“Send this text and he’ll immediately feel a rush of obsession for you.”
“Say this phrase and he won’t be able to stop thinking about you.”
Wouldn’t it be great if it were that easy?! [Read more…] about Stop Trying to Make Him Want You
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“Send this text and he’ll immediately feel a rush of obsession for you.”
“Say this phrase and he won’t be able to stop thinking about you.”
Wouldn’t it be great if it were that easy?! [Read more…] about Stop Trying to Make Him Want You

May is Mental Health Month, and I can’t let it pass without talking about mental health and dating.
For anyone who’s struggling with feeling safe and okay in the world, it often feels like dating just makes everything worse.
Dating is hard enough as is. [Read more…] about Mental Health and Dating

When you have trusted someone…
You’ve laid your heart bare for them, you told them your secrets, you gave them the key to the locked door you never open for ANYONE…
You know what happens next. [Read more…] about How to Trust Men Again

Have you ever noticed how the instant you meet someone, you automatically know if there’s potential or not?
That’s the power of first impressions.
The first impression someone has of you is remarkably enduring AND remarkably accurate. [Read more…] about Make a Great First Impression on a Date

Who was your very first love?
Do you remember?
Thinking about your first love can put such a smile on your face. 🙂
But actually your very first love is not who you think it is. [Read more…] about If You’re Feeling Unloved & Unlovable, Read This

This is the question that dogged me from high school into my twenties…
How do I become THAT kind of girl?
I noticed which of my classmates were comfortable with boys. [Read more…] about What Men Want—Really!

Do you ever think about the guys you got caught up in…
Who you didn’t see through until it was too late?
I do. I wonder how I could have been so stupid. How I could have missed the signs. [Read more…] about Avoid These Guys Like the Plague

Everyone knows that dating sucks.
Because: [Read more…] about Succeed in Dating by Changing This Mindset

How long have you been on autopilot?
Following the course set out for you, hitting the goals you’re expected to hit…
Marrying because you were supposed to get married, or making yourself date even though you’re not sure that’s what you want… [Read more…] about Free to Be You: Authentic Relationships at Midlife with Sue Sutherland

Those of you who’ve been following me for a while know that there’s one topic that lights me on fire, and that is…
Women’s pleasure.
Not only is women’s pleasure the focus of my book The Pleasure Principle, but it’s also a mission of mine. [Read more…] about Stop Pleasing Him – Please Yourself

When you meet someone for the first time, wouldn’t it be nice to know if he really likes you or whether he’s just being polite?
When you’re out with him, and he’s gone quiet and you’re wondering why he isn’t saying anything, wouldn’t it be nice to know if you said something wrong or whether he just doesn’t have anything to say? [Read more…] about How to Read a Guy

Sometimes I think that love is a scam.
It didn’t used to be…
Not before the whole commercial complex designed to make you think that love is something you buy with cards and online dating memberships and a better breath mint. [Read more…] about Is Love a Scam?

Did you know you’re in a box?
Simply by being a woman, people put you in a box…
The Woman Box.
Because you’re a woman, you’re supposed to be: [Read more…] about Do You Need to Be More Feminine?

Back when I was a teen, I discovered I had a mysterious gift.
Strangers would suddenly strike up conversations with me.
Whether I was at the train station, at the theater, on an airplane [Read more…] about How to Meet Guys in Real Life

What are you doing on October 10th?
Would you like to be kickstarting the most incredible year you’ve EVER had in life and love?
If the past year threw you for a loop – and you’re STILL recovering – then I’d like to extend a helping hand. 🙂 [Read more…] about The Secret to Finding Love in the New Year – Mat Shaffer