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Growing up, I knew what was expected of me.
I was supposed to get married, support my husband, and have children.
That was my job in life. That’s what productive citizens did. They settled down and had a family as soon as possible. [Read more…] about You’d Be A Great Wife Someday
We’re nearly a quarter of the way into the 21st century, and everything is changing.
What people want from relationships is changing.
How people meet and mate is changing.
If you’re still using 20th century relationship skills, you might get left behind. [Read more…] about Finding Love in the 21st Century
In my last article, we looked at his Adaptive Child…
And today we’re getting honest about ourselves.
You were once a kid, too. [Read more…] about You’re Not the Girl You Once Were – And That’s a Good Thing
If you want one of the very best marriages humanity has ever seen…
A marriage to a partner who believes in you, supports you, and brings out the very best in you…
You need one secret ingredient. [Read more…] about The Secret Ingredient of the Very BEST Marriages
The world is changing so fast, yet I’ve never been more excited for the future of love.
Because I know something that a lot of people don’t…
Right now, a lot of people see the chaos created by dating apps [Read more…] about The Future of Love is Bright
Imagine a boyfriend who’s always available to chat…
Who talks late into the night with you…
Who asks about your feelings and appears to care…
Who texts you sweet nothings throughout the day… [Read more…] about Will We Fall in Love with Robots Someday?
You’ve met a great guy online.
You’re texting back and forth, and you find yourself in stitches.
This guy is so funny! He always has a clever comeback.
You can’t wait to meet him, but [Read more…] about Is He Great at Texting? Not So Fast…
What makes you fall in love with one person and not another?
Once upon a time, people would have chalked it up to fate or destiny.
Nothing can explain love, they’d say. It’s just too mysterious. [Read more…] about Why You Fall In Love with One Person (And Not Another)
Every time you meet a guy, you hope for it.
That magical spark.
That deep connection.
That feeling you’ve known him before in another life. [Read more…] about Meet Your Soulmate – with Mat Shaffer
Can artificial intelligence give us good dating advice?
Let’s put it to the test!
I posed a few common dating questions to ChatGPT, an AI model designed by OpenAI.
Here’s what it said… [Read more…] about What Are Some Signs He Loves Me? And Other Questions
When I typed “how to find love” into a chat box, I wasn’t expecting much.
What could artificial intelligence possibly know about the human heart?
But what appeared next on my screen was remarkably sound advice… [Read more…] about “Robot” Explains How to Find Love
Mat Shaffer knows one thing about you.
“You are worthy of being in the sort of relationship that lights you up and fulfills you, simply because you exist.”
Do you believe that, too? [Read more…] about Want to Meet Better Guys? Mat Shaffer Shows You How
When I started my YouTube channel five years ago, I thought I was creating a community for women to talk about our deepest questions in love.
I was partially right. [Read more…] about 5 Signs You Should Run Away FAST
Don’t believe dating advice.
Because it will make you feel like you’re doing EVERYHING wrong, you’re not good enough, and there’s NO WAY a man would be attracted to a woman like you.
It should come with a disclaimer: [Read more…] about You Don’t Have to Be Attractive
Let’s be honest…
Guys today don’t treat women well.
Do you have to put up with it?
Or is there something you can do? [Read more…] about Guys Don’t Date Like Gentlemen Anymore—Why?
