In the 20th Century:
If you do the right thing, everything will be all right.
In the 21st Century:
All you can do is make healthy choices for yourself and the relationship. [Read more…] about Older, Wiser, and Readier for Lasting Love
The REAL Relationship Litmus Test
In the 20th Century:
What you do in bed is make it or break it.
In the 21st Century:
What you do when you hurt each other is make it or break it. [Read more…] about The REAL Relationship Litmus Test
Is It Your Fault It Didn’t Work Out?
In the 20th Century:
If you’re good enough, he’ll stay.
In the 21st Century:
If you create something good together, he’ll stay.
It feels so personal. [Read more…] about Is It Your Fault It Didn’t Work Out?
Marry Him, Marry His Family
In the 20th Century:
You marry each other.
In the 21st Century:
You also marry each other’s parents, grandparents, and ancestors. [Read more…] about Marry Him, Marry His Family
Prove Your Love by Putting Him First?
In the 20th Century:
Love is putting others first.
In the 21st Century:
Love is inclusive. (It includes you.) [Read more…] about Prove Your Love by Putting Him First?
Wish You Could Change Him? What That’s Really Telling You…
In the 20th Century:
Change him.
In the 21st Century:
Change yourself.
When you’re frustrated with your love life – you want him to treat you better [Read more…] about Wish You Could Change Him? What That’s Really Telling You…
From Falling in Love to Forever
In the 20th Century:
Falling in love is just the beginning.
In the 21st Century:
Falling in love is the whole point.
Every love story begins with falling in love. [Read more…] about From Falling in Love to Forever
Choose Him, Choose Your Tomorrows
In the 20th Century:
You’re choosing a person.
In the 21st Century:
You’re choosing a life.
The stories of old told us this: [Read more…] about Choose Him, Choose Your Tomorrows
He’ll Leave If You Ask Too Much of Him (Won’t He?)
In the 20th Century:
Don’t ask too much of him.
In the 21st Century:
You don’t get if you don’t ask.
Men are busy – don’t bother them.” [Read more…] about He’ll Leave If You Ask Too Much of Him (Won’t He?)
What He Wants When He Wants a Relationship
In the 20th Century:
A relationship is a step on the road to marriage.
In the 21st Century:
A relationship is whatever you decide it is.
Not everyone wants the same thing from a relationship. [Read more…] about What He Wants When He Wants a Relationship
Is Your Relationship Helping You Grow Up?
In the 20th Century:
Marriage makes you an adult.
In the 21st Century:
Marriage can make you childish.
Marriage used to mark the transition between youth and adulthood. [Read more…] about Is Your Relationship Helping You Grow Up?
Where Is Your Love Taking You?
In the 20th Century:
A relationship tests your ability to build a life together.
In the 21st Century:
A relationship tests your ability to heal one another. [Read more…] about Where Is Your Love Taking You?
Is Your Relationship Built to Weather the Storm?
In the 20th Century:
You know you’re good together if you hardly ever fight.
In the 21st Century:
You know you’re good together if you can handle each other’s emotions. [Read more…] about Is Your Relationship Built to Weather the Storm?
Do Men Really Prefer Respect to Love?
In the 20th Century:
Men prefer respect to love.
In the 21st Century:
You can’t be loved by someone who doesn’t respect you.
It all started with a question: [Read more…] about Do Men Really Prefer Respect to Love?
Is Your Love Life Better When You’re Friends?
In the 20th Century:
The foundation of a strong sexual connection is polarity.
In the 21st Century:
The foundation of a strong sexual connection is friendship.
If you look for advice online on how to create chemistry, you’ll be served up a heaping helping of polarity. [Read more…] about Is Your Love Life Better When You’re Friends?
