Watch Out For Dangerous Love Advice

I’m not courting controversy, but I really believe this:

Much of the dating and relationship advice out there is actually dangerous.

That’s a strong word, but it’s the right one.

It’s designed to make you appeal to the type of men most likely to take advantage of you.

If you’ve ever been told…

• Don’t be needy
• Don’t impose on him
• Be more easy-going
• Stop nagging
• Respect his need for space
• Ask less of him and be grateful for the little you get

Then congratulations! You’ve been trained to appeal to men with a low Love Capacity.

Do You Know His Love Capacity?

We all have a different capacity for love.

Some people have huge hearts. Some people have small ones.

A man with high Love Capacity will:

• Adjust his life for the woman he loves
• Take care of her when she’s sick
• Make her smile when she’s feeling down
• Sacrifice his own comfort if she gets an amazing career opportunity
• Happily turn down boozy nights out for lovely warm nights in with her
• Look for solutions where you both can win—because that’s what you do when you love someone.

A man with low Love Capacity may do a few of those things when he’s in courtship mode. But once he’s in a relationship? He expects the power to revert to him.

He doesn’t want to adjust his life for a woman. He expects her to adjust to him.

If she keeps inconveniencing him, he cuts her off.

THIS is why so much dating advice focuses on teaching women to adapt to a man’s preferences, rather than expecting him to meet her halfway.

If you’re in love with a man with low Love Capacity, that’s the ONLY way he’ll agree to a relationship with you.

Does It Even Matter?

But what if you love this man and it’s worth it to you?

You’re willing to sacrifice and give up for him. That’s just what love does.

That’s when you need to talk to those of us who’ve been there, done that. We know the true cost of those relationships.

The emotional turmoil.
The tears and stress.
The lost years of your life.
The financial investment in someone who only took and never gave.

Getting into a relationship with a man who has low Love Capacity is like buying a car that’s constantly breaking down.

Sure, you might find a way to drive it so it doesn’t completely fall apart, but you’re still risking an accident every time you get behind the wheel.

And I want better for you.