I was destined to be a love expert.
My name, “Amy,” traces back to the Latin verb for love, amare.
I’m love’s fiercest defender. I get angry when we reduce it to Valentine’s hearts and wedding rings. [Read more…] about Love But Make It Punk
The Mysterious Ways of the Heart
Relationships
When You’re Lonely (Even Though He’s Right Beside You)
For hundreds of years, relationship advice has told women that it’s up to them.
The man only has two jobs:
(1) Choose the woman he wants to be with, and
2) Go to work each day to financially provide. [Read more…] about When You’re Lonely (Even Though He’s Right Beside You)
Women Are Replacing Men With AI
Two years ago, I made a couple of videos on AI girlfriend apps.
My goal was to show their limitations. Technology can’t replace romantic partners. Human beings need other human beings to regulate their nervous system. [Read more…] about Women Are Replacing Men With AI
The Four Burner Theory That Explains Men
Why does your guy spend so much time and energy on everything BUT his relationship with you?
- He goes to the gym instead of hanging out with you.
- He puts in long hours at work instead of having dinner with you.
- He messages his buddies but fails to respond to your texts. [Read more…] about The Four Burner Theory That Explains Men
You’re At The Mercy of His Childhood
One falls in love, and then learns, for the duration, that one is at the mercy of someone else’s childhood.” – Hanif Kureishi
When you were growing up, did you have a caregiver who: [Read more…] about You’re At The Mercy of His Childhood
Break the Relationship Script with Conscious Relationships | Janel Atlas
What if the biggest obstacle to happy relationships is not picking the right person…
But picking the right type of relationship?
A relationship custom-built to work with YOUR life. [Read more…] about Break the Relationship Script with Conscious Relationships | Janel Atlas
What Happens When You Fall Apart?
Do you have these three things in your life?
- Someone who is paying attention.
- Someone who will respond if you fall apart.
- A sense that you don’t have the manage the whole world on your own. [Read more…] about What Happens When You Fall Apart?
If You’re Not His First Priority
Men are great.
But life can feel a little bit easier when we have the ability to put them in a box.
When you’re love-centered, like so many of us are, you put your relationship at the center of your life. [Read more…] about If You’re Not His First Priority
When Your Relationship Is Just So STRESSFUL
We don’t talk enough about relationship stress.
We all know work is stressful, and life is stressful, but man…
The people we love are the most stressful of all.
So what can we do about it? [Read more…] about When Your Relationship Is Just So STRESSFUL
The Submission Code: Why It Attracts Men (And Why I Quit)
I used to teach the Submission Code.
Not that I realized it. I thought I was just teaching fundamental dating principles.
Ideas like: [Read more…] about The Submission Code: Why It Attracts Men (And Why I Quit)
What If It’s Not That He WON’T Change… But He CAN’T?
An article caught my eye the other day. It was on “5 Things Coaches Get Wrong About the Brain.”
One of them might shock you. It was the belief that people can change.
The author claimed that 10% of people (maybe as high as 20%) cannot change. [Read more…] about What If It’s Not That He WON’T Change… But He CAN’T?
What He REALLY Sees When He Looks At You
What does your partner think when he looks at you?
It’s a simple but powerful question.
Because it reveals the subconscious truth about what you fear. [Read more…] about What He REALLY Sees When He Looks At You
I Trained AI To Be My Love Coach (Here’s What It Found Out About Me)
Remember the days when you could actually get good advice on Google?
Now you just get generic lists or patronizing “do this” advice. Even the good information is getting drowned in a sea of copycat crap. [Read more…] about I Trained AI To Be My Love Coach (Here’s What It Found Out About Me)
Does Your Guy Treat You Like A Teapot Or A Mug?
On my birthday this year, I was gifted a beautiful teapot.
My friend told me that he thought we’d lost something by switching to mugs. The ceremony, the moment to breathe. [Read more…] about Does Your Guy Treat You Like A Teapot Or A Mug?
What Men Really Want From Women (It’s Not Your Body)
You know that electric feeling you get when someone looks at you like you’re the most interesting person in the room?
Most of us haven’t felt that in years… and it’s killing our relationships. [Read more…] about What Men Really Want From Women (It’s Not Your Body)
