heart bare for them, you told them your secrets, you gave them the key to the locked door you never open for ANYONE…
You know what happens next. [Read more…] about How to Trust Men Again
Make a Great First Impression on a Date
Have you ever noticed how the instant you meet someone, you automatically know if there’s potential or not?
That’s the power of first impressions.
The first impression someone has of you is remarkably enduring AND remarkably accurate. [Read more…] about Make a Great First Impression on a Date
If You’re Feeling Unloved & Unlovable, Read This
Who was your very first love?
Do you remember?
Thinking about your first love can put such a smile on your face. 🙂
But actually your very first love is not who you think it is. [Read more…] about If You’re Feeling Unloved & Unlovable, Read This
What Men Want—Really!
This is the question that dogged me from high school into my twenties…
How do I become THAT kind of girl?
I noticed which of my classmates were comfortable with boys. [Read more…] about What Men Want—Really!
