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You know that electric feeling you get when someone looks at you like you’re the most interesting person in the room?
Most of us haven’t felt that in years… and it’s killing our relationships. [Read more…] about What Men Really Want From Women (It’s Not Your Body)
You might assume, from the media, that Americans have lost all their inhibitions around jumping into bed together.
Compared to our grandparents, surely we’re getting it on at record rates.
But the research is in… [Read more…] about When “Netflix and Chill” Really Does Mean Netflix
If the stats are right, 1 in 4 of you are using AI tools like ChatGPT or Claude on a weekly basis.
If you’re not one of them—and you don’t want to be—you can disregard this!
But for those of you already using these tools, I want to suggest some ways to apply them to your romantic relationships. [Read more…] about Ways ChatGPT Can Help You In Love
Tell me 3 reasons you don’t feel attractive.
Nearly all of us have times when we don’t feel attractive. [Read more…] about Men Struggle When Women Feel This Way
When you’re a grown woman, using the type of love advice that teenagers and thirsty 20-somethings use is humiliating.
You’re an adult. You don’t want to manipulate people.
You want something real. You don’t want to have to perform [Read more…] about 5 Things Grown-Ups Know About Love
It’s scary to consider the idea that love may not be the main emotion at play in your relationship.
You need to believe your partner loves you. Questioning that—even for a moment—can feel catastrophic. [Read more…] about Can You Love Each Other & Still Hate Each Other Sometimes?
Do you think it’s possible for a man to love you a lot and just never show it?
Do you think it’s possible for a man to be totally selfish and still love you?
Do you think it’s possible for a man to be incredibly hurtful and still love you? [Read more…] about Look For This Clue to How He Feels
I feel a bit cringe when I write anything about “How to Make a Man Love You More.”
Because there’s something important I’m leaving out.
You CAN’T make some men love you more. [Read more…] about His Love Capacity
I wish someone had taught me what I’m teaching you now.
Twenty years ago, I didn’t know how to fix a relationship or how to end it. I’d let things get so bad he’d break up with me.🤦♀️
Bad boyfriends broke me, but they also taught me the need to grow a backbone. [Read more…] about Difficult Relationships With Difficult Men Part III
When you’re in a difficult relationship, you just want him to change.
But he’s so stubborn. He refuses to change his hurtful behaviors or get any help.
And why should he? [Read more…] about Difficult Relationship With Difficult Men Part II
What do you do when all that great relationship advice doesn’t work with your particular partner?
He mocks you when you express your feelings. He refuses to try anything new. He maintains that you’re the problem, not him. [Read more…] about Difficult Relationships With Difficult Men: Part I
In 1991, Alison Armstrong got a phone call that stopped her in her tracks.
A friend called her out on the way she spoke to men.
Alison didn’t believe it at first. [Read more…] about Never Say A Bad Word About Men Again?
In the 20th Century:
You have an obligation to keep yourself attractive for him.
In the 21st Century:
You have an obligation to yourself to enjoy your body. [Read more…] about This Affects His Desire for You
In the 20th Century:
Forgive & forget.
In the 21st Century:
Fix it.
Good people forgive and forget. [Read more…] about Should You Keep Forgiving Him?
In the 20th Century:
Men are only attracted to women living their best life.
In the 21st Century:
Your best life may not leave you with room for anyone else.
I came of age in the 1990s, and all the women’s magazines I devoured told me the same thing: [Read more…] about Rethinking “Living Your Best Life”
