You know who the real catch is?
It’s not the handsome successful guy.
It’s not the confident well-tailored man.
It’s not even the muscular pro athlete. [Read more…] about Spot a Real Catch
Your Guide to the Male Brain
Understanding Men
The Story He’s Telling Himself About You
A while back, I shared with you a “magic phrase” that helps with tough conversations.
The phrase comes from the brilliant social scientist Brené Brown, and it goes like this:
“The story I’m telling myself is…” [Read more…] about The Story He’s Telling Himself About You
What Men’s Dating Advice is Telling Him
Over the past 20 years, some guys have gotten really good at one thing:
Winning over women.
If a guy doesn’t think he’s very good with women, all he has to do is hop on the internet and browse the mountains of advice. [Read more…] about What Men’s Dating Advice is Telling Him
Relationship Resources for Men
It’s really not fair on men.
Women spend their entire lives learning about relationships…
While men are expected to show up, win a woman over, and live happily ever after with no relationship training! [Read more…] about Relationship Resources for Men
Did You Overstep His Emotional Bubble?
Perhaps you’re familiar with the concept of a personal bubble.
It’s the idea that we need a certain amount of personal space to feel comfortable.
For some folks, being packed like sardines on the subway is no big deal. [Read more…] about Did You Overstep His Emotional Bubble?
Why Grown-Up Men Sometimes Act Like Children
If you ask 100 women the question:
“What’s the biggest problem you have with men?”
You’ll see a lot of answers that go something like:
“They act so immature!” [Read more…] about Why Grown-Up Men Sometimes Act Like Children
Think You’re Not the Type of Woman to Turn Heads? Think Again
10 guys are lined up in a row.
You and your best girlfriends are each given a slip of paper.
It’s time to vote.
First, write down the guy you think is the best looking. [Read more…] about Think You’re Not the Type of Woman to Turn Heads? Think Again
Men Just Want One Thing… Don’t They?
A question:
If there’s one thing all men have in common, it’s their enjoyment of … what?
Chances are, you answered with a 3-letter word that starts with s. 😉
It’s the obvious answer. [Read more…] about Men Just Want One Thing… Don’t They?
Why Men Behave Badly in Relationships
Men change.
The man you dated—that fun, generous, open-hearted guy who stole your heart—is gone.
In his place is a grumpy guy who’s selfish and short-tempered. [Read more…] about Why Men Behave Badly in Relationships
Why Doesn’t He Even TRY to Be a Good Boyfriend?
By now, you know that a man’s childhood affects his relationship with you.
By the time he could walk, he already had a sense of whether it was safe to get emotionally close to his caregivers.
Even as a baby, he’d already developed strategies [Read more…] about Why Doesn’t He Even TRY to Be a Good Boyfriend?
Why He Overreacts
Few of us get through life unscathed.
And the guy you care about has had bad things happen to him.
He’s been hurt, shamed, embarrassed, rejected…
And he’s stuffed those experiences deep down. [Read more…] about Why He Overreacts
Is He Even Capable of Loving You?
By now, you know that a man’s early childhood shapes him in profound ways.
Not only does it set him up to find a specific type of woman attractive…
But it also shapes the issues he’ll struggle with for the rest of his life. [Read more…] about Is He Even Capable of Loving You?
How to Understand Him
Why does he act this way?
Why did he say that?
Why are men so confusing???
As women, we understand each other. We’re mind readers when it comes to our closest friends. [Read more…] about How to Understand Him
Meet Your Soulmate – with Mat Shaffer
Every time you meet a guy, you hope for it.
That magical spark.
That deep connection.
That feeling you’ve known him before in another life. [Read more…] about Meet Your Soulmate – with Mat Shaffer
Want to Meet Better Guys? Mat Shaffer Shows You How
Mat Shaffer knows one thing about you.
“You are worthy of being in the sort of relationship that lights you up and fulfills you, simply because you exist.”
Do you believe that, too? [Read more…] about Want to Meet Better Guys? Mat Shaffer Shows You How
