
As you now know, men are feelings-driven creatures. (Don’t let him convince you otherwise!)
But they don’t broadcast their feelings because they don’t want anyone to know.
They don’t want to feel ashamed, powerless, inferior, or afraid.
So they double-down on logic, hoping to hide their vulnerabilities.
They especially don’t want women to know how vulnerable they feel in relationships.
They don’t know what they’re doing.
They thought it would be easy to make her happy.
Being a man means satisfying your woman, and the only instruction they got was to (1) be a provider and (2) be a stud in bed.
When that doesn’t work, they don’t blame their playbook. They blame her.
She’s never satisfied. Everything he does is wrong. He can never win.
Men Get TERRIBLE Advice
Even with all the information and research out there on emotional intelligence, the advice men give each other hasn’t changed.
If she’s not happy with his money or what he does in bed, she’s a “lost cause.” Move on.
Men EVEN tell each other that it doesn’t pay to be empathetic or listen to their girlfriend’s problems.
If you listen to her problems, she’ll treat you like one of her girlfriends and stop feeling attracted to you.
So you may be with a nice, kind guy who has spend a LITTLE too much time on the internet watching those videos…
And now thinks that throwing his weight around to show masculine dominance is what women want from a partner.
What This Means For You
You NEED to know what your guy has been taught.
You need to know what the man in your life (or the man you WANT in your life) believes about “what women want.”
Without that information, you could both be going in blind, trying to conform to a script that will eventually destroy both of you.
I want to share with you a glimpse of the kind of stuff men are being fed.
Click this link if you’ve got a strong stomach—and aren’t at work.
Advice like this is why men don’t seem to be maturing.
It’s not their fault. It’s that they believe what other men tell them.
We’ve got a long road ahead.
Let us know what you think!