I used to teach the Submission Code.
Not that I realized it. I thought I was just teaching fundamental dating principles.
Ideas like: [Read more…] about The Submission Code: Why It Attracts Men (And Why I Quit)
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I used to teach the Submission Code.
Not that I realized it. I thought I was just teaching fundamental dating principles.
Ideas like: [Read more…] about The Submission Code: Why It Attracts Men (And Why I Quit)

Men today are being pulled in two opposing directions.
One direction tells them:
Be a man. Don’t let her manipulate you. Tell her what to do. [Read more…] about The ONE THING That Controls Every Man’s Behavior

A sea change is here, and some of you are already feeling it.
The way men treat women today is not the way men treated women, say, 30 years ago.
There’s more open disrespect. [Read more…] about No, Men Today Don’t Treat Women The Same

An article caught my eye the other day. It was on “5 Things Coaches Get Wrong About the Brain.”
One of them might shock you. It was the belief that people can change.
The author claimed that 10% of people (maybe as high as 20%) cannot change. [Read more…] about What If It’s Not That He WON’T Change… But He CAN’T?

I feel like I’ve got whiplash when I look at relationships today.
On the one hand, there are guys like my friend’s new partner.
He’s gorgeous, but that’s the least important part about him. [Read more…] about The 2 Types of Men You’ll Meet (One Will Break You)

Why does falling hard for a man almost guarantee he’ll pull away from you?
Apparently, according to the internet , it’s because men need to chase. They need to believe they’re the one going after you. [Read more…] about When Liking Him Too Much Backfires

Trust matters more to some men than love.
Because “I love you” comes with a lot of baggage.
Meanwhile, “I trust you” is a vote of confidence that makes a man’s heart swell. [Read more…] about Can You Trust Him? Find Out With The Circle of Trust

Are you upset that men have AI girlfriends?
Enough to take to YouTube and vent your outrage in a video?
No, I thought not. Me either.
But apparently a few female influencers are…
And they’ve convinced men that women are rising up in outrage against men getting their emotional needs met by AI. [Read more…] about Is It Okay For Men To Have AI Girlfriends?

Over the past year, I’ve spent so much time listening to the voices of men.
Finding out how they feel about love…
How they feel about women…
What they’re worried about…
What they wish for.
And you know what surprised me? [Read more…] about What Men Are Struggling With

Love in the 21st century has a huge obstacle it’s never faced before:
The internet.
Not only are devices replacing in-person communication… [Read more…] about This Is Why Men Don’t Treat You Respectfully

As you now know, men are feelings-driven creatures. (Don’t let him convince you otherwise!)
But they don’t broadcast their feelings because they don’t want anyone to know.
They don’t want to feel ashamed, powerless, inferior, or afraid. [Read more…] about Why Men Behave So Destructively in Relationships

When you’re a grown woman, using the type of love advice that teenagers and thirsty 20-somethings use is humiliating.
You’re an adult. You don’t want to manipulate people.
You want something real. You don’t want to have to perform [Read more…] about 5 Things Grown-Ups Know About Love

Are you in a relationship where your guy always has to win?

So there’s this idea that women are the ones with all the feelings, not men.
Women cry. Men fix.
Women feel. Men think.
Women are emotional and expressive. Men are logical and stoic. [Read more…] about Are Men Less Emotional? Neuroscience Says No

If you’ve ever complained about the opposite sex being flaky, superficial, noncommittal, only interested in using you, then you need to read the previous two posts in this series.
You’ll learn the real problem isn’t men or women; it’s immaturity. [Read more…] about Men Need to Chase – True or False?